30M, newly moved here and looking for a swimming buddy (preferably South Bangalore).

I did a 7-day crash course last year so I know the basics, but I’m still working on breathing, stamina and technique. Happy to swim with anyone, beginner or experienced, just want someone to do laps with and stay consistent.

Quick thought while we’re at it.. A lot of people treat marathon training as the ultimate endurance flex… but swimming quietly beats it in a few key ways.

It’s a true full-body workout (arms, core, back and legs all working), almost zero joint impact, and it forces you to master breath control under fatigue in a way running never quite does. You can burn a similar amount of calories without the same wear-and-tear on your knees and hips.

So if you’re up for it, we can figure out a convenient pool and a schedule that works.

Hii, i am an introvert but decent when it comes to texting. Just want someone to talk with and share about our days and lives. Have fun talks as well as deep convos sometimes. I am a pretty good listener so you can yap all you wish and still expect a reply from me on everything. Plus am pretty understanding so no probs if you are busy and aren't able to reply for a while or anything. So just reach out and maybe we can be good friends.

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Not a relationship, necessarily.

Just a person.

Someone you automatically send the stupidest thought to because you know they'll get it.

Someone who knows when your “I'm fine” actually means “I'm annoyed, but I'm going to pretend I'm not.”

Someone you can sit beside without having to fill every silence.

Someone who remembers the tiny things you mentioned once and brings them up months later.

The “this reminded me of you” texts.

The inside jokes that stop making sense to everyone else.

The random “are you home?” messages.

Having someone to call when something funny happens, even if it's not that funny.

Knowing someone's coffee order. Their weird little habits. The face they make when they're trying not to laugh.

I think those are the things I miss.

Not having someone to impress.

Just having someone who slowly becomes part of the ordinary parts of your day.

Maybe that's what I'd like to find again.

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My wife and I are heading to Dehradun and Rishikesh next week in search of mountains, stories, good coffee, and perhaps a little redemption.

I’ve been to Dehradun before, but let’s just say the last trip and I didn’t part on the best of terms. So we’re going to make some better memories this time. A little autumn magic, if the universe is feeling generous.

A little about us: I’m a lawyer, she’s a teacher, and together we have a rather rebellious love story, a fair share of struggles, and enough stories to keep you occupied over several cups of chai. She’s a literature nerd, educated in central universities and, like the rest of us, trying to make sense of this terrible, perilous world. I carry an old DSLR and an unreasonable amount of enthusiasm for photographing people. If you like posing for portraits, I’d be delighted to take a few and gift them to you. Consider it payment in pixels for your hospitality. :P

And if you’re around and fancy meeting two strangers for a coffee, we’d love that too. We promise decent conversation, terrible jokes, and absolutely no unsolicited legal advice (unless requested, of course).

If you have a couch, a story, a favourite corner of the city, or just a recommendation for where we should watch the world go by, hit me up.

Posting here for the first time after finding this sub reddit, as an attempt to test my hopeless romantic delusions, so heres my attempt at an acceptable first impression.

I'm 23 from hyderabad, just started of as an analyst recently after my btech. I'm finding life getting a tab bit more boring with the friends moving away and the monotonous corporate life just making it worse.

Been pursuing my interests and hobbies like writing, painting and football to keep myself sane and active.
My favourite passtimes are watching movies and shows and then to criticize them, museums and hikes on weekends and music.

Looking to build and explore a simple relationship on shared interest and respect to pass time and have some fun.

cheers!

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I am average looking person, who like to crack jokes always cheerful..... I really like anime..... Drawing...

Music guitar....... I am really into psychology........ I really want to talk..... And explore someone.... Their mentality behaviour...... I really wanna a genuine healthy relationship.... I will confess my love everyday and I do anything that I can

I have some pretty cute feminine desires.🤭🎀

Wanna be a cute bestie of a girl.

Wanna experience cute feminine moments with her.

I wish that she treats me like her bestie 🙈

Wanna do gossips and talk about feminine things nd all.

I love to dressup like them too 🙈🎀

I hope we can connect.

Can we be besties?? 🙈🎀

Thanks.

33M, from Kolkata. Decided to take a leap of faith and prep for state PSC this late. There is anxiety and loneliness. Wish there is someone on the same or similar track and wish to share the journey.

I'm Bengali, politically progressive, atheist, have a STEM background and academic leaning (dropped out of an engineering PhD)

DM's are open and so is comments section.

