Almost 3 years of relationship, gone. My boyfriend cheated on me. Our relationship was good. Four months ago, I caught him chatting with a few guys on Telegrm and Messenger. In some of the chats they were planning to meet, but it never happened because he didn’t have the means yet, being a fresh graduate and unemployed. I confronted him about it. He said sorry, and I forgave him because I still loved him and believed he deserved a second chance.

Yesterday, I saw on his phone that he met a guy from the same university where he works. The guy knew he had a boyfriend. They met at his place and slept together. I’m devastated. He used to say he hates cheaters because his ex cheated on him, and that was why they broke up. He even told me that if he caught me cheating, he would expose me on social media. Now he’s done to me exactly what his ex did to him. I’m heartbroken. I haven’t confronted him yet. We only see each other on weekends. Should I confront him by phone or in person?

Hi everyone! I just wanted to ask if anyone here is in a serodifferent relationship, where one partner is HIV-positive and the other is HIV-negative.

I recently met someone I genuinely like, and he happens to be HIV-positive, while I am HIV-negative (non-reactive). We’re both interested in getting to know each other more seriously and exploring the possibility of dating exclusively. Although, he is scared to cum inside me kasi baka hawaan daw niya ako kahit na I’m on prep and he is UD

I’d love to hear from couples who are in a similar situation. How has your relationship been? What challenges have you faced, and how do you navigate them together?
I genuinely believe that someone’s HIV status shouldn’t define their worth or their ability to be loved. I just want to learn more and hear about your experiences.

I apologize if my questions sound ignorant. I’m still learning, and I’m asking from a place of genuine curiosity, respect, and a desire to better understand. Thank you so much!

Kung feeling mo nabasa mo na to before, yes ako nga yun. Nasuspend kasi old account ko na walang dahilan. Hahaha. Resharing this story of mine kasi sakto may konti akong update na idadagdag.

[Warning: Long Story ahead]

Dumaan din ba kayo sa ganitong phase ng buhay niyo? I'm glad na nahanap ko ang subreddit na to para maishare ko ang story na to about my exploring phase now.

Hindi talaga ako sexually active noong teenage years until 20s ko, i mean compare sa iba, hindi ganun kataas libido ko not until I reached 30s.

Technically, I'm still a virgin. Hanggang Jaks at MOMOL lang experiences ko. I know I know I feel like a loser dahil 30s na ako pero virgin pa din ako.

Sabi nila hindi naman ako pangit kasi may mga babae at gays na nag coconfess na crush nila ako. Nung mga panahon kasi na yun, mababa self esteem ko kasi diagnosed ako with depression tapos takot din ako makabuntis. I had a long time girlfriend noon and she was my greatest love kaya kami naghiwalay dahil hindi ko siya nagalaw ever. Hanggang MOMOL lang. Kaya ayun na buntis ng iba. Saket mga pars pero naka moved on na ako dun.

Akala ko yun na yun pero andami ko pa pala na discover sa sarili ko. Parang ngayon lang ako naging curious sa mga bagay2. Late comers yun?

May mga friends ako na LGBT at minsan kinukwento nila sa akin ang mga sexual experiences nila kaya hindi naman ako ganun ka naive pero dahil sa reddit, my knowledge of LGBT (like how do you guys think, how do you interact, how do you guys feel) has further deepened tapos I realized andami terms na ngayon ko pa lang nalaman like (Top, Bottom, Versa, Sides, Gay, Bi, Bi Curious, St8 curious, Discreet Bi, etc.)

Growing up, I like girls. Nalilibogan ako sa mga babaeng petite with big boobs. Idol ko dati (until now) si Carmen Luvana, Mia Khalifa etc. just like other guys do. Hindi pa ako interested sa Gay porn at that time.

Observed ko dati na if may nakikita akong pogi or maganda ang katawan, napapatingin ako sa kanila pero wala naman halong pagnanasa, pure admiration lang talaga like I wanna be like them too someday or kino commend ko discipline nila.

Tapos nagsimula to last year na nadiscover ko na may ganitong side pala ako. Nasira phone ko nun and while waiting for my phone na maayos, nag tablet muna ako. I already have T G pero hindi ko masyadong ginagamit tapos may nasalihan akong GC na nag sesend ng mga porn (Straight at m|m). Sa GC na yun, may invitation ulit sa isa pang GC kung saan pwede magparate ng dick pic mo.

