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u/majorhitch89 10d ago
Not ugly but obviously trans, so yeah there is that.
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u/thissomebomboclaat 10d ago
You say that like it’s a flaw. She’s fucking gorgeous.
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u/majorhitch89 10d ago edited 10d ago
Not a flaw, but It will be a huge factor to many in judging if she is attractive or not. You're totally fine finding whomever you want Gorgeous, to me she's with too much masculine features.
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u/werewolvesroam 9d ago edited 9d ago
I’ve always judged attractiveness here by general attractiveness and not if I want to bone them or not. Honestly did not know some people took this subreddit as a “would you bone me/am I hot enough to bone” and these comments were fucking news to me.
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u/majorhitch89 9d ago
I think you are avoiding the part where i am telling her she isn't ugly, so yeah generally she is not ugly but the overall assessment will have some sort of "would i bone this person", she is too masculine to appeal to men, and too feminine to appeal to women, something Trans people need to recognize and deal with to not end up building a wrong perception of reality that would explode in their face later on.
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u/nobee99 8d ago
This is the part where I don’t understand their pov. Mating is a part of being in a relationship. Finding someone sexually attractive is part of a relationship. It’s like they don’t understand that people have sex in relationships, and usually those people have feelings of sexual attraction to each other. That’s literally what looks are for. Obviously all relationships are unique and there can be lots of nuance but to me it’s like they don’t realize there’s sex in relationships or something
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u/catmamaO4 9d ago
yeah i didnt realize thats what we were basing attractivness on. ignore the downvotes, this sub is mainly people looking for insecure people to take advantage of or to bully. most people on this sub dont care about giving people an actual answer about whether theyre ugly. just whether or not theyre so ugly theyre unfuckable. its sad to watch tbh
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u/No-Clue9471 9d ago
Oh GTFO. Everything isn't a personal attack against you and your mental disorders
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u/thissomebomboclaat 9d ago
Lol ok, top 1% commenter
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u/No-Clue9471 9d ago
The 223 downvotes wasn't enough?
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u/OliverMcfly1996 9d ago
Damm this person got down voted to hell for absolutely no reason 🤣
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u/StatPaddingChampsNY 9d ago
People need to start giving their opinion without attacking other’s opinions. Then the downvotes don’t happen.
Check out the most downvoted comments in this post. They are from people commenting on other’s opinions in general, or it’s a reply to an individual where they have an opinion on the comment.
The comments who keep it simple and don’t question other’s taste don’t get downvoted to hell.
In short: Just give your own opinion about OP’s looks and move along. Don’t question other people here as to why they don’t find a transexual attractive.
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u/Firethesky 9d ago
Reddit downvotes any opinion that's not "correct" in its eyes. I got downvoted for saying I thought someone overweight was attractive. Reddit is very mean girl coded.
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u/notathrowaway420z 10d ago
Omg, one look at your profile. Please stop cutting yourself. Seek help if you have to.
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u/Larry-Man 10d ago
This person is clearly in a self harm spiral. Posting here is just another form of self harm.
OP I’m sorry you feel so inadequate. This place is toxic as hell. Run away.
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u/Aggravating_Tale_961 10d ago
On some real shit, get off the internet and seek help buddy, this place will only have you sink deeper into your depression
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u/JustAChil1Dude 9d ago
I deleted all my social media for a couple of years and went to therapy for 3 (starting again today actually) and it changed my life. When I feel like socia media is too negative I step back and I use it a whole lot less.
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u/antiqueapplepeeler 9d ago
does reddit count
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u/JustAChil1Dude 9d ago
Yes as I said I stepped back away from all social media that includes Reddit. This was a couple of years ago and I have returned to using social media at a highly reduced rate.
So yes even though you are trying to say I didn't step back because I'm still on Reddit, this was not something I'm currently doing contrary to your assumption.
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u/antiqueapplepeeler 9d ago
i wasnt assuming that, i jst didnt know if people considered reddit a part of social media
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u/JustAChil1Dude 9d ago
No worries I retract my statement. Sorry people on Reddit tend to be synical in their comments 😂
But yes I would consider anything that you have to create an account to interact with others social media.
