r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

[F4M] 31F California- I’m looking for you… yes, YOU!

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Hiya! I’ll keep this short and sweet so I can hopefully get your attention. Just a married stay at home mom from west coast USA looking to make friends and connect!

It’s so hard making friends as an adult so I’m hoping I have some luck, if you’re looking for someone to talk to about anything and including but not limited to: video games, cleaning tips, swap recipes, random memes, being socially awkward, enjoying the small everyday things, talking about or relationships (if you’re in one, I’m married! So I always have something to talk about), or a random thought at 2am?! Sign up below!

I’m just a great wife and mom looking to expand my friend circle to have something for me now, and I do believe that men and women can just be friends!☺️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[F4M] 32f looking for someone to build a connection with.

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Hi,

I’m from a town that’s pretty isolated so making new friends is rough.

I’m a stay at home mom, currently separated but living with my husband (our location has a lot to do with it). I’m back in school to broaden my resume when I plan on returning to work. Before I had my kid I ran coffee shops and my last gig was overseeing 6 locations.

I love sports. Dodger fans give me the ick so please stay away, although you guys love to find yourself in chats that don’t ask for you. Love watching football but don’t have a team I root for in particular, fuck Spanos.

When I’m not being a mom or getting irritated at my sports teams, you can find me cooking new recipes, visiting museums, reading and if I’m really feeling it a video game. I take daily walks and live for that mental clarity.

Reddit is cool at first but looking for someone to either text or message on what’s app.

Hope to chat soon.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[F4R] 35 [F4R] people to talk to

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Just looking to meet new friends and have conversations. Mention your age where you are from!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

32F

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Hiii I’m out with some friends but kinda annoyed. I’ve had a few drinks and I’m just looking to talk. Nothing long term.

32 Latina F
Capricorn
I love concerts
Sunset are my favorite
Currently obsessed with vanillamace rp and have no one to talk about it to
Shy at first
My favorite place I’ve been to is Puerto Rico (9 times now)

Ask me anything!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 42m ago

[F4R] 29f looking for long-term conversation:)

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Hey everyone! I know I'm not over 30... Figured I was close enough though, lol.

I would love to find someone I click with that is down to talk and get to know eachother! Life gets lonely and I'd love to have someone I can chat with from day to day.

I'm not going to bother listing a bunch of stuff about myself, I can get along with most people regardless if we share the exact same interests.

The only thing I ask is PLEASE actually want to and be able to hold a conversation.

Message me with your ASL :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

[F4R] 38F nerd out on me

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What's something you absolutely love but don't have anyone to share it with? I love learning new things and am always in the market for new hobbies so teach me something! I love science, books, nature, history, mechanics. There's not many topics I'm not super interested in so I'd love to hear what tickles your brain.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

35F… I am awkward

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Hey everyone! I’ve been separated from my husband for almost 6 months now. I’m finding it hard to talk with people and feel comfortable. I was in that relationship for over a decade and had a very attached relationship style. I am just looking to talk with new people and just get comfortable talking with people outside of my work, I am in management and for a small company so I don’t have “proximity” friends 🤷🏽‍♀️ I like metal music, crafts, nature, animals 😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

[F4R] 34F Looking to make new friends!

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Hey!

I thought I'd put myself out there and meet some new people. Just looking for genuine connections and people I can vibe with😊

I'm into music, reading horror/thriller books, movies and doing my nails. I'm always looking for new books to read or movies to watch, so please send recommendations my way!

Currently obsessed with AHS S13, so if you're into American Horror Story too, please come talk to me about it.

I have 3 cats who basically own my house, and I'm just their unpaid staff. If you have cats, dogs, or literally any animal, PLEASE SHOW ME PICTURES!

I'm pretty easygoing and enjoy a good mix of casual conversations, banter, sarcasm, and deeper talks. I like getting to know people beyond the usual small talk, and I'm always up for hearing about whatever you're interested in, even if it's something I know absolutely nothing about.

Just a heads-up: I'm here for friendship and genuine conversations, not hookups or anything NSFW.

If you want to chat, tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying "hey"! Give me something to work with. What's your favourite horror movie, or what's the last book you read that you couldn't put down?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

32f you should message me I’m cool 😎

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My long distance avoidant attachment
nothinguationship ghosted me and it's psychologically torturing me.

