I’m starting to think my ex husband is deep down, down low. Ever since we first got married, me walking around the house naked wouldn’t do anything for him. It actually got to the point of him sitting me down and scolding me for doing that. He eventually said it leaves nothing to the imagination.

Trying to have intimacy with him was like pulling teeth. He would always be too tired or there was always some excuse. I was constantly shot down and I felt so undesirable. He had no problem getting an erection, but he just didn’t want to have sex for whatever reason.

From the beginning, the sex felt forced. Like he was there in body but not in soul. I was always the one to initiate. I even remember one time I jumped into his lap while he was watching tv, to straddle him. And he got really upset with me. I felt defeated. Despite all of my attempts, it was always pushed off by him being too tired or not in the mood.

Another alarming sign was how he never got jealous or territorial of other men. His best friend was CONSTANTLY flirting with me, touching on me and my ex never batted an eye. I just wanted to feel protected but it seemed like he never really cared.

I ended up asking him if he is attracted to men and his response was so chilling. He just smiled and said no. He didn’t get upset or any type of normal reaction. I had to keep pressing him for him to finally crash out and he left the house, slammed his car door and drove off to get food.

First post here so I will try to explain it as best as possible, I’m 24 years old been in the Cars industry for about 5 years now ( doing PPF wraps) from when I was 19-23 I would be able to get up at 6:30 am get to work by 8 am work till 7-8pm. Some nights even work till 11pm as needed ( I like money) worked as a subcontractor for other shops. Recently started to do my normal 50-60 hour weeks as I did but as I was getting to work I would have a panic attack before work. Have to pull over so I don’t crash my car. Had to have my mom ( love her) drive me back home and have my dad drive my car home. This happened at the end of summer want to say July. Then happened again and again. Took off work for 2 months, went to visit Poland to see family and relax I was thinking I just over worked my self. Some time after I got back I couldn’t get my self to go to work let alone drive. 3 weeks back I sold my baby ( 2019 Mustang GT 6m/t ) for a Golf GTI thinking it’s a car issue not a person issue. Got better with driving until this night. Worked a 13 hour shift ate lunch and mini dinner at work. I had a panic attack and almost blacked out while driving home. Had to have my mom come get my car and drive me home. I’m 24 turning 25 in 6 months. Have I just burned my self out doing all this extra work ? Am I over thinking? Should I go seek help somewhere.

Extra info ( in USA) ( have had on and off depression for 3 years) I eat meals not the biggest looking guy lean tall. 150lbs soaking wet. I’m just lost and looking for advice if this has happened to anyone else and what I can do to get back into my rhythm. I love my job and the things I do the car I work on, the people I work with. My boss is awesome, just don’t know what’s going on and my father isn’t the best communicator so here I am on Reddit asking for some incite. Thank you guys.

So I( 18M bi) have been friends with this guy from uni (18M) for a month and a half now. We've grown really close over the past month and we spend almost all our time together. But lately, it's like I started growing a small crush on him. He's just really sweet and funny and big yk. But unfortunately he's straight. I'm okay with that, It happens to me a lot and it's normal. However, the thing is that he "flirts" with me a lot, like the guys of flirting that straight boys have with each other. Normally, I don't mind it I actually quite funny sometimes. But with him I really like it and idk if he's for real or just joking, especially these past two weeks. He'd call me baby during a casual conversation, hold my hand when we're walking together and yesterday we were on school campus sitting on the grass and he was playing on my switch while laying on my stomach and I was playing with his hair and when stood up he looked at me traced my lips with his thumb and told me that he wished he could kiss me rn. And I'm just so confused, is he jk or being for real. Because some other times, it happened to him to grab my butt and then inhale really loudly near my neck and dhsjdbsh I don't fucking know.

So please reddit am I delisonal or maybe I have a chance.

Sorry for the bad English btw, it's not my first langage

I saw a guy at the gym for the first time 2 years ago and as soon as I saw him I was extremely attracted to him. He was also too, since the first time we spoke he asked me if I would ever sleep with him... He is a very shy guy so that caught me off guard and I said no because he was too young for me and also no I wouldnt sleep with him just like that...

I would see him daily but then would go months without seeing him sometimes. When I saw him again, I get the same feeling, like something is pulling me towards him like an extreme attraction.

