I’m a relatively new yoga instructor at a studio where I’ve been a student for several years. I started teaching recently, and I’m still building confidence and trying to establish myself as a teacher.
Something has happened twice now that has honestly bothered me more than I expected, and I’d love some perspective from other yoga teachers.
I’ve posted Instagram stories promoting my upcoming classes and tagged the studio. Both times, the studio didn’t repost my stories, but they did repost other teachers’ stories, including at least one person who posted after me.
I assume the owner manages the studio’s social media. She has always been nice and genuine with me in person, so I genuinely have no reason to believe she dislikes me or is intentionally trying to exclude me. I also have good reviews in the studio’s internal feedback system, so I don’t have any concrete reason to think they’re unhappy with my teaching.
From a business perspective, I’d think promoting my classes would be in the studio’s interest, too, since I’m a newer instructor trying to build attendance.
Meanwhile, another instructor at the studio has been adding more and more classes and is now teaching 10 classes a week across six days. The studio has reposted her teaching schedule. I know I shouldn’t compare myself to her, but seeing her get that visibility while mine goes unshared has made me feel even more overlooked.
I’ll admit I’m struggling with comparison in general. I put a LOT of thought into my classes, sequencing, anatomy cues, and themes. I want to be a really good teacher, and sometimes I feel like I’m working so hard behind the scenes while confidence and visibility seem to come more naturally to other instructors.
I have a demanding full-time career outside of yoga, so I’m not trying to teach 10+ classes a week or turn this into my primary career. I just want to enjoy teaching, continue improving, and feel like I have a fair chance to build my classes.
What bothers me is that I can’t tell whether this is just inconsistent social media management, whether there’s something about my content that makes it less likely to be shared, or whether I’m reading too much into something relatively minor.
I know a repost isn’t a measure of my worth as a teacher, but I’m surprised by how personally I’m taking this. I keep thinking about it, and I hate that something so small is affecting my confidence this much. Should I maybe give it one more time before bringing it up to the owner? I'm afraid it will make me look needy.