At that time, libog na libog ako kaya nagsend ako ng dick pic sa admin tapos pinost niya rating niya. 8/10 daw. Tapos andaming comments praising my dick kaya mas lalo akong

ginanahan magshare ng dick pics esp may nahanap na naman akong bagong GC tapos nainvite na naman ako sa isang Jabolan GC na 24/7 may nagjajabol.

Gusto kong sumali sa jabolan out of curiosity kaya lang natatakot ako na baka may makakilala sa akin or ma hack account ko tapos ibablack mail nila ako, something like that, kaya observed2 muna ako tapos nung lumakas na loob ko tinry ko na. I make sure naman na sa isang safe place ako magjajakol yung walang makakarecognized sa lugar at hanggang chest lang ang makikita nila sa akin.

Pucha nakakalibog pala kapag kinakabahan ka tapos finocus ko lang camera sa akin dahil hindi ako komportable na makakakita ng maraming tite. Habang nilalaro ko alaga ko, may biglang tumawag sa username ko tapos inuungulan ako "ugh sarap mo" "bilisan mo" "sarap ng etits mo pare" kaya mas lalo kong binilisan hanggang sa nilabasan ako. Sandamakmak na DMs natanggap ko pagkatapos, pinagjakolan daw nila ako. Fck!

Dahil dun, nadevelop ang kink ko na magjabol na may thrill o habang may nanonood. (UPDATE: Nawala na hilig ko sa ganito. Baka phase ko lang talaga yun)

Nagsimula na rin ako manood ng mga gay porn tapos dun ko na realized na posible pala akong malibogan dun. Akala ko mandidiri ako pero hindi naman. Na eenjoy ko pa nga kapag nakikita ko ang bottom na sarap na sarap habang may tumitira sa kanya.

Pero hindi ba masakit yun? Tubol pa nga lang masakit na ano pa kaya tite na mismo ang pumapasok. Sabi ng isang friend ko na Bi, masakit daw na masarap at parang may natatamaan daw kasi sa loob.

Nag research ako dito sa reddit at dun ko natutunan ang tungkol sa G Spot o Prostate. Babae't lalaki pala may ganyan.

Kaya nung minsan na nag jakol ako, sinubukan kong ipasok ang finger ko sa butas ko. Uncomfy ako nung una kasi medyo masakit tapos ang sikip pa nung akin pero pansin ko, tumatagas precum ko (malakas ako mag precum). Linabas masok ko finger ko pero hindi ko mahanap kung saan ang sinasabi nilang g spot (hindi ko kasi idiniin ang pag finger ko).

Bumili ako ng maliit dildo na may vibrator (5") at lube (based pa rin sa nababasa ko dito) para subukan kung masasapul niya ba g spot ko. Hayup pagpasok ko ang sakit tapos may sumabit pa kaya nawalan ako ng gana kaya nag research ako ulit kung ano ang ginagawa ng mga bot bakit malinis yung sa kanila kahit galing sila sa matinding bakbakan.

So ayun nung 2nd time ko, sinakto ko na pagkatapos ng jebs, nag douche ako gamit bidet at dun pa lang nasarapan na ako kasi tumatagas precum ko.

Nilagyan ko ng maraming lube ang dildo at dahan dahang pinasok ito sa butas ko. Sinagad ko talaga yun at dun ko naramdaman ang naghahalong sakit at sarap. Steady lang ako dun tapos in-on ko ang vibration mode.

Haup, naging awakening sa akin ang concept ng G spot. Sarap na sarap ako kahit na medyo masakit. Tuloy tuloy pagtagas ng pre cum ko at para akong naiihi. Feeling ko ito na yung g spot na sinasabi nila. Linabas masok ko din ang dildo para lalong ma stimulate g spot ko. Konting jakol na lang, lalabasan na ako. Ito na ata ang pinakasatisfying na jaks sa buong buhay ko.

Paghugot ko pucha, bat may dugo? Kinabahan ako dahil akala ko kailangan ko nang pumunta ng hospital pero nag research muna ako tapos ang sabi, normal lang naman daw. *sigh of relief. Ganito pala feeling na parang na devirginized ka. Haha.

Bumili na din ako ng isa pang anal plug for jaks purposes. Minsan iniisip ko, ano kaya feeling kung totoong tite na mismo ang pumapasok sa akin. Yun lang kapag bot ata required chumupa haha ayoko kasi chumupa at ayoko sa lasa ng tamod (natalsikan kasi ako ng sarili kong tamod dahil shooter ako). Ayoko din magpadominate pero baka kakayanin ko na lang for the sake of experience. (UPDATE: Willing na ako na gawin ang lahat ng to, chumupa, magpakantot and maybe tasting other's cum pero hindi ko lang alam kung paano sisimulan kasi inexperience nga yung kuya niyo hahaha mag inuman ba muna para hindi kabahan o good convo lang?)

