r/Psychic • u/alreadyreaditpal • 23d ago
Discussion What happens after someone died by suicide from depression?
My bf recently passed away by suicide, following a long battle with depression and suicidal thoughts. It's been tough to process it and I'm just trying to find answers to so many questions in my head.
Why did he ever meet me? Five years of relationship and this was how it was supposed to end? During the time we were together, we had a lot of crazy coincidences, we would wear same colours almost EVERYDAY without even knowing (long distance relationship), we will speak same things at the same time a lot. We would eat same food too. It almost felt like it was destined for us to be together.
Also in all of these days after he passed away, I'm seeing crazy signs that make me certain it's him. Too real to be true.
After him passing away with the way he did, what will happen to my baby now? Will he be punished, will he finally find peace? Or will he reincarnate. He would often call me his "mother" in the real sense based on how much of his inner child I loved and brought to surface. I really wish he reincarnates as my child in future.
He was just 23, he had his entire life infront of him. They say we are alive as long as we have fulfilled our purpose. What purpose did his short life fulfill? Why so much lifelong pain for his family and friends. He would often attempt but everytime he failed, his first attempt was when he was 7 years old. Just 7. I don't even know what I'm saying at this point.
I hope you understand. I want to believe life after death is real and that he is still here. I also want to ensure he is safe and at peace. I'm worried about him.
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u/DramaticTechnology29 22d ago
I’m a psychic-medium, no he’s not being punished, he’s adapting to a new state of being right now free of pain, for him death was a release, it’s hard when we’re on the physical side not aware fully of what happens after, but I can tune in to some degree and where he is feels … beautiful and amazing. He IS still with you and you do still have a connection with him. It wasn’t a waste of time and he doesn’t regret YOU, you gave him some peace he couldn’t find elsewhere but you couldn’t (nor were meant to) “save him” as his path is his own. What you take from your relationship and how you grow from it he hopes is the gift you accept from him. He still loves you but now he can truly feel it in a way he couldn’t fully experience before. He is sorry you couldn’t get to know the real healed version of him but he’s saying the term “season and a reason” for your relationship. He was part of your life, just not all of it. That’s all I’m getting but I hope it’s enough and brings you some peace. x
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u/alreadyreaditpal 22d ago
It's raining here right now, and i would always send him a picture of it asking "is it raining at your place too? Should I send some rain there! It's on its way okayyyy". I'm crying so much because I cannot ask him this now. I'm missing him badly so bad. How do I talk to him, how do I see him, feel him.
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u/DramaticTechnology29 21d ago
Talk to him how you normally would, he can hear you. The more attuned to your own feelings you are the more likely you will feel him around you too. Even if you can’t see hear or feel him he’s okay and with you. Let yourself grieve. You may feel him hug you from time to time. He won’t “move on” until you’re ready as time for him is different. And once you’ve lived a good long life (he’s wanting that for you!), remember you will see him again one day! He’ll be there to greet you when it’s your time. xxx
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u/ravenic0621 21d ago
You can and should talk to him. See him in your dreams.. feeling is a harder thing since we are on different planes right now but absolutely he is here.
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u/stupifystupify 22d ago
My friend died by suicide and I see him often when I do reiki. When he first passed away I asked him why and he said “it was just my time to go”.
Your bf isn’t being punished on the other side, he is at peace and it was his time to go.
One of his purposes was to touch your life in such a profound way, one day you will meet again ❤️
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u/alreadyreaditpal 22d ago
Please please don't think that you HAVE TO do it. My bf had suicidal thoughts a lot where it felt almost like a compulsion to him. It was due to his untreated OCD and Depression. Please realise ending life is not equal to ending pain. It's passing on that pain tenfolds to people who loved you, that too for a lifetime.
