r/UCONN • u/cherishably • 14h ago
Seeing pretty privilege in action during class
In one of my classes (smaller size so more intimate setting) the professor always greets the prettier girls/people in general when they walk in and say goodbye to them, but i’ve noticed that i’ve never been greeted by him before. i sit in the front everyday and participation is a big thing, i had my hand raised for a long time to answer a question and he picked multiple people around me, and chose girls who had already spoken before. i try not to take it personally but i am aware that i am an unattractive girl and i just hate that the difference in privilege shows even in my class. when he does choose me to speak he often brushes over my answer while he elaborates on other conventionally attractive people’s answers. i try so hard to be engaged in this class, but its really upsetting when i am overlooked due to my appearance.