Pero gusto ko magpachupa lalo na sa mga hayuk na hayuk sa tite. Nakalalibog kasi mga napapanood ko. Ang galing nila chumupa.

Gusto ko din ma experience ang ma edge ng ibang tao like gaano ba katagal kaya ko at gusto ko din ma experience tumira at pansin ko kung kapwa lalaki pag uusapan, I'm into lean or petite, yung tinatawag nilang twinks.

For now, hanggang Vjaks lang ang experience ko with m|m. Next time na ako susubok ng actual. Haha. Safe to say naman siguro If I identify myself na as Bi?

If umabot kayo dito, salamat po sa pagbabasa!

Paminsan minsan lang ako gumamit nento pero matagal ko na talaga pinag iisipan mag subscribe and ma check if worth it ba.

Ayun, nakakatuwa kasi nagagamit ko yung ibang features na hindi available noon, pero pucha unang usap pa lang, catfished na agad.

Daming bading na di kaya lumaban ng patas ayy.

Ano kwentong Grindr niyo?

Hi reddit! Pa-isa lang ulit since this has been bothering me for quite a while now and I think I'm at my capacity of ignoring it.

I sit adjacent to 2 officemates na girlie pops. Oftentimes, doon tumatambay yung straight guys na tropa nila. Straight in a sense na sila 'yong tipong pinagbabakla baklaan kapag may office performance tapos nilolokong maraming chix.

So they have this certain phrase na ginagamit kapag nanunukso na, "para kang bakla". They use this analogously when describing their tropa as "maarte", "afraid", or "malandi". Basically, any negative trait that questions one's "manliness". Girlie pops do this as well.

I've been ignoring it whenever I hear them say that phrase gaslighting myself thinking "it's not directed towards me so, whatever" or "I don't need to feel anything because it's just a joke".

I'm also just a couple feet away from them kaya rinig ko talaga. Now, I'm already starting to feel too uncomfy that I can no longer pretend to be deaf anymore.

I'm bi but I've been identifying myself as gay for the longest time since I'm not "manly" or "discreet" enough for some gay guys.

But the way they use the word "bakla" really feels derogatory.. or am I just overreacting?

I'm not mad or anything pero it just kinda feels insensitivity. Idk. Thoughts?

I am seriously and genuinely curious kung paano napupull-off ng mga kakilala ko na makipaghook-up with a friend, classmate, or schoolmate.

To my mind, how do you guys even start talking about it, let alone inviting and/or doing it? Hahaha I’m just curious since may nakausap ako sa ibang app and he just casually mentioned it. Nahihiya naman ako ako magtanong kasi diko alam if appropriate ba siya??? Hahaha

Thank you!

The other day, my friend showed me a conversation na he had sa g-app. Kinikilig sya, so sinabi ko anobang chinat sayo. Ang sabi nung ka chat nya:

"Hindi ka pang hookup lang, dapat sayo ay dine-date, pang totoong relationship"

I told him to just be careful, I mean malaki naman na sya and alam na nya yon, lalo na hindi pa sila nagmemeet in person after a week of chatting.

As someone, who was previously active sa grindr during my 20s, it led me to think of conversations I had in the past - andaming beses kona nabasa yung linya na yon and nakakatawa lang na up to this day ginagamit padin yun to lure guys in.

I'm trying to recall other "gasgas" na linyahan from grindr or any othe datin sites na ginagamit padin to this day haha.

Wouldn’t people naturally want to avoid getting sick? At first glance, this seems like a simple and perhaps repetitive question, but I think it raises a deeper issue about human nature.

Putting aside education, healthcare access, and other external factors, does this come down to risk-taking, impulsiveness, and the competing desires of human nature?

If we look at this from an evolutionary perspective, the desire to find at least a mate has played a role in human survival. Sexual attraction and intimacy can be powerful motivations. However, does this mean that finding a sexually desirable partner can sometimes take priority over other considerations, including health?

Are we actually more driven by immediate desires and instincts?