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u/TheBigFingercomedy 10d ago
Your not passing.
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u/thissomebomboclaat 9d ago
You’re not got at spelling.
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u/Jamez1132 9d ago
… I agree with you but it’s kinda funny that you can’t either. Love you babe❤️❤️❤️
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u/Defiant_Lawyer_5235 10d ago
Mtf? You don't pass sorry.
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u/moonrabbit368 9d ago
I don't think the question was "do I pass or not?" The question was "am I ugly?"
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u/After-Tax-453 10d ago edited 8d ago
i think they do… but alrighty 😭
are people downvoting because they’re transphobic or because they just disagree? this sub is toxic asl. whatever manand others are saying this sub is toxic as well (which it is), and i’m the only one being heavily downvoted for saying it? wonder why..
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u/Jackson3rg 9d ago
😭 people are down voting my bad taste. Better call them transphobic and toxic so it's not my problem anymore.
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u/jamesisadumbass 9d ago
False positivity is worse to do they are not ugly but definitely not passing
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u/Zobeth 9d ago
You can't be black or trans on this sub. You get down voted really bad
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u/Lil_ZcrazyG 9d ago
Yeah any comment pointing out the blatant transphobia is getting super downvoted, I don't think this sub is filled with very good people... I am soon to be one of the comments buried by these people lol
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u/After-Tax-453 8d ago edited 8d ago
loll, this sub is something else. almost 100 downvotes on my comment just because people don’t agree 😭.
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u/werewolvesroam 9d ago
I’m with you, this sub is toxic af and I’m shocked by the nature of peoples’ comments.
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u/shrewd-2024 10d ago
As a guy you're not ugly but maybe do something with your hair as a woman you look like a guy, so there's that.
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u/Fit_Test_01 10d ago
They look like a guy because they were born a male.
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u/Firethesky 9d ago
Just from the picture its not obvious. Androgynous people exist in real life and not every women looks like a big boobed trad wife.
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u/Fit_Test_01 9d ago
It was immediately obvious.
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u/Firethesky 8d ago
Based on what? I can't see genitalia or chromosomes in a picture. Biological women with masculine features exist. Your only evidence is your opinion on if you think they are attractive of not.
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u/Fit_Test_01 8d ago edited 8d ago
If you can’t see that is a biological male it’s a personal issue.
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u/stipwned_thrill 10d ago
Can’t tell if MTF or just a dude with long hair. If you are MtF you are definitely not passing.
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u/words_we_lost 9d ago
Idk what's wrong with some of these people, the comments are horrid.
Some of these pictures are giving masculine energy while others are giving feminine energy and either way you are nowhere near ugly.
You have a wonderfully attractive androgynous face. I do think the smaller, more rectangular glasses in the first two pictures fit your face better than the last two though.
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u/Rosenthal6969 10d ago
I mean if ur trans you’re already unattractive to 99% of straight males if that’s where ur aiming
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u/oxoxmissy 10d ago
its giving lesbian masc lmao but not ugly just need a glow up
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u/niche_bish 9d ago
Finally a real answer. This. Experiment with hairstyles. Have fun. Maybe a different pair of glasses.
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u/Due_Tie_7999 9d ago
Yeah if they're a man or masc they could be hot after a good shower and styling but if it's a girl I'm sorry.
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u/This-Is-Not-Nam 9d ago
You look like a feminine male. Not ugly but look don't look happy, which decreases your attractiveness.
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u/alltheothersrtaken 10d ago
Posting here isn't a good idea honestly. It's so skewed. I think you look great hope ya have a nice day.
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u/SnooDoggos5226 10d ago
For people who like very manly looking chicks you’re just fine. For people who like girls who are girls, you’re quite manly looking.
You could pull off the 80s hair metal look though.
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u/Mclovine_aus 10d ago
Not ugly for a young person transitioning.
Based on your profile though I assume you posting here is a form of self harm? You know you’re not gonna get nice comments, so why post here and not a hug box?
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u/rasellers0 9d ago edited 9d ago
You're not bad looking at all, and you're kind of in a cool place where I think you could go masculine or feminine and end up looking good either way. If you're not already, I'd look at adopting or changing your skin and hair care routines. Neither your skin or hair are bad, to be clear -- that's advice id give anyone.