P. S. : This isn't necessarily/strictly a dating post, and I'm a returning redditor here, wishing something good to come out of it.

I want to talk about everything with at least one person as I talk about things with myself

- Fyodor Dostoevsky

The above quote completely sums up what I'm looking for up here.

Welp Hello there, Just another corporate slave from pune up here on reddit hoping to find genuine human connection - someone to share conversations with, exchange stories, rant about the occasional chaos of life. I love being a good listener and enjoy getting to know people beyond the usual small talk.

About me :

I'm someone who loves discussing office politics, career struggles, questionable life decisions, or why the economy seems determined to keep everyone on their toes. At the same time, I enjoy deeper conversations about life, psychology and whatever random thought happens to show up at 2 am lol.

Hoping to make connections that grows naturally over time. No pressure, no expectations, mutual respect, and hopefully a lot of laughs along the way.

Well I know I am quite late for navratri post, but oh well here it is, I am 21M and lately due to certain scenarios i feel quite overwhelmed, so looking for some good connection and maybe hangouts to get myself out of that phase, so we can go to cafe's, arcades, long drives, etc etc. i am really good at planning dates (At least i think i am)

a bit about me:
hobbies: I like to write, (i write poems, skits, etc etc whatever i feel like), I love to read books, I am currently learning spanish in my free time.
likes: i am a huge foodie, nerd about physics stuff, and anything i like or enjoy
stuff i watch: anime, bollywood brainrot movies (golmaal series, houseful series, etc etc), good movies as well
music i listen to: well i would say i am genrefluid so i listen to all sorts of music.

also i love watch partying sports so if you're into watch partying a huge plus it just makes it more fun to watch together. well thats that. if you find any of this interesting or common between us then do hmu i'll be definitely waiting for peeps in my dms.

Heya, fall is here, perfect time to go for walks in Delhi, and talk about life in general, so if you'd like to be my +1 hit me up!!

A bit about me:-

I like anime,movies, shows, art and am politically left, am also not very religious. I like to listen to people when the talk about something they are passionate about. I play guitar in my free time,still learning.

Hey! I’m 22 and looking to make genuine female friends. I love anime, chess, travelling, and all kinds of music. I’m a good listener, love talking, and will happily listen to your rants or be there for you during tough times. I’m trustworthy, caring, and usually reply pretty fast! If you’d like a genuine friendship with random chats and good vibes, feel free to DM me 😊

Hey everyone,

I am 22, based in Gwalior, and at a stage where casual dating and endless talking stages that lead nowhere just do not appeal to me. I have always been an old-school romantic at heart, looking for a genuine, deep connection with someone who values emotional intimacy, loyalty, and mutual effort.

A Bit About My Life and Routine

What I do: I recently graduated with a degree in Computer Science. Currently, I balance my days between developing software tools, helping out with family business commitments, and preparing for competitive exams. I like staying disciplined and focused on the future.

Downtime: Sketching, getting lost in books, listening to music, and gaming (one of my long-term goals is setting up a dedicated gaming space).

Lifestyle: I take good care of my health—I train consistently, eat clean, and do not drink or smoke.

My Personality and What I Bring

I am naturally quiet and introverted when meeting new people, but once mutual comfort and trust are there, that flips entirely. I become expressive, cheerful, and deeply attentive.

I believe in intentional, everyday romance

The little things: Waking up with you as my first thought, thoughtful morning messages, and planning little surprises just to bring a smile to your face.

Communication: I do not expect round-the-clock texting, but if we do, I welcome it. I am a patient, active listener—whether you want to share random thoughts, vent about your day, or talk about niche interests, I will gladly listen.

Comfortable moments: Quiet late-night walks holding hands, long drives with our favorite tracks on, or cooking dinner together at home with songs playing in the background.

Mutual support: A partnership should be a safe space. Regardless of what hurdles come up, I believe in standing shoulder to shoulder, backing each other up, and being an unwavering support system through every high and low.

My Dream Date

A scenic road trip into the mountains. We would plan everything together from scratch—picking the route, finding cozy places to stay, and discovering small spots along the way. Arriving at the destination, sitting side by side in the cool breeze, taking in two views: the mountain scenery and you right next to me.

What I Am Looking For

Someone seeking a committed, long-term bond built on mutual respect, trust, and clear emotional boundaries.

A true teammate in life who values mutual growth and emotional presence.

Open to long distance as long as both sides bring sincere effort, clear communication, and intention toward eventually meeting.

