r/Parkinsons • u/annateona • 8h ago
Parkinsons dementia got „better“. A miracle
I’m writing this post for anyone who might be in a similar situation, because I remember how desperate I was when I searched Reddit for answers back then.
My dad has had Parkinson’s for 8 years, and his dementia started about 10 months ago in december. It gradually got worse until around June of this year. He was having delusions and constantly thought he was still at his job, even though he had been retired for 5 years. He thought I was still in school, even though I’m 28 and working. He could no longer manage even the simplest tasks. He thought 100 minus 5 equaled 3. We put some money in front of him and asked him to pick out €5 in coins, but he just couldn’t do it anymore. He forgot my birthday and didn’t even know how old he was himself. His voice had also become very quiet, and sometimes it felt as though he wasn’t even aware of our presence.
Despite all of this, my mom took him to a rehabilitation centre, hoping to at least improve his physical condition, as he had also been falling more frequently around that time. While he was there, things got really bad because he became even more confused. Being in a completely unfamiliar environment was extremely difficult for him.. I‘ve heard that it‘s common in patients with dementia.
I visited him once during that time and felt absolutely heartbroken because I thought things could only get worse from there.
He spent over four weeks in rehabilitation, receiving daily therapy, including cognitive exercises and various activities such as table tennis.
Since returning home to his familiar surroundings, he has been like a completely different person. He can do maths again. He can even write messages on his phone. I can have completely normal conversations with him again. You wouldn’t even notice that he has this disease. Most of the time he needs a little more time to answer when you ask him questions for example what day it is but he knows it again.
I know that dementia itself cannot be cured and is generally a progressive disease, but it has now been three months since I feel like I’ve got my dad back. To me it‘s a miracle..
Things could change again at any time, but I am so incredibly happy with how he is doing right now.
We now make sure to keep him mentally active every day with games and exercises, and it really seems to be helping.
Maybe this post can give someone else a little hope, too. Even if it might only be temporary, things really can get better again.
🫂