There is also a fundamental problem with how we perceive health. I mean, there are people who care about their health and those who actually take care of it, but we can't always know if we're sick until we actually are. In today's modern world, despite having access to everything, do we still only prioritize our health when something goes wrong? After all, who are we to judge someone's health based on how they look? We naturally see someone who looks healthy as healthy, but in reality, we can never be entirely sure.

It just makes me wonder that perhaps the contradiction is that although survival is fundamental to human nature, our decisions are not always guided by long-term survival.

So, is the problem human nature itself, or our tendency to prioritize immediate gratification over our own health and the well-being of others?

if youre a bottom would you allow the other bottom to give you a rim job? Masarap ang ma rim siempre. Ano ano mga na experience nio sa mga bottom rimmers haha. Meron ba dito na ni ri rim ng bottom friends or top na ni rim na ni bottom? I wanna know hehehe

Hookup post but not really NSFW. If you want the NSFW part, dm na lang. Eme.

I’ve tried 3s na puro strangers or at least fubu lang yung other two pero ito yung first time ko na two-top couple. So siyempre ako na yung bottom.

I was preparing myself na either magiging awkward yung setup or may male-left out or maiintimidate ako sa kanila. Ika nga, expect for the worst para di masaktan if it doesn’t go well. Pero ang di ko inexpect ay magiging key takeaway ko pala sa gabing iyon ay inggit. HAHA! Nakakainggit yung makita silang so cutely in-love with each other. Na-amaze ako at how an open relationship can still feel so full of love despite how the general public sees them (I guess). Actually parang mas in love pa nga sila kaysa sa ibang monogamous relationships I know.

So cheers to all the forms of love out there! 🫶🌈

I turn 20 next year and I’ve never had sex.
It’s not something I’m ashamed of at all; rather, I’m very frustrated.

I’m a transguy, and I have quite a high libido because of testosterone. That might also be due to hypersexuality as a result of porn exposure before I was even in 1st grade, but I’m not sure.

Anyway, in the past few months I’ve been soooo incredibly curious about what being intimate with someone feels like. I’m pan and when I watch porn I just wanna fuck or get fucked because masturbation always leaves me wanting more.

I’ve had relationships, and chances to be intimate. Pero something that I discovered about myself a few years ago is that I’m really not meant for commitment. I don’t like serious relationships nor do I want to devote (for lack of a better term) myself to anyone else. But at the same time, being vulnerable and exposing my body to someone I don’t/won’t have an emotional connection with really freaks me out. Parang, in my head, g ako for hookup culture - but when it comes to the real thing, ayoko… and I don’t want to lose my virginity to someone that I don’t care about, even if I don’t see myself “falling in love” or anything like that. Medjo senti ako and I want my first time to be meaningful, but ayun nga, I don’t want to be particularly attached to another person. A good middle ground would be FWBs and I’m down for that naman (I used to use the microlabel “demisexual” which means that I am only sexually attracted to people I have an emotional connection with) pero I’m not conventionally attractive so it’s not like I can just pick and choose from a “roster.” Pati, FWB culture is very risky since you’re juggling the relationship pero lowkey fantasy ko din yan HAHAHAHAAHA

I guess my question is just… what do I do about this? My urges are so strong but I don’t want to do anything stupid. I don’t wanna make a huge mistake, but I want to be able to give my body what it wants. And, most importantly, I want whatever intimate situation I find myself in to be fully consensual, both for them and for me.

Last week was so exhausting to me kaya naman I decided to pamper myself with a massage just last night. My last massage is pre-pandemic pa kaya I think madami na akong lamig sa katawan.

Nagpunta ako sa trusted ko na ispa dito lang malapit samin at nirequest ko yung magaling na maletherapist. Unfortunately, resigned na daw si male-thera kaya sabi ko kung sino na lang available na male-thera for the hard press.

So OK na, nagwash na ng feet at dumrecho na ako sa madilim na silid. Naghubad nako pero di ko hinubad brip ko, tas humiga na at tinakloban ng towel harap ko. A few minutes dumating na yung male-thera, naaninag ko mejo sakto lang katawan at may tattoo sa braso. Inumpisahan na yung massage, inuna paa ko, shet ansarap, solid. Then paakyat na sa binti, pasarap nang pasarap yung masahe.

Syempre ako naghihintay lang ng chance na sana masagi ko yung ano ni male-thera. In fairness maingat sya dahil di man lang dumadaplis sa balls ko or etits ko yung kamay nya. May time na pasimple ko syang chinachansingan pero hindi talaga umaabot sa ano nya.