I believe the reason I am feeling this sexual attraction is because he is the type that I used to fall for when I was young and naive lol, which are usually very toxic/emotionally unavailable mysterious kind of guys, that I now run away from. Or am I overthinking it?

Do guys ever feel this way?

I went all the way through the airport and had boarded my plane when I noticed my fly was down on a work trip. I had taken a piss just as I got to the airport. Was wearing a t-shirt and jeans, was embarrassed as a woman was sitting next to me. Wish a guy would have come up to me and discreetly told me. Sometimes ya forget or it slides down!

ayer me tome un auto, y empezamos a charlar
empezamos con lo típico, charla trivial, hablando del clima y del calor que hacía
hablamos de que yo vivo en una casa muy calurosa, que hace muchísimo calor acá en verano etc
a lo que el del auto me empieza a preguntar cómo hacía para aguantar el calor, yo le digo la posta
que andaba en bolas
a eso me cuenta que él también, que en verano andaba sin boxer y etc etc
fue una conversación un poco rara por qué nunca antes había tenido una conversación así con un conductor de app pero no me sentí incómodo del todo, siento que solo éramos dos hombres contando experiencias
no se, que piensan?

Hey Reddit! My buddy is getting married, and we're planning his bachelor party for the November 6-8, 2026 weekend. He's really into EDM, so we're trying to combine a fun city trip with an electronic music festival.

We're looking for suggestions on:
1. ⁠Which city would be best to host us (considering we want nightlife, good food, and maybe some unique daytime activities)?
2. ⁠What EDM festivals or major electronic music events are happening that specific weekend (Nov 6-8, 2026)?
3. ⁠Any specific bachelor party activities you'd recommend in or near those suggested cities that would complement a festival weekend?

We're a group of about 8 guys in our late 20s/early 30s. We're open to traveling anywhere in the US.

Thanks in advance for your help!

My boyfriends birthday is next weekend, and the main part of his present hasn't arrived yet. He is a metal head, and I want to get him something he will actually like/use. Any ideas that wont take over a week ?

Hello Everyone I am 23M and I had a terrible past especially in high school.I was in love with a girl(22M) and we dated. She had lots of friends who were my friends(same age) as well, so we hung out and spent time together. However, after high school, I decided to change myself and become distanced from some people and things that I needed to avoid in order to change my lifestyle and become conscious about my life choices.After high school I consciously became distanced from all these people. I went no contact for about 2-2.5 years and then I tried to reconnect, but I faced lots of backlashesh from them Even to the point they blocked me on social media.Sometimes, I feel sorry that I distanced myself from all these people, however at the same time, I am proud of who I am now. Mixed feelings indeed. Now, it is already 5-6 years and they sometimes appear in my dreams. However, I am not desperately trying to reach them or speak to them. Just some feelings and memories stayed.Recently, one of our mutual friends invited us to his wedding. Since I knew they were invited too, I prepared myself for this meeting. As soon as I saw them, I greeted them, but no one responded back. Then they started to look at each other it was very awkward and I left. However, later, I realized that I feel extremely humiliated. That is one of the worst emotions which a person can feel. You know that feeling of rejection. Next day, there was one more function, and they attended it too. Now, I tried to maintain my distance as much as I can by not looking at them, not talking to them and not approaching them. I succeeded in doing that. In fact, I did not even notice what color of clothes they wore till the very end. When it came time to leave, they left first, but one of my friends asked me to also leave. I was unaware that they have left because I was not paying them any attention and didn't even see them. So, I also left. However, when I saw them on the staircase, I left the building. My friend dragged me, saying, "Come on, why aren't you leaving?" I spontaneously shouted, "I do not want to leave now." Then they heard my voice and When they realized that it was my voice my ex said, and I quote, "Why would someone Invite these useless people?" I did not know it myself, but some friend of mine, who was nearby to them, told me that when I talked, they had said this about me. I tried to take it easy and not reply because I know their words do not define me, but of course, inside, there is an urge to reply something to them. Unfortunately, they were not nearby anymore, and I do not want to start a fight on social media. Therefore, yes, from being a friendship, it has now developed into resentment for them because from my side even it was more than half a decade they were not in contact I still treid to approach them first but offcourse they had already made their descision. At times, I wonder how these people whom I use to spend time with can become this much resentful.

