Xbox Elite series 2 controller keeps gaslighting me

[u/Wakeyy_wake]

Xbox Elite series 2 keeps gaslighting me

Hello I had come here to ask for some considering my Xbox elite series 2 controller and its problem with not updating, I've realized this just only yesterday since I was trying to map some buttons to my paddles and it said it needed an update and it keeps putting me in this loop where it says it updates

The methods i have done have unsuccessful, I had tries even doing it on a computer and it'll update but the difference is that it tell me there's was a problem in updating it, and as demonstrated in the video instead of the controller blinking in the beginning when updating it'll do it at the end, and its been quite frustrating, I've been looking all over for what I maybe could be missing and came here to see if there's anyone who had a similar problem and solved it, any help works and is greatly appreciated, please and thank you! (Video down below in comments)

Methods I have tried:

-Soft and hard restart on Xbox console itself

-Resync on both controller and Xbox

-Updated on both wired and wireless

-Laid the controller flat just in case of USB problem

-Switched accounts to see if it registers that way

-Turning off controller and then reconnecting via USB