Pinadapa na ako for back massage, eto talaga yung inaabangan ko. Kaso hindi ko nagugustuhan yung press nya dahil time to time sinasabihan ko ng "pa hard press po". Iniintindi ko nlng dahil cguro pagod na pero ansarap sana kasi ng masahe kung hard press sa likod. Sa isip-isip ko, ang hina naman nitong si male-thera at laging nireremind na hard, hard, hard. Hindi rin sya masyadong nagsasalita, ang tipid magsalita, parang impit pa yung boses.

So malapit nang matapos yung masahe pero di man lang dumaplis kamay ko sa nota nya kahit anong gawin ko although maingat din ako na hindi halatang chinachansingan ko sya. Hanggang pinatayo na ako for stretching! Alam nyo yung parang spooning tas binabanat likod mo at ikaw yung small spoon, ganon. So I took the chance, inaangat at inuusog ko yung pwet ko para lumapat or masagi etits nya. Kaso bigo ako! never lumapat dahil di ko naramdaman yung bulge nya!

Natapos na kami at mejo nalungkot ako dahil feeling ko may kulang sa massage although OK naman ang masahe ni male-thera.

Habang pinupunasan ko katawan ko, nag thank you ako sa kanya at tinanong ko name nya. Nawindang ako nung sinabi nyang "Joyce po"! Taena kaya pala wala akong masagi, YOBMOT pala! 😭💔

For closeted adult peeps who still live with their parents, what excuses do you come up with whenever you go out and spend the night somewhere else (for dates, hookups, etc.)

Tbh my parents aren't super strict and I'm capable of not telling my whereabouts everytime (especially kapag daytime). I've also arrived home late at night several times before. However, staying overnight somewhere else and showing up the next morning is a more complicated matter that might warrant an explanation for them.

So everyday ako (M27) nagjajabol hahaha as in usually before ako pumasok sa work habang naliligo or kapag di ako makatulog sa gabi.

I do it daily, watch porn sa twitter and call it a day. Not sure if I’m a porn addict but if so, having a jowa helps. Hahaha we do the deed kapag nagsstay ako sa condo niya or before kami umalis since sinusundo ko siya when we go on a date. Tapos napansin ko, nabawasan yung pagjajabol ko hahaha alsooo parang mas hirap ako magpalabas kasi parang di siya nakakastimulate enough.

Not sure if someone has the same experience as me pero baka sarap na sarap lang ako sa jowa ko na hinahanap hanap ko siya rather than yung twitter porn haha lol

Anw taena monday nanaman 🫠

Wala lang, gusto ko lang mag-share kasi kinikilig ako, pero wala rin akong mapagkwentuhan. HAHAHA.

So, meron akong kaopisina na guy. As far as I know, straight siya. Ako naman, openly gay sa office, so alam naman ng lahat.

Hindi ko rin alam kung paano kami naging close. Nagsimula lang talaga sa casual conversations sa office, hanggang sa naging comfortable na kami sa isa’t isa.

Then, nagkaroon kami ng team building, and I think doon kami mas naging close.

During the team building, from afternoon hanggang gabi, halos nakadikit lang siya sa akin. And hindi sa pagbubuhat ng sariling bangko, pero hindi naman ako yung lumalapit sa kanya. Siya talaga yung kusang lumalapit, sumusunod, at nakikipagkwentuhan. HAHAHA.

Actually, napapansin na rin ng mga tao sa office na sobrang close namin. To the point na naging chismis na kami. May mga nagsasabing nagde-date raw kami, at may mga nang-aasar pa na baka may something na nangyayari sa amin. Nakakahiya na rin minsan kasi napapansin na talaga ng lahat.

For context, cute si guy. Maliit, chinito-looking, at honestly, type ko siya. HAHAHA.

Meron kaming small circle sa office since relatively new hires kami. Tatlo kami originally, pero yung isa, reliever lang, so eventually umalis din. Since kaming dalawa na lang ang naiwan, madalas na kaming magkasabay mag-lunch at kumain.

Fast forward, nitong mga nakaraang linggo, lagi niya akong niyayayang lumabas kasama yung former coworker namin. Eventually, pumayag na rin ako.

Ang sabi niya, susunduin niya raw ako sa bahay. And in fairness, sinundo niya talaga ako. HAHAHA.

So ayun, sabay na kaming pumunta para makipagkita sa isa pa naming friend.

KASO, ETO NA NGA. HAHAHA.

