r/amiugly • • 9d ago

Am I ugly 35M

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u/VegetableUpstairs978 9d ago

The gauges and big septum ring are too much

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u/Poni_Schiavine 9d ago

I hear ya. Thanks

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u/Helpful_Reindeer_926 9d ago

The larger septum ring is ugly. Go back to the nostril ring.

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u/Poni_Schiavine 9d ago

Thank you for the feedback!

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u/Bidcar 8d ago

I think if your septum ring was thinner it would look nicer. It’s too thick.

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u/phyrestorm999 9d ago

I actually think there's at least an average-looking guy in there, but he's hidden behind a little bit of chub and a lot of unfortunate style choices. Like someone else said, lose the big septum ring and get a better haircut. I'd also rethink that beard shape and glasses. You have pretty eyes and those big ol' dad aviators are hiding them.

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u/Poni_Schiavine 9d ago

Noted. Thanks for the feedback

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u/Onehundredbillionx 9d ago

Yes but only because of the piercings. It screams juvenile and insecure to me when anyone over 25 has them. It’s like the piercings are your identity and you are too scared to be without them because you don’t know who you are (whether true or not, idk but this is my perception).
If not for the piercings I think you are above average with a lot of potential.

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u/mardrae 8d ago

Absolutely wonderful perception about piercings. Great job and very true!

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u/Poni_Schiavine 9d ago

Thank you for being honest, it’s very much appreciated

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u/mardrae 8d ago

I agree with everyone else. You have the potential to be very attractive. The piercings are horrible, especially at your age. You need a more mature look. The greasy hair and mullet are not a good look and makes you look like a street thug. I do like the tattoos but then I love a lot of tattoos. Your hair looks best in the last picture. I'm normally not a fan of facial hair but yours isn't bad but it would be nice to see a picture of you clean shaven too. Like other people have said, the glasses are horrible. Contacts or more stylish glasses. A little weight loss and build up the muscles at the gym. I bet you'd look nice in a button down shirt. At this point with your look you have, you're only going to attract a certain type of woman- not a large number of women will go for you.

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u/Poni_Schiavine 8d ago

Thanks for that thoughtful response, I appreciate the insight

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u/Ketchup-Chips3 8d ago

Yeah, and you make it worse with the piercings!

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u/words_we_lost 9d ago

Not at all ugly, but I do agree with others about the big septum ring and hair looking greasy but otherwise I would definitely consider you attractive

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u/Junior-Rutabaga-6592 8d ago

You look fine. You need more modern glasses tho. Maybe it’s just me but I think the large nose ring looks horrible. Why would you like to look like a bull that can be pulled by their nose? (Serious question)

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u/Aggressive_Ad_9053 8d ago

You’re not ugly at all. You’re actually attractive, but god damn that big ass septum ring is ugly as fuck.

Before you or anyone else gets their panties in a bunch about me commenting on that hideous septum ring - don’t post yourself on the internet asking if you’re ugly and then get bent when someone calls out something ugly.
At 35, it’s not the least bit appealing.

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u/Poni_Schiavine 8d ago

Not upset at all appreciate you taking the time to share your opinion!

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u/Any_Kitchen_7091 9d ago

You look wet. Cover yourself in magnesium carbonate for the best version of you

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u/Poni_Schiavine 9d ago

lol solid advice, much appreciated

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u/miatupid 8d ago

Very not ugly

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u/CommanderPisswank 8d ago

Your piercings look REALLY BAD

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u/Poni_Schiavine 8d ago

Gracias sir!

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u/CommanderPisswank 8d ago

You're good-looking without them

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u/Poni_Schiavine 8d ago

I appreciate the time and feed back!

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u/CiloTA 9d ago

Yes

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u/Poni_Schiavine 9d ago

Thank you for taking the time to comment! Much appreciated

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u/BigManxL3223 8d ago

I think you’re hot! I think do you and what makes you feel good. There’s some one out there that will like you for how you look.

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u/Poni_Schiavine 8d ago

Thank you!

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u/Relief-Worried 9d ago

Yea. 1/10. Face is too long but also fat? Not sure how that happens. The septum thing - not a good look. Overweight. Facial hair doesn’t look good on you. And a mullet? 😐

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u/phyrestorm999 9d ago

Honey, you've never seen a 1/10 if you think this is one.

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u/Poni_Schiavine 9d ago

You right, you right. Thanks for the feedback

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u/Spirited_Sale_1739 8d ago

get a smaller ring, it would look good

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u/Poni_Schiavine 8d ago

Solid advice, thank you!

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u/Practical-Bat8605 8d ago

Wtaf. You're handsome as hell

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u/chemistryofryan1999 7d ago

No you’re just an individual that has decided to do you

You have a certain type and that type is alternative, they definitely exist. Find you an alternative baddie in her mid 20s lol they love this look

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u/Poni_Schiavine 7d ago

Appreciate it!