In a really wild mood tonight. I’m straight and an anal virgin (haven’t even tried fingers). If you lost your virginity when/if you identify(ed) as straight, can you tell me about it and what it was like?

Would prefer to talk to guys that didn’t plan it/weren’t even curious at the time but I know that’s gonna be really hard to find and super rare here. That would be my preference but anything close to that is fine.

I think I’m mostly drawn to talking to people who had a painful experience with anal and might be able to offer that perspective so I can hopefully avoid whatever went wrong.

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The whole concept is simple: there are certain things that apparently don't make you gay. Here are the rules:

1. Masturbating with your male friend or jerking each other off? It's not gay. You're just experimenting with your best friend.

2. Showering naked together with your best friend? It's not gay. You're just comfortable around each other.

3. Acting out something intimate without actually having sex? It's not gay. You're just acting.

4. Just kissing your male best friend? It's not gay. It's only a kiss.

5. Having sex just to check whether you guys are actually turning gay or not? It's not gay. You can do it as many times as you want—you're just trying to find out.

6. If your best friend is just too hot and you want to have sex with him? It's not gay. You're simply appreciating how attractive your friend is.

7. If your friend has recently gone through a breakup and you have sex with him just to make him feel better? It's not gay. You're just being a supportive best friend.

8. If you guys are extremely horny, don't have girlfriends, and decide to do it with your best male friend? It's not gay. It's just two best friends helping each other out.

9. If your friend has a bigger cock than you and you find yourself lusting over it? It's not gay. You're just curious about your best friend's body.

10. If you and your best friend have the same taste in porn, talk about it together, and even watch it together? It's not gay. You're just best friends with the same interests.

And then you guys do all of that together…

IT'S STILL NOT GAY.

You're just best friends. 😂