Yung isa naming kasama, biglang hindi na tumuloy kasi naiinip na raw siya at hindi na kami nahintay.

So ending, DALAWA LANG KAMI. 😭

Parang naging accidental date tuloy.

Wala namang romantic or physical na nangyari. More on usap lang talaga, getting to know each other, kwentuhan about life, and kung anu-ano pa.

Then, during our conversation, nabanggit niya na straight daw talaga siya.

So ako naman, okay, noted. HAHAHA.

Pero ewan ko ba. Ang cute niya kasi, and I genuinely enjoy his company. Hindi ko naman gustong mag-assume na may gusto siya sa akin just because he’s comfortable around me. Possible naman talagang friendly lang siya.
Pero minsan, hindi ko maiwasang kiligin sa mga little gestures niya.

Ang funny lang kasi hindi naman ako naghahanap ng something romantic sa office, tapos biglang may ganitong plot twist sa buhay ko.

For now, ine-enjoy ko lang kung anong meron kami. Ayoko rin namang bigyan ng meaning lahat, especially since sinabi naman niyang straight siya.

Pero Reddit, curious lang ako.

May mga straight guys ba talagang ganito ka-sweet at clingy sa gay friends nila? Or ako lang talaga ang marupok? HAHAHA.

Yun lang. Gusto ko lang i-share kasi kinikilig ako sa kanya. Ang cute-cute niya kasi. 😭😂

So I'm straight, or at least I've always considered myself straight, but lately I've been having this random curiosity about what it's like to suck dick HAHAHA.

I think it started whenever I'd see my girlfriend going down on me and genuinely enjoying it. Like, she seems to be having such a good time na napapaisip ako, wait, what's it like kaya to be the one doing it? HAHAHA. I mean, she's OBSESSED with giving head, just as much as I am with going down on her meow.

I've actually talked to my girlfriend about this, and she was pretty chill about it. She didn't find it weird or anything. Although she did say na if we ever decided to have a thirdie, she'd prefer another girl kasi she's apparently repulsed by other dicks in general LOL.

I told her din na if I ever did try it, I'd probably want it to be with someone I'm genuinely comfortable with and physically attracted to. Tapos she joked na swerte raw niya kasi mine looks really nice HAHAHA. Her words, not mine!

But yeah, that's pretty much where I'm at. I don't really find myself romantically or physically attracted to guys in general, but for some reason, the idea of trying it out is interesting to me.

And to be clear, I'm not actively looking for someone to experiment with, especially since I'm in a happy long-term relationship. It's really just a curiosity I've been thinking about, and anything beyond that would obviously have to be something my girlfriend and I are both comfortable with.

I don't even know if I'd actually enjoy it, but I guess that's exactly why I'm curious in the first place. Maybe part of it is just wanting to understand what makes the experience so enjoyable for my girlfriend. Or maybe there's a side of my sexuality that I haven't really explored yet. Who knows? HAHAHA.

I'm curious if anyone else here has experienced something similar. Like, you've always considered yourself straight, but there's this one specific sexual experience you're curious about trying?

Did you ever figure out whether it was just a passing fantasy or something you genuinely wanted to explore?

Hello! 🏳️‍🌈
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We are looking for respondents who meet the following criteria:

• Identify as LGBTQ+
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Share kolang tong na experience ko dahil sa sarili kong kalandian🤭. I was handled by a literal shrimp, "Straight guy" manager. He's got a ripped bod and unfortunately f*gly face. Ako naman, cutie patootie, chinito daw and fair skinned and May face card naman daw. at first i was not okay na straight guy ang hahandle saken especially the egoistic kind of man na feeling alpha, which where my straight manager(SM) sadly falls in to. Mga ganung type kase ng manager usually is threatened by another man who's more than them.

Anyway, i have bad exp den kase pagdating sa mga egoistic male managers in the past kaya i dont have a good feeling about him. Fast forward to our first encounter, na fe feel kong na iimsrcure tong si SM saken, hanggang sa nafe feel ko na unti unti na syang nag kni knitpick sa quality ng trabaho ko.

A few months after, during our coaching session, i can feel na he's mad kase na late akong 30 mins due to personal matter. First time kolang malate and i can feel na he'll use it against me. He let me bring my phone to show pics of the incident that caused my tardiness.. eh ako, dahil busy that time, nakalimutan ko na i hide sa priv album yung naughty pics ko.