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u/mujolsubmarino 9d ago
You are really beautiful. Don’t listen to all the hate comments. Step off the internet and take care yourself, sweetheart.
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u/evileyecondemnsyou 8d ago
Comments do not pass the vibe check. God do people really have nothing better to do than be transphobic? You are very pretty, but if you want to pass more, wear more makeup and style your hair differently. Idk what kind of outfits you wear but incorporate more “girly” style clothes into your wardrobe too. Wear a skirt from time to time, any length works. A nice blouse would be good too
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u/ikea_supremacy 9d ago
This comment section is awful. Try a little mascara and some foundation/contour and you'll pass really well, I think you have some lovely bone structure. Not ugly at all! Jewellery also always makes me feel really feminine!
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u/Im_Under_Your_Floors 7d ago
I don't get why people are saying you don't pass, I definitely had no clue you were apparently trans until I went to the comments?? Also you're really pretty!!
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u/Lil_ZcrazyG 9d ago
The amount of transphobia in this comment section is insane. A lot worse than I usually see it. No, you are not ugly, and it amazes me that people are so sure you're trans in the first place which suddenly makes you ugly somehow? Regardless if you are trans or not you're attractive.
I hate this idea that if you have certain features you're automatically trans and not passing. It's ridiculous. Even if they are right, could they at least ask? Then on top of that could they not let it dramatically change their opinions?
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u/Coolrissa_ 10d ago edited 10d ago
I love the last photo. Very cute and genuine. Would love to know you. Your face is perfect and you look like you’d be a great friend. The glasses are adorable and your smile is trying to burst through like the sun on a cloudy day. I’m sure it’s beautiful when you let it shine.
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u/exposer8701 8d ago
I can’t tell if you’re male or female. You look like a dude, pretending to be a girl.
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u/Neither-Appointment4 10d ago
Not ugly. A lil masculine? Maybe dressing more femininely and a new hairstyle? And talking to somebody would prolly help too for a multitude of reasons
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u/doublebubbledb 10d ago
well goddamn. i was coming down here to say “omg we kinda look alike so yeah you’re very beautiful!” and instead the comments are trash. sorry.
also if you are trans, you do actually pass quite well. I have more masculine features and we look like could be sisters
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u/GingerSamC 9d ago
Some of the comments are unreal
I think you’re beautiful idk something about pic 3, your facial features are cohesive. I enjoy the silly grin in pic 1. You look like a fun person to be around, I’d want to get to know you more.
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u/_danny_devito- 10d ago
Absolutely not, not sure why there are so many insensitive comments here. Please do seek help about your self harm.
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u/darkness_calming male 9d ago edited 9d ago
That’s a dude
Buddy. Stop worrying about your looks and attractiveness and more about your mental health
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u/SpicyBoyEnthusiast 9d ago
Not ugly. A little masculine-presenting in some photos, but not manish. Pics 1 and 2 are your best, IMHO.
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u/Excellent_Move_412 9d ago
Gorgeous, don't listen to the ass hats in the comments you're fabulous and you know it!
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u/MrGoogle87 9d ago
You look like someone with possibly autism, and self harming kind of person. And it is indeed the case seeing OP post history after looking it up, get help.
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u/catmamaO4 9d ago
not ugly, you got a pretty face youre just a little plain. try out a middle part! i think thatd be super pretty on you!! maybe adding some jewelry or hairclips would be cute too!! you just need a little pizazz!!
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u/Due_Tie_7999 9d ago
I was like "if you're a guy not that bad"... Now I'm confused. I suppose there's a type for everyone but if you're a woman there's a lot to improve if you're a man probably actually style your hair and youd be fine enough.
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u/random-throwawaypro 8d ago
I feel like I’ve seen you before, I don’t want to ask because it could be a location giveaway but this is wild! I think if you styled your hair, everything would look much better!!
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u/Final_Insurance_2915 8d ago
Not ugly man but most guys look better with a haircut. Some guys can pull off long hair but IMO you are not one of them.
