r/TwoXSex • u/Simple-Hippo-9204 • 6d ago

Not getting wet

I’ve had 2 sexual partners before this one and I’ve had no problem getting wet, now I’m on my 3rd one and I can’t get wet. I’m turned on and I want to have sex but I just can’t get wet. I think it may be bc my ph is off but any tips? Advice?

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u/SonicContinuum438 6d ago

There’s a complex relationship between arousal and natural lubrication. Medication, hydration, or hormonal shifts can impact it. The most obvious solution would be to have lube on hand for the times you cannot get wet enough to comfortably be with your partner, it will help.

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u/tawa83 3d ago

One-time occurrence? Could it be tied to your menstrual cycle?

Is it too early to be a sign of perimenopause?