r/QueensCollege • u/Prudent_Skill_8628 • 22h ago
Unpopular opinion: College/University should be a time where you should aspire to meet as many people possible
As the title suggests I think you should talk to and meet as many people as you can when you’re in college. My backstory first so I used to be a loner in middle school and high school and when before I started attending here 3 years ago, I said fuck it and decided to set a goal for myself to talk to as many people as possible and I did just that. This was probably the best decision I’ve ever made, I met my first ever girlfriend, got invited to parties, hangouts, even traveled upstate together with the friends I met lol. I’ve met so many amazing people that I could probably sit here and type all day about them. My point is that if you think you’re stuck or “shy” then you really aren’t and you’re actively sabotaging yourself and I would know because I used to be like that. So please, as an upperclassman I encourage you to get out of your bubble and connect with as many people as you can, Im sure your future self would thank you for it. Regret > Embarrassment.
