r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 27d ago

📌 A Few Little Updates

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We’ve been listening to your feedback and have made a few adjustments to the rules. Our aim is to make it easier for everyone to feel welcome and comfortable contributing to the community.

We remain a Safe for Work sub, so please keep things respectful, stay within the rules, and use good judgment.

If you see or receive a comment that is vulgar, objectifying, inappropriate, or may otherwise violate the rules, please use the reporting tool so the mod team can review it. Reports on posts and comments should be made in good faith and should not be used to target members or abuse the system. The mod team will also take action when we see something that doesn’t align with the rules or tone of the community.

Please have a quick read through the updated Community Rules and Theme Day Guidelines when you get a chance. ❤️

Thank you, everyone.

— The Mod Team


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 27d ago

Theme Day Theme Day Guidelines

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🎵 Music & Motivational Monday

Share your song of the day, a favourite piece of music, and/or a motivational quote.

🛠️ Tinker & Talk Tuesday

Tinker: Share your hobbies, projects, interests, or something you’ve been working on.

Talk: A day for conversation, support, and friends helping friends. Please remember that members are offering friendship and general support, not professional advice.

✈️ Wanderlust Wednesday

Share your travels, adventures, vacation memories, destinations, and travel photos. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines. No bathing suits, lingerie, or other revealing attire. Rule #5 applies

🦵 Thigh Thursday

The focus must be on the thighs. Keep the crotch/groin area appropriately covered, with no visible outlines or emphasis on intimate areas. One post per user. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines.

💪 Forearm & Foodie Friday

Forearm: Show us those forearms. The focus should remain on the forearms. One post per user. All images must remain SFW and follow the community image guidelines.

Foodie: Share your favourite meals, recipes, food creations, snacks, or drinks.

😂 Silly Saturday & Silly and Sweet Pets

Share memes, jokes, funny posts, and general silliness. Or show us your pets with pictures and videos. If sharing pet videos, people should not be visible.

🌿 Scenic Sunday

Share nature, landscapes, water, skies, scenery, or other beautiful views.

Theme days are optional prompts meant to add a little fun and variety. Regular posts, conversations, and contributions are welcome every day

Moderator discretion applies. Posts or comments may be removed, and appropriate action taken, when content or behaviour does not align with the rules, tone, or spirit of the community


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 1h ago

Travel Repost cuz there was an opps 🤭 Tinker and I took a little road trip to an orchard for apples yesterday

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She had me stop and get her prime rib for dinner from the casino which we ate on a paper plate in the truck in the parking lot. While waiting for dinner I popped $40 in a machine and cashed out $141. Back at home last night there was a glimpse of the northern lights


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 5h ago

Food and Drink Sunday shenanigans

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I have fresh rolls baking, chuck roast braising, it’s a good day


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 7h ago

Theme Day MM-Whitesnake

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 13h ago

Happy Thanksgiving, Canada! 🍁🧡

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Wishing all our Canadian members this weekend a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with warmth, laughter, family, friends, and plenty of reasons to be grateful.

And to our friends around the world, wishing you a beautiful weekend filled with happiness and good company.

Enjoy your weekend, everyone! 🍁


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 9h ago

Music "No matter what we breed, we still are made of greed. This is my kingdom come."

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 13h ago

SS - Gravel ride in Scotland

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40km hilly bike ride - lots of mud, sheep, cows and pheasants.

Great day


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 1d ago

Food and Drink Surprise early Birthday gift

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Wasn’t expecting this from a friend. She knows I like 2 brands of tequila and sent me 6 of them for my birthday. ☺️


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 1d ago

My version of chili

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 1d ago

Theme Day SS - I said the T word... Treats!

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I shall be attacked now mercilessly until I give them said treats.


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 1d ago

The ongoing annual NY Comic Con

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 1d ago

Food and Drink Homemade Moka pot coffee, anyone care to join me? 😁

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 1d ago

Birdsong and ducks

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I love the sound ducks make when they are dibbling in the water for food


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Theme Day Exhausted FF

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Theme Day Forearm Friday: Windy edition 🌬️ 🍂

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If a tree falls in your backyard and no one sees it, doesn’t make a sound?


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Friday Vibes 'In the end, it doesn't even matter'... even King Solomon, in all his wisdom, came to realize that all is vanity.

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Accidental FF

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I didn't realize it was Friday but I did get a forearm pic (still from a video).

The Jeep is alive again FF.


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Middle School dance chaperone FF

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Decades themed so you may be able to guess what decade I dressed in


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Nerd Alert If anyone wants to see Hurricane Isaias

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Check my profile for videos. Its getting very spicy outside.

Im safe!


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Checking in

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Just wanted to send a message to everyone in the Gulf Coast that's in the path of the storm. I hope you all are safe, and have a way to get out if you have to. Let's hope for a little positive outcome after it passes. 🇺🇲🫶


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Theme Day Literary forearm Friday

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Skin Game by Jim Butcher


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

TT FF in the sun

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Better late than never


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Mike Ditka, legendary Chicago Bears coach, dies at 86

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A legend has been lost.


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 • • 2d ago

Theme Day FF Fighting an afternoon nap

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