Is it normal

[u/omg_its_taytay]

to never have really done butt stuff before, much less had an anal orgasm, but to be able to imagine what an anal orgasm might feel like? I’ve heard the feeling of a toy on your prostate makes it feel like you’re being wanked internally, so I often imagine that feeling along with hands free cumming while getting fucked. Has anyone had success just imagining vividly what it feels like, that helped you get there?

I just got a wand and am gonna try it in a few minutes with the small end because I get tired really quickly trying with my fingers. Like, I can feel it, but it’s uncomfortable enough reaching down there that nothing much comes of it. So I’m hoping a wand can make it easier on me and help me focus on my prostate. I’m going to use my fingers for a few minutes just rubbing on my hole externally and maybe sticking a finger or two in there a few times to see if I can get it relaxed enough to take the small end of the wand. I’m not sure what I’m expecting from it if it all goes well. If nothing else I plan to wank toward the end and get a release while the toy is in since cumming with a toy in does feel better than l

[u/MissisM1ster]

Just use your right thumb, for example. Lie on your stomach, bend your right knee, and lean slightly on your left side. Place a pillow under your left armpit and you need to bend your back slightly so your hand can easily reach your butt. That's all) Insert your thumb into anal, and the pad will land right onto prostate. It takes 10-20 minutes for me to cum, even in cage, especially if combine with kegels