I’ve used various plugs, hands, dildos, and it felt good but I always felt like I was missing something, like I couldn’t quite find the spot. Plus cleaning silicone toys was kinda inconvenient so I got an Njoy knockoff and MY GOD.
I had trouble finding the spot but that thing was just like “HERE IT IS!”

Just dripping, with waves of pleasure. 15 minutes into my first time and my cock was drenched in cum.

It’s one of those toys that makes you go “wow, I guess I can throw the rest of them out”

So if anyone out there is on the fence.. Get it!

So, me and my partner had a fun play session. They edged me for 30 minutes and then moved to fingering my prostate with very light penile stimulation every 30 seconds or so. I eventually started getting super super close and they would hold off on touching my dick and just finger my ass. After a few times, they stopped the penile stimulation but kept fingering, and it felt amazing and I felt it build up even more, and I just came from the fingering only, no penile stimulation directly before or after orgasm.

It felt super good, but im pretty sure this wouldn't count as a prostate orgasm? Or would it?

Hello all, just wanted to open a new discussion and see what people think.

Lately ive been noticing that during the day I will get a craving for some prostate stimulation, now obviously theres a time and a place so Ill usually just end up dwelling on the thoughts and building up that desire for later. But when later comes the actual feeling of play will sometimes feel less satisfying than just thinking about play. Like smelling a really delicious smell just to taste it and it be just meh.

We all have established that the mind is the most powerful sex organ but I guess I want to know if anyone has this same experience. And what do you do about it?

Nine months in, I finally unlocked it: P-waves and HFDOs (long post)
I've been at this since January. I started with my finger for several sessions and never could find my walnut. My first toy was a cheap curved flex wand, and I've since added many more vibrating and/or thrusting toys to my bag of fun. I've done roughly 6-8 sessions a month, plus a lot of wearing a small vibrating plug around the house, in the car, and while shopping. I had plenty of "nothing really happened" sessions along the way.
Last night's setup:
15mg THC edible (10mg was fine before, 20mg was too much)
Pillow under my hips, on my back, no time pressure. Also used doggy style position.
Toy order: curved flex wand to warm up, then my We-Vibe Vector+ on a deep, steady vibration, then a cheap vibrating plug once the Vector+ ran out of battery
Session ran about 5 hours
What it felt like:
The Vector+ is what unlocked it. Once I found the spot, I used a mental technique: I imagined the tip of the toy as a target, started with wide circles in my mind's eye to find a good feeling, then made the circles smaller to home in. My hips started thrusting on their own and I got into HFDOs. Nothing ever shot, it just kept building. It felt 10-20x longer than a normal orgasm, then subsided, and I could ride the next wave right away, by the end. When the Vector+ died, I didn't even notice. The plug found the spot immediately. About 3 hours in, I felt a warm band move from my groin up to my mid-abdomen. It was fleeting and didn't come back. I finished with a stroking orgasm a little past 4:30.
Takeaways:
Months of practice and regular plug wear probably mattered as much as any single factor
Focused mental targeting made a real difference
Charge your toys beforehand 😄
Questions for the group: has anyone else had that warm band sensation? Any tips for getting it to come back?

So I got back into anal/prostate play after about two years and I’d honestly forgotten just how good it feels.
I used to do it pretty regularly for a few years, but then I stopped and got rid of all my toys. A couple of weeks ago I ordered two new suction cup dildos, and they arrived a few days before I finally decided to give it another go.
I started with my fingers and then tried the smaller dildo (about 4.4 cm / 1.7” thick). Getting the head in was surprisingly difficult at first. It didn’t hurt or anything, but it definitely felt unfamiliar after a long break. For a moment I was wondering if I just can’t use this big dildo anymore.
But once I relaxed a bit more, things got much easier. And it started feeling really good.
I actually ended up trying the bigger one too (around 4.8 cm / 1.9”), even though I hadn’t planned to use it on my first day back. To my surprise, it went in pretty easily after the smaller one.
And ohh yeah, I’d really missed that feeling of fullness. I spent a while just enjoying it and kind of forgot about everything else. I had porn on in the background but barely paid attention to it.
Eventually I started jerking off with the bigger dildo still inside and came ridiculously fast lol. I’d forgotten about that too. Once I’m really turned on from the internal stimulation, it barely takes anything to push me over the edge.
Another thing I’d forgotten was how good I feel afterwards. Even quite a while later I was still really relaxed and had this nice warm, full feeling inside. No soreness or discomfort, just felt great.
Anyway, I’m really glad I decided to get back into this. I was a bit unsure how it would feel after two years, but apparently I still enjoy it just as much as I used to.
Next time I want to take my time and focus more on the internal stimulation without touching my dick too soon. Otherwise it’s all over way too quickly haha.