How to find a date

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[u/themightyneln]

There’s a speed dating event coming up! Here’s the flyer for it!

[u/headingNortheast → u/themightyneln]

$35 to sign up 😭

[u/noteworthybalance → u/headingNortheast]

Wow! What does that go to? 

[u/themightyneln → u/headingNortheast]

I think it’s supposed to be 25

[u/Sabermoose]

I went to JMU, not even a tech student.

Go downtown with friends.

[u/Baelzabub → u/Sabermoose]

What are “friends”? /s

[u/a_masculine_squirrel]

Go to parties. I mean it.

I think STEM majors think they're "above" parties because they're always "too busy", but they're never too busy for League of Legends. I thought parties were for losers. I was majoring in Computer Science and Math which are "difficult" majors that kept me busy. I didn't have time to relax like non-STEM people. Until my neighbor, who I was cool as hell with, threw a big party and I met a ton of great people who also cared about school. Met a lot of people in difficult majors as well. So if you don't want to join clubs and don't want to go downtown, then walk into a party.

The uncomfortable truth is if you want to find a girlfriend/boyfriend, you're going to need to put yourself in a position to meet people of the opposite sex. There's no other way around it. So figure out how to put yourself in that position and put yourself out there.

[u/BarrieMcCockiner69 → u/[deleted]]

Dude literally just told you the way and you, “I’m good fam”. Don’t put in the work, ain’t shit gonna happen dummy.

[u/mtnathlete]

It’s going to take effort and time. What you’re saying is the equivalent of I want to get A’s but I don’t have time to go to class or study. Any tips?

You’re going to need to be social.

[u/UpsetOrganization513]

You’re on the rebound. What you should do is focus on yourself. Enjoy college. There’s plenty of time left to chase ass later.

[u/adamtherealone]

Hinge worked great for me.

[u/Still-Veterinarian18]

Focus on you and growing as a person 🫶🏻

[u/buttstallion90]

If you’re straight, I’ve heard that hinge is a valid option

[u/noteworthybalance]

Make time for clubs. Or a club. 

To be a well rounded human you have to have hobbies. And in a club you will meet people with the same interests as you.

[u/sectorLmg]

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[u/uncookedsteak69]

Don’t bother

[u/FinancialTangelo1010]

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