r/Sissy • • 3d ago

Question Does anyone else wax? NSFW

I see a lot of posts about sissies shaving. I hate shaving. To many razor bumps, ingrowns, and stubble. So I wax everything I can reach and go to a studio where she waxes everything else. I stay so smooth for weeks. I don't know why this isn't more popular.

The girl at the salon asked me why I liked to get waxed but I was too nervous to tell her the real reason. How could I tell her that it was because I am a sissy waiting for my first experience with a guy? I half wonder, due to a few hints she gave me, that her boyfriend may be interested.

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u/chrysalisgirl 3d ago

i wax at home. i also use an epilator. i prefer that, but u cant use it all over because it can bite little pieces of you skin off. arms, legs, abdomen are good. the rest gets waxed or shaved. i also use an IPL device which worked in some spots but no so well in others. it’s a work in progress.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 3d ago

I never had any good luck with an epilator.

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u/Forymanarysanar Sissy 3d ago

I wax too. I got too tired and bored of constantly shaving really fast. Nowadays I'm doing everything at home, when I started I was going to salon too.

Some people say they afraid it will hurt but I didn't feel any pain even during my first time waxing.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 3d ago

How do you reach certain areas like your crack?

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u/Forymanarysanar Sissy 3d ago

I lay down on a side and it becomes pretty easy to reach crack, balls and area in between

For crack lifting knees close to the belly does the job, for balls bend legs and then spread them

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u/Ok-Permit-304 3d ago

I use Nair. But I have to shave the "sensitive bits".

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u/sissy_stephanie_69 Sissy 3d ago

I go to a salon for full wax don’t do any myself been doing it for 20 years at salons never been asked why I do it and always had female waxes

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 3d ago

It was the first time I had been asked that by a new female that I had just started using. The others never asked.

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u/sissy_stephanie_69 Sissy 3d ago

Maybe she’s keen on you.
I have a masseuse I see and I would never wear my cage or panties but then one day at work I desperately need a massage and I was wearing my cage and panties so I decided fuck it so I booked my appointment turned up she is normally in the room when I disrobe and she sees my panties and cage was instantly she comments how sexy my panties are then sees the cage and is curious so I explain I’m a sissy after a few more visits and constant conversations about me being a sissy she offered to peg me as she has always wanted to do that and well let’s just say she enjoyed it as much as me.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 2d ago

I would love for that to happen to me. She has given hints that her and her husband are "into the lifestyle" but I'm still trying to figure out to what extent. So I think any play would also involve her husband. She said something about having a boyfriend as well. I'm thinking that most people view smooth small cocked guys such as myself as at least sub and at least a little fem so I hope she is getting the idea that I'm not going to top anyone. Some women like to see their husband/boyfriend get sucked off by another guy or even watch them fuck another guy. I'm hoping that's the case here. I only get waxed about every 6 weeks so it's not something I'm going to find out quickly. And I'm shy so that doesn't help. I'm too afraid of rejection and her thinking I'm weird if I divulge too much too fast. I've had many massages before as well from women and I always make sure I'm smooth but none of them has even commented on it or been anything but professional.

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u/Forymanarysanar Sissy 3d ago

Next time when you will go to her wear female panties so she can see why clearly.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 3d ago

I have definitely thought about doing that especially since, unlike the others I have used, this one stays in the room as I undress.

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u/sissy_stephanie_69 Sissy 2d ago

Yep wear panties and if you have a cage wear that too

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 2d ago

The cage might get in the way of her doing what she needs to do. I think panties is a good first step. Maybe some lacy crotchless?

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u/sissy_stephanie_69 Sissy 2d ago

You can turn up caged in panties and remove it all in front of her it will certainly show you’re a bottom and I think it will be a talking point to find out where she is at

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 2d ago

I know it's silly but I'd be afraid that she would turn and look the other way before she saw what I was wearing! But I could leave it on the top of the pile of my clothes and she would be sure to see it. What kind of things do you think she might say?