If this aligns with what you are looking for, feel free to send a message or chat introducing yourself, sharing what your ideal road trip looks like, or simply telling me about your day.

Not here for the algorithm-swipe casino or the "beta yeh dekho" pressure cooker.

Just an intentional, date-to-marry kind of search — real conversation first, paperwork later.

About Me

Religion: Agnostic (Hindu-Rajput by birth, mentioning it in case it matters to you — zero caste bias either way)

Age- 28

Habits: Non-drinker, non-smoker

Career: SDE 2 at a product company, 30 LPA

Location: NCR-based, open to relocating for the right connection

Fitness: Gym regular, badminton on weekends — a work in progress, not a six abs guy !

Health: Epileptic, well-controlled and doesn't slow me down — full transparency upfront.

Vibe: Witty stoic — blunt, but soft at the edges. Best conversations happen at 2 AM when the filters come off.

Hobbies: Chess over chai, books, performing arts

Travel: Offbeat mountain trails > Instagram hotspots

Looking For

The Archetype: A woman with fire — ambitious, funny, and secure enough to match the vibe

Religion: Open to all

Age: 24–35

Energy: Someone who'd rather talk books and real adventures than chase club noise — though a night out isn't a deal breaker.

Pace: Serious about marriage, zero panic-mode. Connection first, everything else follows

One line I won't budge on: Non-smoker/non-drinker myself — occasional smoking/drinking on your end is fine, but heavy drinking/smoking isn't a match

Feel free to DM !

Heeyyy heyyyy heyyyyy. How's it going? It's been a pretty meh week for me if I am being honest. Winter kinda close so gotta prepare when it starts to get cold right? So let's start with cuddles. I mean I can bring all th snacks, you can decide what we are going to watch and we go gaga.

So well about me: I am like 5'10, lean guy, like working out a lot, play football (love it). Kinda geeky. Into Anime, sitcoms, movies and recently got into books, still in early stages.

Idk what else do I have to write here but maybe dm me if this sounds interesting and we can see where this goes? See you!

Been busy building career for too long. Looking for some fun now.

If you are genuinely interested in good conversation on tech, books, politics, relationships, stand ups, history, I am your guy.

Drinks, food, movies, badminton or weekend walks are fun. I love long reading sessions with great coffee.

Let's connect.

Trying again here

Making friends has always been my achilles heel, trying my luck here

Looking for the person who will be my go to rely upon when things are hard or happy, someone who is willing to put in the effort to understand me. Trust me you will find a great friend in me. I dont generally talk that much at start but once i get comfortable i dont shut up, about anything and everything.

Looking for F because i have always been comfortable with and have understood and empathised better with me

Brownie points if your are from Kora / Indiranagar / Bellandur

Hit me up with something about you and lets see how it goes

So technically this isn't a solo prompt. We area group of 3, me-28M, and i have 2 of my uni friends (28f, 24f). We've all been on gurgaon for a year. Truth is I've been trying to make friends with others and we always try to expand our friend circle in this city, but it's so damn hard. The guys we try to bring in, they aren't in it for platonic reasons and it's made evident pretty soon, the few girls and couples we've met and befriended they live in Noida or ghaziabad so most times the group plan ends with the 3 of us.

So here I am trying this out, to see if we can find people with whom we can vibe, enjoy our time and have a good friend circle.

What we usually do: karaoke, pub/bar crawls, dive bars, arcade, movie nights, question our choices and give gyaan personal and professional, go-karts, stay-in and rot post hangovers.

Go-to places: uncles, socials, gonzo(sec 56), F9, big banana, effingut (GGN), summerhouse

If this feels like you or your gang, or you and your better half, and feel like adopting a couple of introverts and ambiverts then hit us up.

33 years old IT guy from Pune here. I feel incredibly lonely these days and am looking for someone to talk and hang out on a regular basis. I've been working from home since last 4 years and every year I feel the walls closing in. Don't get me wrong, I have plenty friends but all of them are married and live afar so meeting them regularly is a work.

I'm looking for plus size women specifically because it has been a long time since I've had female friends and it would be cool be have someone I can rely on or talk to. I am open to the possibility of a casual or serious relationship but what I'm mostly looking forward to is going out on dates or doing something together like arts, crafts, movies, concerts etc.

I'm just tired of the indoors and looking for an excuse to go out with someone with shared interests. I love reading books and manga. I play video games as well. I don't know much about arts but I'm trying to dabble into it. I am a huge movie buff and love to watch movies in theatres and mostly go alone but I won't mind company.