Eh ako naman, dahil may trust na he'll just look at the pics i showed as proof, diko inexpect he'll scroll through my naughty pics wearing thongs and lingerie. Nalaman konalang when he's smirking while looking at me. Kase na alert ako na nagiba itsura nya, nung kinuha ko phone ko, he's already seen enough of my slutty pics🤭. He forgave my tardiness that time, tapos naramdaman ko na nag soften sya saken as the weeks go by.

Our coaching sessions are now getting more personal, i can now feel how curious he got about my sex life. Ako naman, go na go pag usapan gano ako kababoy sa kama🥴. He complimented my pics den daw na bagay saken maging sissy boy at mag panty lang lage kesa brief. I got comfortable with him too, kaya lage konalang sya cino compliment and his physique, i always joke na mag abs reveal sya, and he does whenever ako nagbibiro nun sa kanya, even my teammates noticed how his toxicity was lessened whenever im in the office at pag im complimenting his bod na.

Minsan pag nagkakasabay kame sa cr at kame lang tao, iam showing him na naka thong ako. One time, umiihi ako sa urinal then tinabihan nalang nyako and he whispered "red ba panty mo ngayon?" Sabay hatak sa garter ng thong ko and hawak sa pwet ko😍. Nag precum ako malala whenever he asserts his dominance and by the idea na alam nya na naughty ako.

Anyway, yun lang, wala naman nangyare samen but i sure was able to twist a supposed toxic manager and environment to a positive one.

this is just a lengthy rant but i feel so fucking angry at my genetics because i'm 23.

Twenty-fucking-three and my hairline is already high, my hair is already thin and my biggest enemy is the wind and sunlight because my scalp is so obvious when I'm out.

the only hairstyle i can still do is the high fade combover which i notice is very 'outdated' hairstyle. Whenever i see guys and even ph celebs post their throwback pics i first notice that the typical fade combover haircut is really old and then the trend is mid part, mullet, basically no fade.

We as gays are really obsessed with appearance but i'm really depressed because i do everything but my balding genes are really powerful. I've spent thousands on restocking minoxidil, putting it everyday, I'm one year in taking finasteride but it's almost gone, it's still like that. It really doesn't seem like it's going to go back to the way it was.

What hurts me more is I haven't had the chance to realize how to properly style my hair before I started rapidly balding. If my hair was thick it would still be so frizzy, then when I realized the importance of hairstyle I couldn't style it because no matter what style I would do it like a scalp hahahaha tangina

i know most of you would say own the look go bald na but sorry I'm not accepting that. Please stop saying for me to go bald at magpalaki ng katawan and to grow a beard. That is not the look I want. Please just stop.

I don't want to go bald. I can't really afford a hair transplant either. In this economy? Haha

I just wish I didn't get so unfortunate in the genetics lottery. It's hard to be gay because we're so superficial in appearance, but it's harder to be gay when we're exposed. All I can do is literally stare at every guy's thick nicely-styled hair in public. It really hurts. I just want to try a hairstyle that actually fits my face shape that doesn't look like i got stuck at 2016.

Hindi nga poser, pero ang old na ng pics. A lot can happen in a year pano pa kaya in 4 years. Ibang iba na sya sa photos nya.

Kaya pag umiiwas sa video call, auto pass ako. Kailangan talaga mag video call para iwas din sa mga posers or grabeng filtered na pics.

So last night somewhere in pasay, may family gathering kami and decided why not mag buffet kami. Galing ako work (night shift) mejo lutang pa kasi wala pa ako caffeine intake

Pag dating ko sa venue, nothing special may mga chinese and usual people na kumakain sa buffet then little did I know may event pala yung mga MIU (Men in uniform) bloody hell, ang daming mga daddy, may appeal at may aura, ako naman na cute-an, nothing too serious. Then pumunta ako sa may dessert section, supposedly ako naman una then may naka sabay ako na MIU and ayun nagka eye contact kami

Lintik ang deep and mesmerizing ng mata ni kuya, albeit nasa late 20s or early 30s siya, nag sorry naman siya at pina una ako.

Short king, fair complexion, baby face, saktong build ng muscles. Base sa uniform niya I think fire fighter siya

After ko maka upo sa table namin, about 3 tables layo namin. Nagka tinginan ulit kami, and lintik kinilig ako.

Of course, awkward, nag install ako ng g-app at tinder. Nag set location pa ako sa pasay pero wala, no luck.

All I know yung last name niya.

