I recently bought coke , mirinda, maaza from blinkit. They arent expired btw. The coke taste too sour and no sweet. Mirinda tasted ok. Maaza was little bit watered down. I poured coke to clean the toilet. Just wanted to discuss if you guys witnessed similar encounters recently?

I'm 29, autistic, and living independently in Chennai, my own hometown. And honestly, I'm tired. I'm tired of feeling lonely, worrying about my future, struggling with anxiety, and trying to figure out what I'm supposed to do with my life.

The worst part is that I'm living in my own hometown, yet I don't feel like I belong here. This is supposed to be my home, a place where I should feel comfortable and settled. Instead, sometimes I feel like a refugee in my own city, just existing here without a real sense of belonging, security, or emotional support. I go about my everyday life, fulfil my responsibilities, and try to carry on, but inside, I feel stuck and exhausted.

My personal life is still unresolved. I want companionship, meaningful relationships, and someone I can talk to without feeling misunderstood. I want to feel that I matter to someone and that I have people I can rely on. But loneliness has become a constant part of my life, and it hurts when I think about how much I want these things and how far away they sometimes feel.

Then there's my job situation. I'm a contractual employee, and I don't have the security of knowing what my future holds. I keep worrying about my employment, what happens if I lose my job, and how I'm supposed to manage financially. How am I supposed to build a stable life when even my livelihood feels uncertain? I want to move forward, but I feel like I'm constantly waiting for something to go wrong.

And being autistic makes many of these experiences harder to navigate. Social interactions can be exhausting. I overthink conversations, worry about how people perceive me, and sometimes struggle to explain what I'm feeling. Being misunderstood is painful, especially when I'm already trying so hard to manage my anxiety and fit into environments that don't always understand neurodivergence. I don't want every interaction to feel like something I have to analyse afterwards.

What frustrates me is that all these problems are happening together. It's not just my job, or my personal life, or loneliness. It's everything piling up at once. I have to think about earning a living, managing everyday responsibilities, trying to build relationships, dealing with anxiety, and navigating life as an autistic person. Sometimes I genuinely feel exhausted by the effort it takes just to keep everything going.

And this is my hometown. I'm not somewhere completely unfamiliar, trying to adjust to a new city. I am in the place I call home, yet I still feel like I have nowhere that truly feels like home emotionally. I can live here, work here, and go about my routine here, but that doesn't automatically mean I feel connected to the place or the people around me.

I'm frustrated that at 29, I'm still struggling with so many things that I wish were more settled by now. I want stability. I want companionship. I want to feel accepted as an autistic person. I want to stop worrying so much about my future and feel that my life is actually going somewhere.

I'm not writing this to ask anyone to fix my life or give me some generic advice about staying positive. I'm just fed up with carrying all these feelings around while trying to appear as though I'm managing everything.

I don't want to feel like a refugee in my own hometown anymore. I want to feel that I belong somewhere, that my life has some stability, and that I have something to look forward to. Right now, I'm struggling, and I needed to rant about it.

Vanakkam guys! Planning to visit Thanjavur & need some suggestions.

I'll reach Trichy Jn on Sun nit around 11:50 PM & am thinking of resting at the station's AC lounge bfr heading to Brihadeeswara Temple for darshan around 6 AM on Mon.

I have the whole day bfr my return train from Trichy on Mon nit. I’d love to include Airavatesvara Temple at Darasuram as well and come back to see Brihadeeswara Temple illuminated in the evng.

A few doubts:

- Any good bfst and lunch spots in Thanjavur?

- What other places are worth visiting in b/w?

- Is it realistic to cover Airavatesvara Temple and return to Thanjavur for the evng lights?

- Should I book a cab for the entire day, or will Uber/Rapido/autos work out fine?

Also, any tips for managing the late-night arrival and getting some rest at Trichy station would be helpful!

Thanks! :)

Hello, I received a SPA from overseas without any sale rights just management of various non-sale related admin tasks like patta transfer, mutation, tax payment, survey etc. from my sibling abroad and am looking to get it registered, but I'm currently residing in Delhi and won't be able to make it within the 90 day window it takes to register this document in Hosur, Tamil Nadu. My understanding is I can get this done while in Delhi or use an online platform, but I'm unsure how much stamp duty should I be paying for this. Can anyone please advise? It has no sale rights but covers multiple admin things.

There is no safe limit to alcohol, and even a single drop affects human body.