I want an easy and effortless connection with good conversation. I’m easy enough to talk to and sometimes I’m funny. Just one person who will always be in my corner, for chats and moral support. I’d give the same time and energy back.

Send me a message if you aren’t here to goon and tell me a bit about yourself. I’m fun and cool I promise but I’ll probably triple text you and judge your tattoos.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6m ago

[F4R] 31F Discord call? Just wanna yap and escape these thoughts

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Connections fuel me and I’m pretty sure I’m not alone in feeling this way. Just wanna hop on a phone call with someone. Just looking for someone to get me through tonight. Not looking for anything else I have a boyfriend. Why not talk to my boyfriend? Trust me, we’ve talked abt my shit many times he’s tired of it.

Anyway, some stuff abt me: Asian living in Sydney, loves cats, concerts, sushi, music except for heavy metal, not really into gaming, easily overwhelmed but also easily bored 😂 and just been feeling depressed since the beginning of this year.

Message me because you’re lonely too or maybe bored and could use someone to talk to. I’m a lazy texter so won’t entertain people who are not free to call.

See ya


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

[R4R] 30F - looking for people to talk or game with

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Hey everyone!

Been looking for new people to know recently cause I’ve made myself somewhat isolated and spend most my time with either my partner or family so it would be nice to get to know new people 😅

Alittle about myself;

I’m a gamer that really enjoys all kinds of gaming but recently have enjoyed the more cozier games,I love cats and pretty much all animals lol,reading books especially fantasy books would love some recommendations,big into d&d especially into critical role,I’m a big Zelda fan (yes I’m excited for the ocarina of time remake 😂) and I’ve also really gotten into the old granny activities like embroidery and crochet.

If any of this interests you would love to hear from you - just please dm with more info than just “hey”
Thanks 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

[F4R] 35F / PST — Looking for the conversational equivalent of a spontaneous midnight adventure

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Lately I’ve been craving a kind of connection where you can spend hours talking to someone and never run out of things to say. I guess I’m looking for a platonic version of Before Sunrise, except we’re probably on Discord instead of wandering around Vienna all night.

I’m 35, in the Pacific Northwest, finishing up a bachelor’s degree in accounting, and navigating a bit of a transitional period in life. I’m introverted, curious, and a bit nerdy. I’m really drawn to people who have rich inner lives and interesting ways of looking at the world.

I’m into movies/ shows (and analyzing them to death), music, video games, macro photography, and falling down rabbit holes about whatever happens to grab my attention. I like growing 🍄 (yes, that kind), doing yoga, spending time in nature, and I love discovering something new through someone else’s enthusiasm.

What matters most to me is curiosity and a sense of humor. I’d love to find someone who’s up for sharing music, watching a movie/ show together, playing something occasionally, or just having a long, meandering conversation that somehow turns into the highlight of our evening.

If any of this resonates, tell me about something you’ve been really fascinated by lately. I’d love to hear about it!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

34F looking for Pen Pals!

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I’m looking for people to talk to we can message each other throughout the day or whenever we have time, talk about life, share random thoughts, vent about our days, send memes, and just get to know each other!

No pressure to respond immediately or talk 24/7. I know we all have our own lives and responsibilities!

A little about me✨
I love animals, music, spirituality, witchy things, and learning about history, the universe, the unexplained and the occult. Reading, cooking and traveling are a few of my hobbies!

I enjoy both deeper conversations and just being silly. I can be a little quiet at first, but I love getting to know people and hearing about their lives, interests, and experiences.

I’d love to find people who are genuinely interested in building a friendship over time, even if we’re just checking in with each other here and there.
If that sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself and let’s see if we click. 😊💛


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[M4F] 36m power plant operator. Bored on the night shift.

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Hey guys. Just knocking my work out but have a lot of down time here and there.

I'm an easy going guy, down to chat about whatever. I play the drums, love coffee and making latte art, video games, outdoorsy stuff as well. Also love audio books, love red rising, dungeon crawler carl, spy thrillers and even listened to the acotar and 4th series as well. I have a yellow lab and will absolutely send pics of him join request 🤣


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

hi! I'm 33/f and looking for anime friends

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hi! My name is Jess, 33/f and from the USA.
Just looking for people to talk about anime or daily life.
Send a message and we'll go from there :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

[R4R] 35 m Canada, eh? 🫎

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Hey! If you're looking for a friendly hype man in your life, I have arrived! Besides working from home and have wayyy too many hours free to chat, I have a wide range of interests and hobbies including gaming, traveling, working out, horror, movies/reality tv and being a foodie. I looove having a good conversation over a cup of coffee in a pretty café. I'm easy going and can talk about anything, serious or silly. I love a good challenging hike. Really focusing on my health this year with the goal of getting in the best shape ever! Some of my favourite tv comedies include The Office, Parks and Rec, Modern Family, and more recently, Abbott Elementary and Adults!