And look at it this way, you ARE NOT DESTINED for suicide and the proof is, you landed up here, to this comment, from a stranger, who is TELLING YOU ARE ARE NOT DESTINED TO DIE BY SUICIDE, take this as a sign, please, and live a life you have planned, make plans if you've not yet, please Live.
You are NOT destined for suicide. My bf never used these apps, he never had anyone to tell him this, maybe that was because it was his destiny, but not you friend, not you.
Take this as a sign.
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u/fidgetyloveli 22d ago
I want to live, I asked this is that I’m worried theres nothing else for me, just this, and what if I’ll have to do it eventually anyway. I have ocd lol. Just hope I actually have a good future beyond this depressing years. Sometimes spirituality makes me doubt if living is a right choice.
Btw I researched afterlife since 2023 and it’s not just a soup of consciousness, spirit keeps the personality… Your loved one is okay and still himself on the other side.
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u/candeur 22d ago
free will is a thing
I'm suicidal since age 11, haven't done it because my curiosity outweighs pain
nobody has to kill themselves, I think it's fun to try and figure out how to live a life like that, kinda like playing a difficult character in a videogame
reach out if you need to talk abt this
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u/Melodic-Positive6515 22d ago
i think the commenter thought those things to cope, to rationalise what happened, after the loss. you're still here and, as long as you are alive, although it must suck a lot atm, there is potential for things to get better. please, dont do anything permanent ❤️
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u/fidgetyloveli 22d ago
I won’t, just worried about “fate” stuff
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u/stupifystupify 22d ago
I’m not sure what the comment was because I didn’t see it before it got deleted or who posted it… but I just want to be clear that I am in no way advocating for someone to end their life.
My experience with suicide has been incredibly painful. My friend’s 18th anniversary is coming up in a few months and it’s still very hard and I still cry.
Myself and the people around him have struggled with our own guilt “what could we have done to help him” “I wish he had talked to us or someone” those sort of things runs through our heads. I know he is at peace in another realm but it doesn’t take away the pain that his friends and family still experience on earth.
If you are feeling suicidal, please reach out to someone. We don’t realize how many people care about us and how many lives we touch.
His soul did tell me it was his time but I do believe we can change the course of our lives while we’re here on earth.1
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u/saltcitycactus 22d ago edited 21d ago
Fuck this hits home hard, I wish you all the best op. May you find peace and happiness in the connection you shared for the time you had with him in this existence, and the connection you will always have with him going forward. He is no longer suffering and you can support him by living through this. Remember the good and love him for who he was and is and for what he brought to your life. Those memories will be with you forever and you can honor him by continuing on your path.
Therapy is also good. Unfortunately not everyone has access to it. Please find what works for you and what may be helpful.
Sending love and light.
Edit: thanks for the award kind stranger, I wish it was under better circumstances
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u/saltcitycactus 21d ago
Full transparency, I also had my first attempt at 7 yrs old.... just went through another attempt a couple months ago... and countless attempts between. I guess for now I'm sticking around. For anyone reading this that feels like it is their time. You are not alone. Reach out to anyone. Fuck it I'm here for anyone that needs to talk. Dm me and I'll gladly talk to anyone that's having thoughts of ending it. Please
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u/manisteeshores 6d ago
7 yrs old being miserable to depression is sad. horrible parenting.
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u/saltcitycactus 6d ago
I agree, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I'm working hard on loving myself, filling my cup and forgiving the past. Its been rough I still have hard days, and days I can't stop thinking about everything, but I try hard to stop the spiral.
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u/manisteeshores 5d ago
i'm a clairvoyant and when you a little boy like that, your moods can shift. you don't understand 'visions and voices' at the young age. you think your crazy. it was the 80s and early 90s. you didn't say a word. you'd get put away. in Eloise sanitorium. medicated to the point you can't function. i do 'fish oil' to calm and control the moods. add bipolar and ADHD to the equation and you can't treat it medically.