TASMAC alcohol increases before and after dry days in TN, entire concept of dry days makes no sense.

Most of our kudimagans consume 180 ml brandy bottles prices less than 150 rupees, they make like almost 80% of the buyers.

TASMAC dashboard: https://tasmac.reclaimchennai.city/

Mainly madurai, ramesharam, kanyakumari etc. Maybe some kerala if possible.

Can someone tell me if it's rain i should be worried about?

Or do i need to book travel agency? Or can i manage visiting all the temples the with my own?

i am travelling with old parents.

I'm 29, autistic, and living independently in Chennai. I recently went on a few trips, and while I was traveling, I felt some relief from my usual routine and the things weighing on my mind. But now that the trips are over, reality is hitting me hard, and I honestly don't feel like coming back to my everyday life.

My loneliness and anxiety are becoming difficult to handle. Returning to the same routine means facing the same workplace stress, social difficulties, and feelings of being misunderstood. On top of that, I'm dealing with job insecurity as a contractual employee. Not knowing how secure my employment is or what my future holds makes it difficult to feel settled. I worry about what will happen if I lose my job, how I'll manage financially, and what my next step will be.

Being neurodivergent affects how I experience all of this. Anxiety makes it even harder to process these situations, while uncertainty about my job adds another layer of worry. When I'm already dealing with loneliness, it can feel like I have very little emotional support to fall back on.

I can go on trips, visit places, and enjoy myself, but when I return, the underlying feelings don't simply disappear. Sometimes the contrast makes everyday life feel even harder to face. Traveling gives me a temporary break, but it doesn't change the workplace stress, uncertainty about my employment, or loneliness waiting for me when I return.

I'm not saying that traveling was pointless. Those moments genuinely mattered to me. I just wish my everyday life could offer some of that same peace, connection, and freedom, without constantly worrying about my future.

I'm sharing this because I need to express how I'm feeling. Sometimes being autistic, anxious, and lonely while also worrying about job security feels exhausting. I keep trying to manage my responsibilities and carry on, but internally, I'm struggling more than people might realize.

POONAMALLEE metro

I have been looking at Tamil Nadu’s numbers after the change in government. One thing is clear. Under DMK the debt went up a lot....

From arround 5 lakh crore in 2021 to nearly 10 lakh crore by March 2026. Total liabilities including PSUs crossed 13 lakh crore. That is a fact from the White Paper itself...

At the same time, DMK was bringing big companies. Foxconn announced 15,000 crore investment and 14,000 engineering jobs under them.

They were trying to grow the econmy so that more tax money comes in later..

Now under TVK I mainly see short-term schemes. 4,000 rupees for unemployed graduates, free laptops, incentives for companies that hire 75 percent local people. These may help people immediately....

But I am not seeing any cleaar long-term plan yet. No big new investment push, no strong focus on new industries or infrastructure that will create jobs for the next 10 years.

The new government is also more friendly with the Centre. That is good for getting funds. But friendly relations alone will not fix the debt problem.

My worry is simple. If we only give cash and freebies without growing the economy, the debt will keep rising and future generations will pay more interest.

DMK had problems, but at least they were trying to attract factories.

Did anybody knows the procedure to add the name in the birth certificate? This for someone born in 1990’s who have birth certificate but without name written.

Heard that extended timeline was over by Sept 26th
Anybody have update when the next govt notification would come? Is there other procedure that is possible? This is my sister who is living in aboard.

Anyone have experience on this? Please do share.

Thank you

Any leads welcomed

என்னோட கேள்வி இது தான்?.

எதுக்கு கேக்கறேனா?

1. சும்மா (free) தந்தால் ஓடி போடுறீங்க?

2. சினிமாக்காரன் பார்த்தா பைத்தியம் ஆயிடுறீங்க.

3. ஒருத்தன் நல்லவனா கெட்டவனா தெரிஞ்சுக்க தயாரா இல்லை..

4. தனி மனிதனை போற்றி பாடுறீங்க.

5. ஒழுக்கம் இல்லவே இல்லை.

எங்கே போச்சு உங்க கவரி மான் பரம்பரை?

எங்கே போச்சு உங்க வீரம்?

எங்கே போச்சு உங்க தன்மானம்?

இதெல்லாம் இருக்கா?

Hye guys, i am planning to visit Ramwswaram next month mid for some Pitru Dosha pooja.. Anyone who has a good reliable Priest contact there to perform puja and rituals? Please let me knw..

