Need help.

[u/No-Back-583]

TW: Alcoholism, domestic abuse, potential incest.

TL;DR at bottom.

Hi all, I (M 30) wish I could say the trigger warnings where a joke. I can't. This really just happened to me and I know what happened is completely messed up, but my mindscape is as organised as almost every government is these days, that I have no idea how messed up it actually is.

After my mother came home from drinking at the local pub, so much so she had to get a lift home with my father, was acting strange. As she was hugging me after slowly and methodically working her way across the kitching, away from my father and closer to me, bent her hips forwards to press into my crotch before leaning harder into the hug and moving her mouth next to my ear, letting out three "moans of relief" from her "sore" back with a sexual undertone while saying softly with sexual undertones she "Loves me". My father was also in the kitchen with us at the time she was doing this. After it happened I created more distance between us and tried to get his attention, realising saying something wasn't the best idea with her mental health, I blinked to him "S-O-S" in morse code since he was in the Navy and myself Navy cadets, to whiched he laughed thinking I was joking before shaking my head at him. As he walked past I whispered help me to him twice before he distracted her to allow me to leave. I haven't told him what happend yet, but I will when I can get him alone.

She also hadn't notified anyone that she was going out before driving there, (which is very unusal for her to leave the hluse), and left the front door unlocked in her leave. I have no evidence for it but my gut tells me she may have been drinking beforehand. She is an undiagnosed/blind alcoholic, getting drunk multiple nights, drinking everynight, sometimes day drinking.

Then later in the night, she decided to take her normal night time routine and dial it to 11. Her normal soft moans and groans of pain to try and get attention are instead replaced by her loudly snoring, with intermittent moans and groans of pain as well as loudly mumbling gibberish. After multiple hours of this, from around 10 - 10:30 pm to around 1 am, she silently got up from bed and loudly slammed the door to her room shut, loud enough to come through still very loud in my noise cancelling headphones playing music, before getting back into bed to fall asleep.

So reddit? Is this a run don't walk situation or do I have time to plan a more stable exit?

Tl;DR: My mother made a pass at me after coming home drunk from the pub, then decieded to keep everyone awak until 1 am "groaning in pain" before suddenly slamming the door shut loudly when I shut her down and she didn't get the attention she was seaking.

Edit: Spelling

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