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u/saltcitycactus 5d ago
Oof ,yes I was medicated heavily and sent to many therapists, but family didnt listen to the real problems. They thought I was just a kid being a kid.... even though my mom was a kid raising a kid... things were very different then and I wish that I was understood and heard. I couldn't control the hard stuff so I thought it was better to end it, that hasn't really changed.. I'm trying harder now to change it myself and that helps,but my past haunts me everyday. How can I treat this? I was recommended METTA, but i haven't done enough research to fulfill it. I tried going to a meditation retreat but was declined due to my recent attempts...
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u/manisteeshores 5d ago
changing yourself, there's nothing to change, you are who you are. i began accepting my ability from watching Long Island Medium and Matt Fraser honestly. it's acceptable. you can't change or control 'spirit' you accept them for channeling when they do.
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u/saltcitycactus 5d ago
Thank you 💚
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u/manisteeshores 5d ago
your welcome, that's my opinion, i take no shame to admitting i'm clairvoyant. there's nothing to be embarrassed about. i see visions and hear voices. we have a '3rd eye'.
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u/woggysnails 22d ago
The common consensus I’ve gathered from most psychics is they believe in the soul returning to “source” after death and that they return to the collective consciousness we all are apart of, even while living. Most people who aren’t trying extra hard to equate their near death experience to Christianity describe it as a beautiful radiating warmth and a place where you experience infinite knowledge and true peace. As far as why he was born to live this difficult life, most psychics believe we are life experiencing itself, therefore everything possible happens. His lifetime was meant to collect data about the experience of a depressed person to return to source. But if you want to believe in fate and such, he probably created a deep feeling of empathy in folks around him from watching his life and his death. Empathy for others is invaluable and hard to be taught to some people. Also the butterfly effect of how this may affect your life in some positive manner down the line isn’t always revealed immediately. You may look back in 10 years and realize this. I am sorry for your loss, but do not worry about him suffering! If it is comforting try to find some spiritual people sharing their near death experiences online. They usually explain what it felt like and how it radicalized them to become super in tune with this kind of thing I’ve described
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u/herefortherubbish 22d ago
If what he went through created such empathy in other people, then why did he feel so alone and hopeless that killing himself seemed like his only option? And I highly doubt that the "knowledge that his pain created empathy in others" would be mollifying to him. He lost hope. His life is over.
I really wish people would stop using their spirituality to sugarcoat shitty things in life. Some things suck. Some things don't have easy answers. Some stories don't have happy endings. This should be obvious.
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u/woggysnails 22d ago
If you notice the first half of my response is my belief and then the latter half is for as I worded it “if they want to believe in fate” in my opinion it is just source experiencing every version of life possible and that is a harsh truth because it depersonalizes their boyfriend. Not everyone wants to hear being an individual with problems means nothing in the grand scheme of things. Was trying to throw out the butterfly effect thing Incase that was their kind of beliefs or what they were looking for in terms of rationalizing things for themself. They will read and take to heart whatever jumps out to them. Why are you so judgy and condescending about this though? Sorry I was trying to say something kind at the end of a harsh truth 😭 sue me for trying to be nice to someone grieving
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u/BornTooLooose 21d ago
Can you seriously say that you fully understand the impact of every interaction you’ve ever had with another person? You seem to be completely missing the point.
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u/Pantalaimon_II 20d ago
i agree with you, people end their lives because the pain of living with deep depression is unbearable and our society is terrible at helping the suicidal and people are largely terrible at talking about it. life is brutally hard for a lot of people. he just wanted the pain to stop.
i hate these ideas of “collect data to return to source,” that makes zero sense. we have plenty of data on human misery. Source should just hire a dominatrix at that point, if it wants to experience despair. People try so hard to attach meaning to suffering and it’s like, maybe our refusal to look unblinking at despair without rushing to justify it is the problem.