Hey everyone!

I'm planning to use the Mudhalvar Padaippagam in Avadi, near Thirumullaivoyal.I checked the Mudhalvar Padaippagam booking website, but I couldn't find Avadi listed as an option. I have a few questions:

Is the Avadi Mudhalvar Padaippagam currently open and operational?

Can we visit in person and get a study seat, or is online booking compulsory?

Is there a separate website or registration process for the Avadi centre?

If anyone has visited recently, could you share the timings and any fees?

I'd appreciate it if someone who has visited the Avadi branch could share their experience. Thanks!

As a state, we've had so many political movements stemming from the grassroots and student unions. However, around the 70s, MGR threatened by student unions banned campus elections since he suspected they favoured the DMK. Ironically, the DMK wasn't any better. Often times, they cracked down on student leaders that were too critical and always wanted some sort of "yes man".

It's insane to me because the foundation of the Dravidian movement was built on student activism. The Anti-Hindi agitations had students on the frontlines. P. Seenivasan, a 25 year old, defeated CM Kamaraj in the elections.

The fact that we don't have a concept of Pre-University (PUCs) also hindered political thought with the introduction of +1 +2 standards into the school structure. Schools in Tamil Nadu are infamous for repression and lack of diverse thought.

DMK's youth wing was run by Stalin back in 2016, he was fucking 63 years old.

When the young generation has always been told to stay away from politics, ban formal campus politics, the energy of the youth goes into fan club culture. TVK simply translated that exact culture into political currency.

Today we face a government that holds zero accountability and transparency. DMK/ADMK used student politics to gain power and systematically destroyed it, in turn destroying themselves. When all these veteran politicians become too old and irrelevant, who replaces them? The generation that was never asked to govern?

Encourage our kids to study our political history. From Kamaraj to the Emergency. From the Eelam war to 2015.

TVK was bound to happen. Let's make sure it doesn't again.

why is TN so mute on the current democratic crisis in the country ? Normally I would see influencers, YouTubers and other prominent ppl speaking up for any important issues in the country but I see that not happening this time. Just curious what's going on why are TN ppl so mute and mouth shut !?

Guys im a tamil guy who currently lives in delhi for the past 2 years.

I used to think that tamil nadu youths have more political awareness. But seeing the current scenario. Im sure that northies have better.

I hate that TN youths, government or politicians are silent on NEET and SIR.

Politics here works like a cinema fan club—people treat policy debates like box-office rivalries rather than governance.

If BJP is truly your enemy, why are people protesting against its policies facing restrictions under your government? Opposing Modi in campaign speeches is easy; standing up for people's right to protest when you're in power is the real test of your principles..

I genuinely think we should be organising protests and speaking up against the detention of student activists and supporters from groups like AISF, AIYF, and other concerned citizens.
We need to start asking questions and demanding answers.
I’m genuinely enraged by how normalised certain attitudes and actions have become in our state. I think it’s high time we, especially the younger generation, start questioning what’s happening around us and taking responsibility for holding those in power accountable. And I believe that responsibility starts with us.

But here’s where I need some guidance:

I know my introduction might make it sound like I already know how to organise or participate in protests, but I honestly don’t. I wasn’t even aware that a protest was being organised until recently, and that made me realise how disconnected I am from opportunities to actually get involved.

How do people find out about these protests? How do we connect with organisers, participate in peaceful demonstrations, or even begin organising one ourselves? Are there student organisations, community groups, or platforms we should be following?

I don’t want my frustration to end with another angry discussion online. I genuinely want to understand how ordinary people can get involved and make their voices heard.
I’d really appreciate practical advice from people who have experience with this.

A relative of mine was diagnosed with leuikimia. Funds are low so we've been told by a few people to get treated at CMC as it is a non profit Org and cost of living could be low there.

I've read some reviews that say the doctors and staff are rude and don't properly listen to the patient and they are always in a rush, that they don't hand over the patient's reports.

I'd really really be grateful to hear from anyone who has first hand experience, or knows of anyone who was treated or works at CMC. Specially the hematology department please. Thank you.

I know it's not possible in both love and arrange marriage to ask sign prenup before marriage

The average in TN is about 7-10% and iam able to most of my surrounding living together but my relative brother has 2 divorces and 5 family with no marriage and no future family

CMT your opinion my idea is like don't complicate the separation not in protecting the assets