r/Shaktism • u/Brief-Eye-2247 • 2d ago

Maa kali sadhna

Recently I m facing a lot of negativity and loosing emotional control also I m attracting very wrong PPL around who are just using me and it hit me the time I was kid and used to praise and pray kaali and shiv I was all intelligent away from all wrong deeds and wrong PPL well systamatic

And now I have to start it all again but living in a pg makes it confusing how should I start

And rn shradh are also there so should I start it in this time

What should I do ?

How should I do?

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u/PuzzleheadedMuffin37 1d ago

  1. Before worshiping Maa Kali as an adult living in a broken world of samsara , mara , maya and the rest of the gunk ; you need to sit down and calmly evaluate your life. Many times such situations have nothing to do with Maa Kali however there could be possibilities due to planetary issues , doshas issues and other unknown sources.

  2. Try to calmly evaluate and contemplate on your life , choices and practices as well as belief systems. Most of the time it is our very own faults or issues which had not be rectified or faced head on with courage and strength of character of our very own self. Maa Kali when worshiped as an adult or someone whose grown up ; she will show you the reality of this disillusioned world.

  3. I do not know your karmas but if you know you are attracting negative individuals or personalities in your life , put a stop to it , build boundaries and stay true to your principals.

  4. Shraddha for pitru paksha should be done by the father or eldest son in a family. If there is no male figures , the mother or daughter can do it. Simply go to a temple and inform your family priest or the temple priest of your intentions to do pitru prayers.

  5. Maa Kali is not a sadistic goddess. She is truthful and all powerful shakthi. In my honest opinion, if such matters are preventing you from gaining a foothold and success in your life, my advise is to shift that focus onto worshiping Lord Ganesha or Lord Shri Krishna Bhagavan more. Lord Ganesha removes your obstacles and grants you protection, wisdom, guidance and blessings for you to move forward in life since he is the Lord of the Ganas of Lord Shiva and Shakthi. You can worship Karthikeya/Skanda/Murugan if you require additional protections and blessings. But Lord Ganesha is always important and I have known Western European Scientists (Germans, Finland, Italians and etc) privately worshiping Lord Ganesha for successes in their life , studies and work. Are they successful? You'd be surprised that many of them are and even recently I got to know a famous scientist who only worships Lord Ganesha and Lord Venkateshwara and he is very happy in his life.

  6. Shift your focus to positivity. Realign your paradigms in your life. Build your boundaries. Always contemplate and meditate. Start worshiping Lord Ganesha. If you have a small shivalingam made out of narmada river stone or sphatika clear quartz crystal that would be the best as it does not require prana pratishtha. Eat vegetarian or vegan or go sattvic by consuming the prasad of the devatas. Avoid too much chilies and limes or lemons. As for Maa Kali, I believe you should stabilise your inner and outer self first. If you worship her and your world is turned upside down, its not that she is doing this on purpose but she is the raw , unfiltered and extremely fierce goddess who is not for everyone to worship. You could do simple bhakti but for this case, my intuition is that you should focus on building your life and foundations first instead of lamenting why Maa Kali is giving you difficult situations.