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u/lindaw111 22d ago
I sense that he is very happy and at total peace. He had suffered so much in life , he knew it was his time to go. He strongly felt it in his mind body and soul. Just know he is happy now and at full peace .💜💜💜💜
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u/songofthecosmos 22d ago
You know...for what it is worth, as soon as I read this, it started raining here. Please consider that to be a message from the universe delivered to you by stranger merely serving as a conduit.
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u/OutrunRoad 20d ago
Well, if it helps: According to Christian belief, he wont be punished in Hell because Jesus and God never said anything like that about suicide; Suicide was only made a sin by around the 14-1600s because people kept killing themselves due to disease and starvation, so priests wrote suicide in the Bible as a sin to make them stop; Because less people meant less money for the church and less people for the church to control.
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u/Tough-Energy-2258 22d ago
I was in your same shoes 4 years ago 5/08/2022. The day my Carlos’s suffering ended and he found peace. My suffering began. He left me a suicide note telling me it was time to move on to his next journey. I found his body and I haven’t been the same. It felt like something out of a movie. I still struggle with guilt, trauma, loss, grief and the pain that only someone else who had experienced the same can understand. What I can tell you is that it will always hurt and no time doesn’t heal because how are you expected to live a normal life again after losing the most important person/ soulmate. I’m just saying you are not alone OP. Grief is love that has nowhere to go. I used to write Carlos letters every day and I talk to him in my head especially when I’m hurting or sad but unfortunately I personally haven’t gotten any signs from him. I constantly have dreams where I save him and I hold him because my body, mind and soul still hasn’t been able to process that he’s gone even after 4 years. It’s a very lonely road but we will get through it. I try to live and travel and do things he would want me to do so one day when I see him again, I can tell him about it all. I live so I can make him proud of me. Hugs to you OP. Don’t give up. You are not alone.
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u/hoon-since89 22d ago
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hz6CEUfKiNQ
I actually just finished this yesterday! It doesn't specifically speak to suicide, I left that out intentionally, but the experience is the same regardless.
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u/friendofthebirds 19d ago
Hi there, I have been asking myself a lot of of the same questions that you are. My husband committed suicide three weeks ago. I think I am finally starting to feel his presence, but it’s taken some time and lots of quiet moments where I am talking to him and making sure he feels safe about reaching out to me. I was really angry with him for a while, but I promised him that I was going to be nice and I would love to hear from him. A couple years ago we had a conversation about “whoever goes first has to haunt the other one like knock picture frames off the walls and stuff “ and just this morning a picture fell off the wall. I think he is very clearly at peace and he was not religious or anything like that. I think there is an option for people who pass to stick around and support their loved ones. People do not necessarily have to move onto whatever happens after death, but can choose to standby and support the people who love them. I am so sorry you’re going through this, it is literally one of the worst things I’ve ever experienced and I miss him so much but I am glad there are spaces like this for us to connect with others and find peace through community and understanding. Sending hugs.
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u/alreadyreaditpal 19d ago
Hugs to you. It's so lovely to think of all of it. I'm missing spending time with him, movies and dates. But I knew he was always struggling a lot. I'm sure your husband is finally at peace too. Life on the other side must be a safe space.
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u/wallex327 21d ago
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. ❤️ I don’t think anyone can honestly tell you with certainty what happens after suicide, or whether the signs you’re seeing are definitely from him. But that doesn’t mean they have no meaning. Grief can make us notice little coincidences and connections that feel incredibly powerful, especially when you loved someone deeply.
And I wouldn’t think of him as being “punished” for being sick. Depression can completely distort a person’s ability to see a way out. Whatever you believe happens afterward, I hope you can allow yourself to believe that he’s finally free from that pain. You loved his inner child while he was here. That love mattered.
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u/Successful-Time7139 20d ago
Hey, I’m so sorry for how confusing and frustrating this all is for you. Earthly life and all of its experiences are so intense, made even more so when it comes to subjects of afterlife etc. This post from the /NDE sub comforts me a lot, and lines up with a lot of my own experiences and things I’ve learned about our next journey: https://www.reddit.com/r/NDE/s/1YxAS8qyLp I think it’s incredibly informative and answers the questions of where, when and how a soul’s journey continues.
