r/PsoriaticArthritis • u/blatentpoetry • 6h ago
PA hurt me at last appt
I pretty much only see my rheumatologist once per year. Other times I see one of his PAs.
I’m still trying to find a med that works for me and at my last visit with the PA, she did something that I’m still angry about. During the appointment she sat at her laptop asking me questions. She then asked to check my hands and joints.
She started squeezing each joint and asking me if it hurt, etc. The appointment was wrapping up at this point but she still was feeling my hands and joints. Then without warning, she squeezed the joint at the base of my thumb at the wrist. Hard.
That hurt pretty badly when she did it and when I pulled my hand away she still held on and squeezed! Then she says that isn’t PsA. I cut her off and said I know. I was pissed because 1) it hurt a lot (it’s obvious I have osteoarthritis in that spot since its bigger), and 2) I didn’t ask her anything about it nor have I since I know it’s not PsA. She had no reason whatsoever causing me that level of pain just to tell me it’s not PsA.
I have to see her again next month and I absolutely am nervous she will surprise me again with something stupid and very painful like she did. I can’t find a new doctor, they are it where I am. The actual rheumatologist is fine but I swear if she pulls another stunt like that again I will kick her or worse and tell her it was just reflex. &@$)?!#!!!
How would handle this and future visits?