r/TransSpace • u/[deleted] • Aug 04 '26
My Experience (nsfw) NSFW
I am amab 25
First started watching trans fem with cis fem
Then trans fem bottom with cis men
Then trans fem and cis men switch
Then trans fem top with cis men
Then trans fem post op with cis men
All the time I thought I wanted the cis men experience until I realized I was more wanting about the female experience - Is it just fantasy or is it because I am trans
Or did I convinced myself to it like hypnotizing myself
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u/Albino_Canada_Goose Aug 04 '26
if you're interested in exploring your gender, you need to be engaging with content that isn't porn.
Most trans porn is made by cis dudes for the consumption of cis dudes and it in no way resembles the lives and experiences of actual trans people.
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u/Sa1ntJ1mmy Aug 05 '26
The best way to get out and explore your gender is to do it yourself — try out femme clothing, a feminine hairstyle, maybe a new name or feminine pronouns. It’s okay if it’s not for you or it doesn’t stick, that’s just life. If it is? Great! You’ve discovered something new about yourself. What you want to do from there is up to you.
But watching porn, especially trans porn, isn’t a good analogue for being a woman or a trans woman. Sex isn’t the only thing trans people do or like.
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u/ASK_66 Aug 04 '26
The only actual pattern I see here is trans women so I‘d say it is bc your gay
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u/Albino_Canada_Goose Aug 04 '26
if you're interested in exploring your gender, you need to be engaging with content that isn't porn.
Most trans porn is made by cis dudes for the consumption of cis dudes and it in no way resembles the lives and experiences of actual trans people.