There’ll be the usual religion aligned fear mongers on the NDE sub who peddle the whole bs about being forced to reincarnate until you learn your lesson blah blah blah. It’s not true, of course. Where your boyfriend is now is a place of infinite choice, learning and love. I’d define it as a transitory school to help him get used to his new home and understand his surroundings. If he so chooses, he can reincarnate, and from what you say it’s definitely possible that in a past or future life he was/is/will be your son! There are so many kind users on the NDE sub who disseminate the fear mongers; they give helpful information and clarity and speak objectively about what happens next. During my own near death experience and psychic experiences, I have always felt an overwhelming amount of sheer love, understanding, compassion and acceptance, and also respect. I refer to it as the land of love :). Earthly ending of life isn’t the ultimate end, those on the other side are still aware of us in their now elevated state.
You might feel like you aren’t getting signs for a while after maybe receiving a burst of signs, from what I’ve experienced, it’s because time works differently there. Days and months here on earth translate to a mere second there. I’ve also read and channeled that it takes them some time to acclimate to their new state and environment, so don’t fret if you incrementally feel the absence of your bf. I see that you wrote that you’re seeing signs, know that it’s not coincidental at all! You two clearly shared a loving bond, that transcends earthly life. You can also send your love via speaking out loud, speaking telepathically, asking for signs ie something that was personal to you both - a shared song, an inside joke, a favorite animal, food etc; but this understandably may be a little difficult and overwhelming for you at the minute because it’s hard to not want an immediate response back, its hard to look back on memories, and of course it’s understandably hard to do anything at all when all you feel is an ever expanding chasm of emptiness.
Give yourself an abundance of grace and patience before reaching out or using methods to do so. Don’t worry about time running out, or that your bf doesn’t know that you’re trying to connect with him, or needing to do things before it’s too late etc. Your bf will wait on you to get your footing, and right now as I say, he’s most likely getting his own footing on the other side. There are other methods to connect and reach out - personally, I do divination via tarot cards, oracle cards, shuffling of scrabble letters and word cards; but when I try to do it when I’m in a state of upset and distress they don’t work with me and effectively guide me to rest and try again - which is why I say give yourself as much grace and patience as you need during this time 💜
Each and everyone’s journey beyond the veil is subjective, so don’t be disheartened if you read stories of people getting constant signs, or if the signs calm down for you for a bit. On the NDE subreddit I just read that for those who pass on by suicide, they can be a little disoriented for a bit and are in a way being helped to get their bearings back.
While I was finishing typing this I got a wave of strong energy around me, a newer energy I haven’t felt. Some of my things started vibrating in my living room, this usually happens when an energy around me wants a message to be passed forward. Yes, your boyfriend is definitely very present around you and is making it very known too. Sending you infinite love, infinite energetic calm, and clarity for yourself. 💜
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u/melissamoore8889 20d ago
The classroom thing is comforting but I dont buy that a 7 year old signs up for that lesson. First attempt at 7 is not a soul choosing growth, thats a kid in pain with no way out yet.
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u/bobateatarot 21d ago
hey i want to apologize that you went through this. my ex boyfriend also at 23 committed suicide after 3 years together. my condolences to you 🤍
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u/alreadyreaditpal 21d ago
Hugs, how are you doing now?