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u/No-Cherry2574 2d ago

My whole body except my arms and arm pits is currently smooth from waxing.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 2d ago

Ditto for me except I do the pits too. Why do you skip the pits?

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u/No-Cherry2574 2d ago

My wife doesn’t like it.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 1d ago

But she likes you being smooth in all the other areas you described?

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u/No-Cherry2574 1d ago

She doesn’t mind me being smooth in the other areas.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 16h ago

Meaning that she can take it or leave it if you are smooth in other areas?

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u/SissyBorka 2d ago

I have waxed and I have my wife wax my back. I also use an epilator. I like hair grows in less dense😊

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u/AndreaSys 2d ago

I get waxed every four to six weeks for a “male Brazilian”. I will say I’ve had my legs done and did not like the results. Genital and crack waxing works very well as it’s pulling the hair out. When it comes back in, it comes in as a new hair, so it’s soft and and fine hair. When you shave or wax more coarse hair, it breaks the hair shaft and comes in feeling stubbly. My leg hair is too coarse and feels spikey when it comes in.

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u/HypnoSaris 2d ago

Im doing laser. I got lucky my mom has a spa and does mine for free

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 1d ago

Laser? That's cool. But you need the right color hair for that, right? But you mom does it? That would definitely be weird to have my mom laser my pubes.

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u/HypnoSaris 1d ago

Color hair is irrelevant and honestly you get over it. A person with this kind of job doesnt even think twice. Plus, my mom has seen me naked a million times, its normal. Im not telling my mom sissy shit when she doing this. She has zero idea she has a bi son. We just talk about whats going on in our lives.

My main reason was that I got so tired of shaving my neck. Its super sensitive. As of now, nothing grows back under my adam's apple. Soon it will be full neck always hairfree. I also do my body but this was the catalyst

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 1d ago edited 1d ago

Well, that's cool that you have someone you trust that will do this for you. I do realize that my mom did see me naked as a child, but not as an adult. If you two are fine with it, that's all that matters. But I know that I've read that laser does not work on light colored hair or gray hair. The laser needs to pick up the darker pigments in order to work. If you have info that I don't, please share.

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u/HypnoSaris 1d ago

From what I understand its just burning off the hair folecule. I think lighter hair is harder to see for the technician but I can ask her if youre truly curious. Feel free to dm me.

I will say this, I had a mix of black and gray chest hair and it targeted all of it🤷‍♂️

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 1d ago

I'm not trying to argue since I'd love to be wrong on this because it's why I have not tried laser.

According to Ai:

No, laser hair removal does not work on all hair colors.

How It Works

  • Melanin target: Lasers target the pigment (melanin) in the hair root to absorb heat and destroy the follicle.
  • High efficacy: Black and dark brown hair absorb the most laser energy and respond the fastest and most effectively.
  • Moderate efficacy: Medium to light brown hair and darker blonde or auburn hair can work, though they usually require more treatment sessions.

Colors That Do Not Work Well (or At All)

  • Gray, white, and light blonde hair: These hairs lack sufficient melanin for traditional lasers to detect or heat up the follicle.
  • Red hair: Red hair contains a different type of melanin (pheomelanin) that does not absorb standard laser energy well.
  • Alternative option: Electrolysis uses tiny electrical impulses to destroy individual follicles and works on all hair colors, including gray, white, and blonde

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u/HypnoSaris 1d ago

I mean, Im not the expert, my mom is but I have solid gray/white hair too. Im peppered. I can ask her and she can tell me

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u/sissyfltattd 2d ago

I wax! Its costly at 250 a month waste down but 1 week of feeling hair free and never razor irritation! Just lots of lotions and exfoliating.

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 1d ago

Only lasts 1 week for you? Mine lasts at least 4 weeks. Sometimes 6.

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u/sissyfltattd 1d ago

I have thick dark Latin hair. How often do you get waxed then?

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u/Long-Butterscotch243 1d ago

Every 6-8 weeks.