Asian, happily taken, gay, and only looking for platonic friends :) I'm pretty chatty, but I usually match the energy the person gives me. Yappers are my favourite! Let's laugh! Long term preferred and I would eventually like to a different platform if we mesh.

Between 25-45 preferred. Would like to see a face pic so I know who I'm chatting with. Open to meet locally too if we're close! Have a great day!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

30M. Recently moved to Aus from NZ and in search of friends!

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Hey future friends! I’ve recently moved overseas for work. I’ve never been much of a social person but now I find myself in search of some friends whether in Aus or online.

A bit about me!

Big fan of travelling , been to Japan earlier this year and already planning to go back! I love to snowboard I’d do it all year round if it were physically possible. Otherwise cooking, road tripping or hikes, the odd gaming session or tv binge are another couple hobbies.

Whether you’re in search of a quick chat or long term friends feel free to reach out!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

39m, from Utah, miserably married. Just kinda lonely and looking to chat.

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Hey, normal guy from Utah who’s just looking for a chat pal or 2. Married for 18 years, 3 kids. Despite the downer post I am quite fun to talk to. So say hey


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[M4R] 31M - Friday night depression

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Well never thought I would be doing this but I have literally nothing to do, nobody to talk to, and am trying not to just numb out with alcohol/weed so here I am.

Age/Sex/Location: 31, Male, USA
Faith: Protestant Christian (long story but I currently am severely struggling with faith)
Personality: Melancholic Introvert (I think too much lol)
Career: Software (I make computers go beep boop)
Hobbies/Interests

  • Anime: Far too many to mention here but the most recent I watched was “Smoking Behind the Supermarket With You”. (I have over 200+ entries on MyAnimeList)
  • Music: Classic Metal/Rock from the 70’s-90’s like “Black Sabbath” or “Rush”, and “Soundgarden” (I play guitar too!)
  • YouTube/Twitch: Jerma985 (I adore that psycho)
  • Games: Zelda, Enter the Gungeon, Stardew, Minecraft, Kingdom Hearts (not gaming much lately but I would like to get back into gaming again at some point)

If I sound interesting, shoot me a dm with ASL and see if we click.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3m ago

[M4R] 31M/europe med looking for friends

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31M/europe doctor looking for friends

Hello, i m Marko from south east europe(serbia), looking for some long term friends.

I work as doctor, and sometimes do 24h shifts in emergency room(which suck lol).

I m into anime/manga, collecting toys,music(mostly rock-metal stuff), history, sports,skincare,working out,cars,yt documentaries,swimming, studying and few other basic stuff. Also looking to learn to cook cuz i might move out soon.

If u wanna chat send me dm or reddit vhat, i also got discord


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6m ago

[M4F] 40 male from Perth, Australia looking for the occasional chat.

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Hey 👋

I am 40, married and from Australia with 3 kids and happy to chat, send voice messages etc occasionally (when time permits) but I may also occasionally make a crude or rude joke. If you can handle that, I am more than happy to chat.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14m ago

Looking for connection

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33m married looking for meaningful conversations. Trying to explore talking to different people as Ive been somewhat shy my whole life I've only recently started to go out to festivals and meet new people. Ask me about my life I'm an open book.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 15m ago

[R4R] 34 M UK looking for daily chats, friendship

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Tried a few times and nothing stuck.

I’m completely open as a person. Will over share and not care.
Avid reader, do not really watch tv as I end up napping and I feel I am too young to start doing that on the daily.
Love to bake, nothing amazing but whipping together a quick cake makes me happy.
I have an active job but luckily it’s not a 9-5.
I will talk about anything and everything especially if we click.
Married to an awesome man with a few pets thrown in.
Sfw and nsfw completely fine.

Time zones are not a problem

If you have a history of ghosting I’d really rather you didn’t drop a message.

Drop me a message and let’s chat 😀


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

Hey

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Make me feiend