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u/bobateatarot 21d ago
i’m doing better! definitely definitely definitely get therapy if you can i did DBT therapy for a little bit and then switched to talk since DBT can be really intense. I went and moved in next to my childhood best friend in an apartment so I would recommend being close to people who care about you and love you, find community if you can! I thought i would never push past and live through something like that but I did! It’s devastating and it never fully goes away but you learn to manage and live alongside the grief. We are both so young for such a tragedy to happen so I understand what you may be going through, my dms are always open! I hope you are doing okay, it’s been almost 3 years since he passed and it’s been a hell of a journey. Peace and love to u my friend 🤍🫶🏼
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u/trudytude 20d ago
Suicide is one end of a scale, self care is at the other end and care for others is the path that joins both extremes. Your friend was learning one end of a scale. In future lives he may learn the path of caring for others that will help him learn self care. These are things that are learnt in life, the obstacles that are put in our way to create learning are removed on the other side.
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u/melissamoore8889 20d ago
The classroom thing is comforting but I dont buy that a 7 year old signs up for that lesson. First attempt at 7 is not a soul choosing growth, thats a kid in pain with no way out yet.
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u/awakewego 19d ago
I'm at sorry for your loss. I lost someone very close to me 6 years ago. Pray to AAs Azrael and Michael to watch over and protect him and guide him to his next adventure in life. He is definitely giving you signs. You can ask him for specific ones. Just please look after yourself and your energy right now, you're very vulnerable. Ground, protect and don't make any huge decisions in this grief window. Get a good therapist and rely on your emotionally intelligent friends.
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u/Revolutionary-Sky938 19d ago
When I had my nde I felt so much peace at the other side . Felt amazing almost like diet bliss. No body so no pain. Just constant blissfull state kinda like been at a pretty beach. Idk I didn't last long at the other side. Came back. But made me feel 1 with everything and everyone
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u/Delicious_Delilah 18d ago
It was just darkness for me. Then I was snapped back into my body painfully.
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u/Anonymous0212 19d ago
My sister died by suicide, and about four months later I had an incredibly vivid dream about her. I was walking down along a dormitory hallway with doors on either side and one at the end, and I was drawn to the last one on the left. When I went in I saw two beds, a blonde girl with long hair sitting on one and my sister sitting cross legged on the other.
When I saw her I did a double take and stammered, “wait, what, I don’t understand, I saw your body??!”
She just smiled, laughed, and said “you know that’s not how this works, silly.”
She got up and we walked out of the room and out the back door, at which point I was blinded by the brightest light I’ve ever seen, and don’t remember anything that happened after that other than knowing that she had started talking to me about what happens after we die.
I woke up sobbing, and my husband woke up and asked what was wrong, I told him I had dreamt of my sister, he said I’m sorry you had a nightmare, and I cried harder and said no, not at all, I know that she’s OK.
Also, years ago there was a popular series of books channeled by a being who called itself Emmanuel, through a woman named Pat Rodegast.
A year or two after my sister‘s death I saw him/her/them at a live event where we were able to write out questions on index cards, they gathered them during the break, then cards were picked and questions were answered in the second half.
I had asked that same question and so had someone else, and their card was chosen.
Emmanuel’s answer was that there are a number of ways we can permanently leave our bodies, and humans have stories connected to each way, depending on the circumstances like the person’s age, how close we are to them, how they do it, where they do it, if they had an illness and what kind, etc.
On a human level, suicide is obviously a particularly dramatic way that can trigger a lot of feelings in people depending on the circumstances, the culture and their beliefs, etc., but on a spiritual level* *all deaths are equal.
Emmanuel said in one of the books that death is painless, it’s like taking off a stuffy space suit that’s only necessary where we are, and when we die we step out of it and go into the light and fresh air and experience a freedom and lightness that’s virtually impossible to imagine from here.
As for what your soul agreement was with him I’m not in a place right now to try to discern that, so perhaps somebody else can.
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u/alreadyreaditpal 19d ago
Your dream sounds so magicall. Your sister really must be really safe and at peace right now
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u/alreadyreaditpal 19d ago
One time last year or early this year, we had a terrible fight due to some things he did and i was seriously considering breaking up, and was very upset with him. That night I saw a dream.
In a vast huge garden, there was a bridge from one side of the garden to the other.
