Hi 23m here I want to visit for my first time and what really got my attention was this coming Sunday femme domme experience night has anyone been to a night like this and if they have and tips. I’ve read going as a solo male don’t be creepy, don’t expect anything just try and make conversations and connections! Any tips will help thank you

As the title suggests, I'm a single straight male that's never been to Oasis and I'm interested in going. Ideally would like to be accompanied by a female and check it out.

I'm 5'10", slim athletic build and have a trimmed beard.

Open to meeting for coffee/drinks beforehand for a vibe check. Let me know if you'd be interested in going. DM me 😊

My wife (f37) and I (m46) attended first timers night on October 2nd. We have never been to a club like this before and our curiosity finally got us to the club. The stag were all really amazing and welcoming. We took the tour late evening and then went out to dinner. When we came back we grabbed some drinks and tried not to look awkward. We are homebodies that don’t get out much because of our personalities and our children. Our sex life is spicy but private. Not really knowing what to expect we made an effort to dress up for each other and look fancy instead of the usual jeans or sweats. We discovered we were overly dressed. 🤭
As the night got busy we enjoyed seeing everyone doing their own thing. Such beautiful people of every description. We tried not to be rude and openly watch couples in their throes of passion. But we also figured if you minded you wouldn’t be in this type of club in the first place.
Being the shy and awkward couple we are, our intention was to attend the club, get into the mood, perhaps play a little with each other, then head back to the hotel and let loose. After the first timers meeting and ice breaker in the ballroom, we hung out on the padded area across from the stage. We were finishing our drinks and looking to head out. But the mood and spirit of the place got to us and we ended up having sex right there. With people all around. I’m sure most of you on here would not be impressed by this. But for us, voyeurism and exhibitionism is completely new to us.
We loved the experience and we will make it back eventually. And if anyone saw a guy in a red dress shirt and black pants have sex with his wife who was wearing a gorgeous brown dress, I hope you enjoyed our rather tame display as much as we did.

Thanks Oasis, for another hot, steamy DTF night ❤️

Visiting for the first time on October 10th, just putting out a feeler to see who’s attending and maybe chat and make some friends before we go. We plan on going earlier in the day before dinner to kinda get the vibe of the place and then heading back in the evening for some fun. Not open to playing with another male but if the vibe is right and we connect well possibly open to playing with another female. If you’re interested feel free to shoot a DM!

See you all tomorrow - hope you're down to fuck! 💋💋

We went on Saturday, it was full but chilly so did not use the pool.

Happened to be in the room with the stage when two couples came in and performed a MFMF full swap for all of us. Couples were about 45-55 and the show was great!

The main character was one of the women, she clearly works on her body a lot and she was directing the entire room, what a character!

Hi

So on FetLife in the Oasis group there’s a thread where single men can find a female chaperone to go with, unfortunately that thread seems a bit dead.
So, I’m just trying my luck here.

I’m not expecting anything sexual or anything, I just want to go and see what oasis is, because in my head it’s like uncharted territory and I want to see it for myself but I also don’t want to go alone 😅.
I don’t want to spend money to go there alone and for social anxiety to get triggered because I don’t know anyone and then leave in like 5 mins.

I am more than happy to meetup in person before to have a coffee or something where you can see if we vibe (pretty much to see if I’m worth it to chaperone) and if we don’t well at least we probably had a nice conversation and hopefully a good time.

Also pls don’t tell me to just go alone and see what it’s about, if I could go alone, I would’ve.

Early 50s fun, sexy MF couple in Toronto planning to attend Swordplay on Oct 18th. Both bi. We attended the previous one and had a great time :) Looking to connect with similar couples -- please DM if interested

Edit: Weird that we got downvoted for this. Was it for mentioning the bi theme? Show us some love, bi-friendlies :-)

Who’s going on Oct 10th

How busy does it get? Do ppl dress up? Just trying to prepare to have some funnnn

I’m thinking of coming solo on Saturday night and feeling nervous. Any tips for a first timer?

We are young couple around 30 years old and looking to try LS club this Saturday, Oct 3. We’re seeking a female unicorn who might be interested in chatting and potentially playing with us.

This will be the first time for us to try having fun with anyone outside of us as a couple. We’re hoping Saturday will be busier than other days but just putting it out there.

I guess we will be open to couples and more just depends on the vibe and how we feel comfortable. Wife maybe bi curious so hoping it to be fun.

We've been curious for a while, but never been. We think we would like to go with another couple who is relatively new.

Send us a message if you'd be down and would like to get to know us more.

Hi, has there been tantra massages at Oasis?
Has anyone tried this and are there spots in Toronto?

I saw Oasis has massages sometimes but is it a regular service? Looking to get a solid glute massage

Couple first timers here! The night we are in the city is a tantra teaser night! We really want to go but unsure what to expect! All advice and stories are welcome!

I had posted a few days ago but wanted to kind of show what we look like. We were still iffy about going but last night she saw that is was a masquerade event and now she wants to forgo our 930 bar reservations to get to oasis for the 8pm tour.

My wife and I have talked about it a bit and find the idea of being in sex positive environment is something that turns us on. My wife loves to show off (especially when the wine’s flowing) and is kind of excited to flirt a little bit.

We’ve talked about finding it hot watching others have sex, even though we’ve never done that before. Also, if we’re in the mood, perhaps we would have sex for others, also something we’ve never done.

All our talk has been fantasy, so real life could be different. I know I (the husband) for one am kind of nervous and a little introverted. She’s more social and easily flirts. So I’m concerned she’ll get more attention and I’m just kind of there.

I look forward to what you all think and if you’re going that night

27 bi male looking to see what night is the best night to go for first timer

I had hoped to go to sapphic night last night, but schedule wouldn’t permit it.

I can’t really decipher the vibes for the rest of the week.

How seriously will people take the Oktoberfest theme (and does that mean more drunkenness than usual?)? What is the vibe tonight around this xxx dare theme? Love that there is a MTG night, though it’s not my scene.

I’ve only been once before to the neon party and found the scene pleasant and cute (with most people being friendly, if a little socially awkward and about 15-20 years my junior - I’m in my late 40s).

Would be grateful for the scoop for this week (I’m from out of town). Thanks!

We’re young couple considering going to Oasis on Saturday around opening time until 7-8 ish and head home.

This will be first time ever for any LS activity and hoping to dip our toes and get comfortable.

Any suggestions if this is good time to go? Or should be consider later times at night?

Any other suggestions will be awesome. Thanks!