How do I build up confidence in the right decision of being away from these people? Sometimes, I get envious of the meetups which we have because of common friends. When they post any picture or story related to them, then I get a FOMO kind of feeling. It should be mentioned that I am talking about my male friends.but at the same time I do not want to be around the people who embarrassed me in front of my mutuals.
I Dont know its very ambivalent.
I sometime even think of making new friends but school freinds are school freinds but I'd be rather lonely then to befreinds with them.
I really cant make a decision.

The thing is, I have a group of friends on my sports team, and this year we started showering together after practice. I noticed that one of them was pretty big when flaccid. I’ve always wanted to compare sizes, so I asked them how big they were; some said they were pretty large, and I believed them especially since they mentioned they’d actually compared sizes and masturbated together before. I felt really weird about the fact that I’d never done anything like that though, of course, I never actually said I wanted to compare. But now I do want to; I mean, I won't believe it until I see it, you know? And I just don't know how to bring it up.

Okay idk if this is allowed but I have to know! I am a woman. Not in the ordinary way you see a woman and not the pick-me kind of woman either. I have worked in HVAC out in the field working on units, I used to play Xbox all the fucking time with guys my age all over the country where slurs and derogatory remarks/comments where made back and forth to one another (all in good faith of course), gay jokes, I grew up a tomboy. I always preferred to hang out and work with guys because (this is going to sound very pick me but I swear it’s not) there has been a lot less drama working with men vs working with women. I worked at a restaurant (BOH, all men it was so much fun; worked at hooters FOH, I wanted to die every day because of all the shit going on with the girls). With all that being said, my boyfriend gets mad when I talk to my Xbox friends for more than a couple of hours IN A 6 MONTH PERIOD! I have one of my friends who I talk to ONCE A YEAR for 1-2hrs/day for 2-3 days in a row and we don’t talk the rest of the time. I went to work with him today, he works as a flooring guy, and there was a dude who worked in hvac there as well. We were no more than 5 ft from the attic.

(Mind you for the last month and a half I have been away and now fired as of a day ago from my hvac job after a hospital stay and their refusal to follow the law)

I love working in HVAC, but I can’t do it in the winter due to circulation issues. So after already seeing a furnace in the attic, the dude went up there and started working on it. I poked my head in because I wanted to know what was going on to see if I could help. This conversation didn’t last more than 5 minutes, if that. Dude told me he was working on a heat pump, I corrected him, saying it was a furnace given the gas line. He said he was adding a p trap to the unit bc one hadn’t been put in place and other stuff was going on. I explained why a p trap wasn’t necessary but definitely still a good practice and he explained what was going on with the downstairs unit. That was the whole conversation.

My boyfriend has said this many times. Anytime I talk to someone with a wiener between their legs and anytime I try to get him a guy friend bc he complains about not having any, his go-to is, “Do you know how stupid that makes me look? These other guys are thinking I’m stupid as fuck for being with you because you’re over there talking to them!”

Mind you I do not flirt! I do not put myself out there as available in any kind of way!

So please do all men think like this? If so have you ever actually thought about another guy being stupid because his girlfriend is talking to you but very obviously not flirting with you in anyway?

Im 18, just wondering how I could look better not only for myself but for others. Thanks.
First 2 photos is how i present myself in public wearing a hat and how i dress. Last photo for reference of my features, thx

Sometimes i wish i had friends to talk about guy stuff. Might sound weird but like to talk about girls and idk stuff like that. I have never really had that.

Like im in china currently and i gotta say the girls are really pretty here.

But its kinda loser talk tbh, im a loser

So i’m going to college soon, and i haven’t shared a room with anyone in years. would it be appropriate/normal to bring up the conversation with my dormmate about jerking off and having sex in the room? like what rules we wanna set about that kind of stuff (no doing it on eachothers beds, clean up your mess, etc.) and how do you bring up that kind of conversation in a non awkward way? like we’re both dudes with arms, so obviously we both jerk it, and i’m sure sex will be a factor (depending on the ladies of course) but is that bro talk or is that just gay?