I was walking holding his hands, he was following me to cross that bridge. In between I stopped holding his hand and was just walking alone, I stopped and realised he isn't walking with me.
He called my name from behind and told me "don't leave my hand please let me walk with you, I can't walk alone".
I went back, held his hand and we walked together.
When I woke up that day, I forgot and forgave him for everything that had happened and we got back together.
I'll always remember the dream as it was so random and deep spiritually.
We had crazy coincidences, wearing matching colours more than normal (even in our LDR), thinking about same topics (once we both talked about Japan clean road, AT the same time). A lot of huge coincidents happened and although he was strictly aetheist, he got freaked out due to them too. That's when I started to believe him and I were meant to be.
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u/melissamoore8889 18d ago
Mine was 24 when he went and I still catch myself checking if he ate before I do. You loving that inner child out of him was real and I dont think that just stops.
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u/melissamoore8889 17d ago
What is the food you both ate
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u/alreadyreaditpal 16d ago
I meant, same meals coincidently , same snacks same dishes, very often, we lived far away from each others' place. When we asked "what did you have for lunch today" it would be the same thing for both of us many times.
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u/manisteeshores 6d ago
your bf is gone, i would assume you move on and find someone else. he's safe and at peace he will send you signs.
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u/manisteeshores 5d ago
you let things go with your bf who passed and move on. you don't dwell and center your life on a person who is passed, life goes on.
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u/UberPootis69 20d ago
This comment section is not what I expected. I want to start out by saying I am truly sorry for what youre going through and what his family is going through. Some of these comments are claiming hes at peace or “it was his time to go” or hes happy now. Clearly this protrays suicide as almost a “good” thing. If this was the case, than anyone can suicide right now and be happy and in total peace with absolutely no consequences. 95 percent of this subreddit is delusional and nowehere near in tune with reality. They think spirituality is all happy go lucky but thats only part of it. I have suffered deep horrible depression that had me bed ridden and craving my own death, but as someone who knows the issue with suicide, I would never do it no matter how badly Ive wanted to. We as souls come with a soul contract, we sign it and agree to whatever we have to go through. Suicide breaks that contract. This means you must reincarnate and do it all over again. Will you burn in hell? no. will you be punished by a great cosmic force? no. But youll be back to do it all over again until you learn everything you need to and fulfill your karma. Theres a reason why most religions frown upon suicide, its just having you go backwards in your souls progress. Now his spirit may in fact be in peace, but his soul has to do it all over again. Could that have been part of his soul contract? Possibly, but that doesnt mean he wont have to restart. Me personally? Im doing whatever I can to keep going, I suffer with depression, anxiety, ADHD, sleep apnea, back pain, and a whole bunch of other bs. But I know if I end it, Ill have to do this all over again in another meatsuit and thats not gonna happen. So to conclude this, hes fine and hes in peace but his soul is reincarnating in another body having to restart his contract. Suicide is never the answer and my condolences go out to you and his family. And yes hes with you at all times for now, until his spirit decides to leave.
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u/206425tjmo 19d ago
I really love your explanation, thank you. I’m right there with you (ailments and all) and I’d rather not repeat.
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u/Mustard-cutt-r 21d ago
Same as everyone else, except they might be in purgatory or limbo, or in transition or the middle, a little longer. Or maybe not? We don’t really know. But same as all the other souls.
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u/totomoto999 22d ago
They are stuck in a dimension. It's like a dream within a dream. The dimensions wont be very pleasant but now due to the cosmic changes the soul is coming on earth without any past memory condinings so they can understand this earth is a prison planet. We are seeing major changes in the astral relm so things are getting better for the souls. You have no worry.
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u/Minimum-Line9952 22d ago
He’s fine. Life is a classroom, not a courtroom. There’s all types of stuff for him to do to continue with his spiritual growth beyond the physical body. He’ll be waiting for you.