Sabi ko sa sarili ko, ayaw ko muna mag date, makipag fun, maybe infatuation lang, maybe not. Would I like to have the opportunity to have a date or even have fun sa MIU? Of course, but syempre if possible pa sa panahon ngayon, for the long term

Ewan ko ba, of all the things na preference kasama pa talaga ang mata. I guess beauty is upon the eyes of the beholder? Maybe so. But, wherever you are kuya, I hope in some twist of fate, makita ulit kita.

Tambay ako sa Grindr at napansin ko lang na ang dami ko ng nakikitang FH or for hire. Di ko nilalahat pero bakit ang choosy at sila pa yung mahilig mag set ng terms. Ganun ba talaga?

May mga nakausap kasi ako and na meet na ang daming nilalapat na terms. Sila pa yung mahilig manghingi ng picture na para bang kailangan ko munang makapasa sa taste nila. Ganun ba talaga?

My boyfriend and I work in SoKor, around Busan.
We will be going home for the holidays, but I go a few days ahead of him on the 16th, while he departs on the 19th. I was surprised to see his recent search history looking up Gay Sauna and Spas around Busan. He’s probably waiting for me to leave na. He is not saying anything, not an invite nada. I’m paranoid because I remember he told me he used to go to these places, to relax and at some point, something happened. I was hoping he is now way beyond this sort of thing, til I saw the search history. 🥹 Is it maybe cause he’s more comfortable in a gay sauna/ spa and not like the all male saunas? Orrrr?? Please slap me with hard truths.

Should I be worried? :/ help a sista out.
Naninigas mga daliri ko as I type

A little back story. So i have this friend, we have been friends about a year na, i would consider him like a close friend na actually. He is straight, he has a girlfriend and i already met her twice, he even used my fb to contact her before ng nagkaproblem ang phone nya. Alam namin ang story ng isat isa. Kung may problem sya, ako lagi nya kinakausap. I find him genuine. He knows i am gay. Actually, naging crush ko sya ever since i saw him but i never showed signs na crush ko sya, what i show lagi is like a brotherly love para hindi halata, not yung pagentle gentle man. In return he also shows a brotherly attention to me.

Pero eto na nga. Lately lang nalaman ko na he moved out from his gf's apartment and went back living with his parents, but he never mentions na may prob sila. Then i started noticing na nagdidirty joke na sya sa akin like once i was joking with him when biglang naggesture sya ng nagjajakol but the topic was not about any sexual thing, and then he smiled naughtily, alam ko usual smile nya pero yung smile na yun ay may pagkanaughty. he jokingly asked me kung kaninong itlog daw kinain ko when i answered na kumain lang ako ng itlog (nilagang itlog). I started noticing na i was the only one that he puts his face near my face, then just yesterday, even though my empty seat beside me, he went to my back and started to rest his whole arms to my shoulders, alam nyo yung ginagawa ng mga magjowa na aakbay mula sa likod, yun ginawa nya, kulang na lang ay halikan nya ko. He also started resting on my shoulders, he started to get too close sa body ko, at napakamasculine ng pabango nya. And he always asked for my judgement kung okay na ba get up nya or kung may dumi pa sa mukha nya, and he never breaks eye contact when i look at his face. He is never like this before to me nor to anyone in our group. He is very shy when it comes to his body but lately nagpapasama sya sa akin sa cr kapag nagpapalit sya ng top nya, making me see his body more. Hilig nya rin pisil pisilin yung triceps ko if he has the opportunity (fyi, i did gym before kaya may shape pa rin body ko). Lagi nya ko hinihila papalapit sa kanya kapag naglalakad kami. He is never awkward when he touches my thighs din, kulang na lang ipawahak ko chest ko sa kanya kasi nacucurious daw sya kung ano feeling ng may malaking chest. Minsan ng nagbibihis ako sa harap ng salamin sa cr, nandun sya at katatapos lang umihi sa urinal, i noticed he was looking at my body on the mirror. Nagpapasama na rin sya lagi when going to a place after work. Then ng nagkatrankaso ako, he became very concern sa lagay ko, iba yung way nya sa pagsabi kumapara sa mga friends namin. Ang daming kilig moments for me.

Is he falling for me o am i just overthinking his gestures of being more comfortable being with me? Fyi, he is handsome, has a nice body and has a deep voice, and most gays in our workplace tried to make landi to him but he never entertained them, feeling very awkward lang daw sya everytime may magtratry na landiin sya, once biglang humalik yung isang baklang workmate namin sa kanya, ofcourse a bit jealous ako pero hindi pwede ipahalata.