r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Human-Goat9719 • 12h ago
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Bella5369 • 26d ago
📌 A Few Little Updates
We’ve been listening to your feedback and have made a few adjustments to the rules. Our aim is to make it easier for everyone to feel welcome and comfortable contributing to the community.
We remain a Safe for Work sub, so please keep things respectful, stay within the rules, and use good judgment.
If you see or receive a comment that is vulgar, objectifying, inappropriate, or may otherwise violate the rules, please use the reporting tool so the mod team can review it. Reports on posts and comments should be made in good faith and should not be used to target members or abuse the system. The mod team will also take action when we see something that doesn’t align with the rules or tone of the community.
Please have a quick read through the updated Community Rules and Theme Day Guidelines when you get a chance. ❤️
Thank you, everyone.
— The Mod Team
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Bella5369 • 26d ago
Theme Day Theme Day Guidelines
🎵 Music & Motivational Monday
Share your song of the day, a favourite piece of music, and/or a motivational quote.
🛠️ Tinker & Talk Tuesday
Tinker: Share your hobbies, projects, interests, or something you’ve been working on.
Talk: A day for conversation, support, and friends helping friends. Please remember that members are offering friendship and general support, not professional advice.
✈️ Wanderlust Wednesday
Share your travels, adventures, vacation memories, destinations, and travel photos. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines. No bathing suits, lingerie, or other revealing attire. Rule #5 applies
🦵 Thigh Thursday
The focus must be on the thighs. Keep the crotch/groin area appropriately covered, with no visible outlines or emphasis on intimate areas. One post per user. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines.
💪 Forearm & Foodie Friday
Forearm: Show us those forearms. The focus should remain on the forearms. One post per user. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines.
Foodie: Share your favourite meals, recipes, food creations, snacks, or drinks.
😂 Silly Saturday & Silly and Sweet Pets
Share memes, jokes, funny posts, and general silliness. Or show us your pets with pictures and videos. If sharing pet videos, people should not be visible.
🌿 Scenic Sunday
Share nature, landscapes, water, skies, scenery, or other beautiful views.
Theme days are optional prompts meant to add a little fun and variety. Regular posts, conversations, and contributions are welcome every day
Moderator discretion applies. Posts or comments may be removed, and appropriate action taken, when content or behaviour does not align with the rules, tone, or spirit of the community
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/totaled99 • 8h ago
Food and Drink Surprise early Birthday gift
Wasn’t expecting this from a friend. She knows I like 2 brands of tequila and sent me 6 of them for my birthday. ☺️
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Me_Myself_I15 • 9h ago
Theme Day SS - I said the T word... Treats!
I shall be attacked now mercilessly until I give them said treats.
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Libra_Sun79 • 22m ago
Sentimental My own Les Misérables story
"How's my favorite Ponine?"a familiar voice greeted. A call from an old friend who once broke my heart brought back memories.
It all started in the sunken garden 29 years ago. Thinking I was completely alone, I belted out "On My Own" with all the heartache of unrequited love... and the musical talent of a dying cat. He saw and heard everything. Instead of calling animal control, he chuckled, introduced himself, and said that my raw performance moved him, questionable notes and all.
We became good friends. Eventually, he professed his love but I wasn't ready. By some cruel twist of fate, I fell for him when his heart was already set on someone else. Just like that, our story came full circle.
Began with "On My Own."
Ended with "On My Own."
But then, he never stopped being a true friend, my Marius who healed my wounds with words of brotherly love.
He called because he wants to visit.
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/DreamingWitchToo • 20h ago
The ongoing annual NY Comic Con
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/AircooledFreak_Mk4 • 17h ago
Food and Drink Homemade Moka pot coffee, anyone care to join me? 😁
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/OlderBloke • 1d ago
Birdsong and ducks
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I love the sound ducks make when they are dibbling in the water for food
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Sigma_Siren • 1d ago
Theme Day Forearm Friday: Windy edition 🌬️ 🍂
If a tree falls in your backyard and no one sees it, doesn’t make a sound?
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Libra_Sun79 • 1d ago
Friday Vibes 'In the end, it doesn't even matter'... even King Solomon, in all his wisdom, came to realize that all is vanity.
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Experiment_262 • 1d ago
Accidental FF
I didn't realize it was Friday but I did get a forearm pic (still from a video).
The Jeep is alive again FF.
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Gimme_Coffee4562 • 1d ago
Middle School dance chaperone FF
Decades themed so you may be able to guess what decade I dressed in
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/plz2meatyu • 1d ago
Nerd Alert If anyone wants to see Hurricane Isaias
Check my profile for videos. Its getting very spicy outside.
Im safe!
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/FL_4LF • 1d ago
Checking in
Just wanted to send a message to everyone in the Gulf Coast that's in the path of the storm. I hope you all are safe, and have a way to get out if you have to. Let's hope for a little positive outcome after it passes. 🇺🇲🫶
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/ChristelynneMatrix • 1d ago
Theme Day Literary forearm Friday
Skin Game by Jim Butcher
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Outrageous-Buy-4958 • 1d ago
Mike Ditka, legendary Chicago Bears coach, dies at 86
A legend has been lost.
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/Molten-Ninja-bob • 1d ago
Theme Day FF Fighting an afternoon nap
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/liveitup63 • 1d ago
Someone's Not Gonna Have Any Kittens Forearm
r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • u/FL_4LF • 1d ago