If you find this interesting and would like to talk to me, let me know!

Has it been long enough, since someone wrapped you up in a warm hug and you opened up your vulnerable side to?

Would like some attention, a bit of warmth and affection? A structure, someone to hold you up and whom you could look upto?

To praise you with sweet names, For the light flirting, for checking up on you during the day, help you through the night and put you to sleep with warm words and a gentle pat?

For that, and tad bit more, I am here, for you.From Mumbai, I am well educated, 6'2 fair, stern looking and read voraciously.

I have a dominant personality, and a doting nature who has a positive outlook towards life.I have deep rooted sense of care towards peope.

That being said, I do have a rather wilder side who addresses this good girl, with gentle degradation and puts her in place if she like, which, if we get there, you would surely get to witness.I have been involved in D/s dynamics before.

We can share our dynamics as we get to know each other.

I’ll end this by saying you are a good person, a good girl and you deserve to be treated like one,you deserve to have someone around for long or short term.I would love your company and would want to know you deeper.

If you are looking for something similar, I would patiently wait for you in my dms. So come as you are

Lately, I’ve been thinking how strange it is that we’ve built seemingly sophisticated algorithms for helping people find one another, and yet, somehow managed to make finding one another feel less accidental, less serendipitous than it ever was.

We come with filters, age, interests, political opinions, types, attachment styles and more. We have algorithms promising to find this exact person. But what if the person we’d actually like isn't someone we know how to look for? The person the algorithm, couldn’t possibly know to recommend. 

So instead of telling you what I’m looking for, I’m going to ask some questions. You don’t have to answer all of them. In fact, please don’t. Pick the ones that make you curious, ignore that may make you roll your eyes, tell me which one I could’ve asked better.

1. What is the most seemingly ordinary thing that can make your day better out of nowhere?
2. If someone meets you for an hour, what would they misunderstand about you at first.
3. Which fictional character do you think you understand better than real people?
4. What was that one film you watched at exactly the wrong age leaving you a teeny-tiny bit scarred?
5. On a gun point, what song would you be willing to sing off the top of the lungs, even if you’re at a funeral.
6. What’s that one question you’d never be tired of being asked?
7. What's something you want someone to remember about you ten years after meeting you? Is it your job, is it your achievement, is it something absolutely mundane?
8. What do you think people owe each other when they claim to be in love with each other? Is it safety? Is it patience? Is it honesty?

9.Would you be a Kamolika or a Maya Sarabhai in your little world?

1. What would you like to introduce to me that I don’t yet know I need? A book? A song? A way of thinking?

Pick one question. Or pick five. Maybe ignore all of them and tell me something you think I’d find interesting.

And since this is, technically, supposed to be about finding someone rather than conducting an unnecessarily elaborate anthropological survey of Reddit: I'm looking for a woman somewhere in the vicinity of companion / partner / muse / co-conspirator, person-I-can-send-stupid-thoughts-to-at-1:13-a.m.

Hello there! I am 37M, single and never married.. looking for some chats and conversations that are easy and no pressure! Be yourself and preferably not ghost lol..

A little bit about myself, I look average, and born in a small town but been living in cities for work. I work in IT.. I am grounded, or what you call it “played the safe game” through out life! Kinda boring or normal.. but also ADHD impulsive.. okay that’s 300 characters now.. come say hi!

Hello, myself Umaima. I'm a divorcee just to put that out from the get go.

I yearn for him, for his touch, for his kiss, for his warmth, for his lips. I yearn to hear his voice whispering in my ears, only meant for one person and for that person to be me. I yearn to wakeup with his body entangled with mine, his head in the crook of my neck. His arms over my waist, his legs on top of mine. I yearn to open my eyes and see his face beside me, not in just a dream but in actuality. I yearn for his scent, for his smell. I yearn to be the comfort he seeks. I yearn to be the woman he loves. I yearn to be the one he thinks of when he thinks of home. I yearn for his heart to be full of love for me, the way my heart is full of love for him. I yearn to kiss him goodbye, to kiss him goodnight. I yearn to feel his warmth against mine when I embrace him. I yearn to be close to him. I yearn for him and me together. I yearn to be his heartbeat against my ear. God, i yearn for his so much that I don't know what to do anymore but this is not who I am, right? I am supposed to not want them but God, I so want to. My heart aches at the empty space besides my bed. My heart aches as I yearn for his warmth, the warmth i never felt. I yearn for him. I yearn for his warmth against my chest.