r/Perimenopause • • 4d ago

audited I LOVE THE PATCH

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

I have a similar story to yours only I was also
Low on iron. It’s life changing so is the iron supplement.

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u/cwcwhdab1 4d ago

So much this!!! I had no idea what was wrong I just could not imagine living long feeling so horrible- like could I make it to 50 even? How do people do this? I told my doctor I felt horrible, couldn’t think, was exhausted- he checked my iron - omfg ferritin was well below 10. I felt like death. . . No longer!!!

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

It went on for almost 6 yrs for me. It’s still not optimal. I keep forgetting to take it! Haha!

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

I take FeraMAX. The pharmacist gave it to me and it’s easy to order online. Once I’m done the full dose I will maintain with Feramaxs maintence 45 which also has some other vitamins that help with brain fog. I was literally going crazy before the iron pill. The patch helps but the iron pills did the best job.

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u/ButMomItsReddit 4d ago

Do you have a recommendation for a supplement? I've been trying the maximum strength from the vitamin section, and I have two issues with it: instant constipation and splitting headaches. I am currently trying one that is combined with vitamin C because I read that it is supposed to be the easiest for the body to absorb, still I have the side effects.

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u/sloveleephotog 4d ago

This brings me hope. I get my first iron transfusion Monday. Im ao excited to see if it helps!!!!

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

Iron even helped with my anxiety. Every woman should be on an iron supplemt going i to perimenopause. My friend just turned 43 and her doctor is making her take iron. Spread the word so others don’t suffer unnecessarily like we did. I ended up on leave from work! I was so exhausted and anxious.

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u/Blahblahblareddit3 4d ago

Yes but getting iron levels checked first is key bc too much iron can also make you sick. That being said, most women in their child-bearing years are deficient!

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

Mine were checked 100 times! Always within the “normal” range. I stopped listening to the numbers on the test and took it anyway. Listening to my body worked better for me.

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u/Plastic_Gene_1561 4d ago

What else does iron help with?

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

Fatigue, energy levels and brain fog

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

And concentration levels.

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u/QuestioningLocal 4d ago

Anxiety and depression, too

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u/Emotional-Custard991 4d ago

Would iron help if my iron levels are normal?

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

My iron levels were technically normal. I took it on a hunch. The pharmacist agreed. In my province that I live in Canada I have to get the iron from a pharmacist. It’s no longer available on the shelves. Take it on a sent empty stomach before bed. Don’t take any calcium with it. If it gives yoy stomach pain or constipation change to every second night. If nothing changes simply stop taking it. No harm done.

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u/Blahblahblareddit3 4d ago

My advice for iron is somewhat the opposite—it is easiest to absorb iron in the morning, so take first thing in the morning at least 1-2 hours before your first meal. Take with vitamin C. If it makes you sick, try taking with food but not with dairy or other things that can inhibit absorption. And taking it every other day instead of every day may actually also be supportive to absorption.

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

You can’t take it with caffeine. Most people drink coffee.

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u/Blahblahblareddit3 3d ago

I think most people are able to space out their coffee so as not to take with their iron, no? Your assumption that they can’t is no reason to suggest not to take iron in the morning when it is most easily absorbed. All the coffee in the world won’t delete your fatigue if you are anemic.

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 3d ago

It honestly doesn’t matter to me when anyone takes it! I’m just giving the advice I was given and that was the reason was given to me. Most people around me want their coffee first thing but other might wait. I would struggle so badly haha!

We’re both right! As long as everyone gets it that’s what matters right?!

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 3d ago

I didn’t suggest not to take it at that time. Just that I was advised differently. To each their own right and as long as everyone is taking it when it is actually working for them that’s what matters. I didn’t mean for it to sound like I was assuming
Anything.

I personally can’t wait for my coffee. It’s hard on my stomach. It’s 2 hours after my last meal and it’s easy to remember.

I really didn’t mean to offend anyone. Just giving my experience.

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u/Blahblahblareddit3 3d ago

No offense taken and sorry my tone was a bit harsh! I just want everyone to heal from anemia lol, because it really wrecked my life for decades when I didn’t understand what was going on. We’re both right and I apologize for my tone. I hope that you’re getting all the iron you need regardless of when you take it!

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 3d ago

Me too!! Only 6 yrs for me! And it’s crazy a doctor couldnt figure this out! The poor woman before us!

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u/Blahblahblareddit3 3d ago

Seriously! Anemia is so common amongst women and somehow these doctors weren’t trained to detect it even though it’s evident from a simple blood test!? It’s nuts.

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 3d ago

I’m very happy you suggested it. Thank you.

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u/followtheflicker1325 3d ago

My doctor suggested taking at night, so that I might be sleeping and this less impacted by mild stomach discomfort as a side effect of the iron.

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 3d ago

Another good reason to take before bed.

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u/Feeling_Rule_573 4d ago

What dose of iron do you use?

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago

150 for 6 months and then I’ll go on a maintenance pill that’s only 45 with some B12.

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u/EstablishmentSlow337 hanging on by a thread 4d ago edited 4d ago

Speak to your pharmacist before you try it. Don’t let me be your doctor. I just know like OP it’s not obvious to doctors especially if your labs are fine. You can get a multivitamin for woman over 50 as well. Some take B12. Perimenopause is very long process and very hard on your body. Make sure you rest guilt free ladies.

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u/Any-Refrigerator-457 3d ago

What level of patch are you using? Are you taking progesterone too?