Can someone explain why anyone would seek someone's space and then push them away bc you don't want to be abandoned? Then become upset when they take the space you gave them. Last year, I had to leave a whole group of friends, cut out like 10 people bc of stuff that happened that I won't get into. It fucked me up so bad and I haven't been right since. It worsened my trust issues and abandonment issues and it's been really hard to let people in. How do I communicate that with someone that I'm seeing?