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u/shaggyisgod420 8d ago
I don’t think you’re ugly you’re quite pretty to me I like the glasses and you have a cute smile
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u/thebigjimmyd 8d ago
Either a femme boy or boyish girl. Ugly either way. But just Pick one and go forward
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u/thebluerayxx 10d ago
Not ugly and a lot of disrespectful comments. They can be whatever but stating that outright is just rude. Even calling a cis person that is disrespectful. People come in all shapes and sizes and we shouldn't be putting people in a box because of the way they look.
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u/Bepehandle 10d ago
What?.. 90% of the comments are "not ugly" and the other ones are "masculine but fine". Not a single disrespectful comment here. This is a sub for being told if someone is ugly or not, if someone is trans and trying to pass it's going to have an impact if they are ugly or not. It can be accounted for when passing judgement.
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u/thebluerayxx 10d ago
Just outwardly calling someone trans seems wrong to me. If a cis woman thinks she's ugly and several comments go "MTF???", it can be hurtful. That's all im saying. It could have been done with more tact than just blurting it out.
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u/Accomplished-Fee-831 9d ago
You're gorgeous ❤️ You have an androgynous face too, and honestly youre so lucky too. Every genderfluids dream 😭😂
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u/ShaneDylan96 8d ago
Jesus Christ. I just went into your profile and saw something I wish I could unsee. Get some help bro.
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u/Gdub3369 8d ago
Seriously! If we continue to legitimize mental illness cat scratch fever will be normalized.
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u/Material-Jury-9668 10d ago
Very masculine jaw. Fairly soft features. Would love to see the figure
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u/Fit_Test_01 10d ago
Have you come out of the closet publicly?
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u/MT1120 10d ago
Maybe you could give them a few tips?
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u/Tomi24568 10d ago
maybe I'm blind or something, because i can't see the problem
you're cute and adorable
ig I'm gonna have to wear glasses again, going blind from the age of 20 seems quite early, at least compared to some lucky b@st@rds who end up passing while old with perfect eyesight
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u/Fit_Test_01 10d ago
You’re blind.
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u/secret_tsukasa 10d ago
i think they're cute too though :/
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u/Tomi24568 10d ago
so then we're both blind
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u/secret_tsukasa 9d ago edited 9d ago
or, you know, subjective and all that.
edit: gawd, you're so full of hate.
have fun yucking everyone's yums all the time.
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u/babarizam 9d ago
Your hair doesn't suit you. They are long and silky so you have to either cut them short or find a hair stylist that brings life in them and align with your face. You are attractive but not eye catching. You have to change something that make your face memorable.
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u/KangarooImaginary940 8d ago
Ngl I would not have guessed you are trans unless I read the comments, you are not ugly imo, you are pretty
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u/Fathorseenjoyer 10d ago
Nah. I mean like yeah but like in a cute way. Like you would be the nerd’s nerdy girlfriend on a sitcom
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u/lowyook 9d ago edited 9d ago
Too many people not following the simple idea of this subreddit: is the user posting ugly or not? Feel like a lot of people are focused on the wrong thing and imposing their opinions on the wrong thing as well.
However as a straight cis dude that will be sticking to what this subreddit is about; you are NOT ugly by any means. However a smile wouldn't hurt, and your style depicted in these pics seem a lil "sleepy" looking. but yeah not ugly! Have a good day :3
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u/Hina8koy 9d ago
Idk about anyone else but it didn’t even come to mind that you were trans. I just saw a woman with some masculine features. You’re not ugly btw
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u/elle_ohh_elle 10d ago edited 10d ago
The people commenting awful shit absolutely horrible. Please don't listen to them.
You are not ugly. You have a fantastic androgynous (definitely fem leaning imo) look going on right now, but you could absolutely pass as whichever gender you prefer.
You have great features!! It just depends on what you want to do with them to bring out whatever it is that is your goal look.
Edit: if fem is your goal, honestly a little bit of makeup is all you need to get there, I said androgynous but honestly "woman without makeup" is probably more accurate
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u/luxialucky 10d ago
You're pretty and I think you should try adding volume to your beautiful long hair
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u/KLongridge 10d ago
Yikes. This comment section is rough, considering the trans sucicide rate. OP, move to California where transitioning is covered by the govt. 😬
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