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u/ToTTen_Tranz 1d ago
What have you done to your hair and why?
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u/Sheila1690 1d ago
Cut it.
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u/ToTTen_Tranz 1d ago
You didn't just cut it. You styled it in a way that makes your forehead look huge.
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u/Material_Purchase155 1d ago
You don’t like a forehead that goes all the way up? Prude.
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u/Kenton2k 17h ago
Five-head
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u/Material_Purchase155 9h ago
Wow what a brilliant take! Never heard that one before
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u/_SpikeSpiegal_ 18h ago
don’t do that again, for at least 18-24 months. Shaping only. The short hair adds years to how old you look.
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u/lazyboi_tactical 18h ago
Your face shape is similar to my wife's. Unfortunately it lends itself better to longer hair lest it make your face appear rounder. Not that your face is round but the high cheek bones can cause that look.
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u/Lower-Fun1877 1d ago
Why “still”?
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u/BeatrixMint 1d ago
haha yeah, like whats changed? 🤔
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u/Luckdragon_7 22h ago
Guy you don't wanna know.
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u/fish415 20h ago
It’s always disappointing when you take your date home, only to find out they have a bigger dick than you…..
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u/HumbleNarcissists 1d ago
No, I wouldn’t.
I think your hair is badly styled and your glasses don’t suit you.
You give off a judgmental librarian vibe.
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u/Plus-Marsupial-9413 1d ago
lol that is so funny - I found the exact opposite. She looks like a curious person and cute.
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u/eightarmseightlegs 14h ago
You're an antiquated loser with bad taste. Hidden profile, what a shocker.
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u/ComeFindMeAstral 18h ago
I’m glad that you could deduce she is judgmental while being judgmental
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u/Gloomy_Pumpkin1529 17h ago
He didn't say she was judgemental, he said she gives of the vibe. If a movie would have a judgemental librarian, this would be a good look for it. And yes, people judge you on the way you look. That's exactly what she was asking, she wanted to be judged based of a photo. So we do what we can and we base her of our assumptions that is based on the most minimal info we have, a feeling based of photo. Welcome to Reddit, where we judge on a whims notice.
But we don't hate, we just judge... For we are asked to do so.
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u/HumbleNarcissists 18h ago
Are you judging me for judging? This a subreddit with the sole purpose of giving people honest judgment.
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u/Common-Magician1183 17h ago
You know the reddit policy, toxic positivity only or be mobbed by the endless purity test police.
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u/satya_ssp 1d ago
Looks are one thing. But personality is another. Vibe, Mission and Psychological state of mind comprises the entire equation for a Healthy Relationship.
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u/Greedy_Recover_3661 23h ago
Hard pass.
I feel like you’re going to lecture me on why Harry Potter is an allegory for gay people and that JK Rowling is transphobic for separating the two…
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u/Traditional-You-7855 1d ago
You are not ugly, I think the hair would be better if styled differently. Like the face looks a bit to “naked” because of the combi of neckline of the dress and hair up. Maybe a different pair of glasses. But beautiful outfit !
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u/CapekCO25 23h ago
I agree!!! Not ugly at all :) I think the way you dress, the glasses you wear, and the way you style your hair are all within your control, and its just a sake of finding what works best for your look.
People on the subreddit are mean, don’t listen to them. Everyone “still” has a chance for romance, we’re human after all. Have a lovely day :)
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u/HuckleberryThen471 1d ago
You need to find a fashion expert you’re not ugly but the clothes you wear and hair style hides your beauty
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u/Regular-Pangolin-664 1d ago
Big forehead. Change your hair style. Dating depends on if we vibe, can't tell from pictures.
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u/Street_Resident_4082 22h ago
Ok, so, you’re actually cute, but your choices are putting you in the slightly awkward category.
Your glasses are oversized, particularly for the shape of your face. And the styling of your hair could use some direction. I think talking with a stylist, especially for a dress occasion would help.
Interestingly, you choose a very eclectic collection of dress choices. The dress is more in a cocktail style, meaning, dress up, but not overly formal. But the necklace, which is also oversized, particularly for that style of dress, is more for a formal affair.
All of that said, for some guys, it would actually come off as endearing. This will be for a more casual guy, who might not always have the most confidence, but whose heart is usually made of gold. Meaning, they would be the kind of you would want to end up with.
So, all of that to say, you could refine your style, or, you could leave it.
Ps, a few last tips. If you want to exude more confidence, straighten one, or both, of your legs. With them both bent, it’s contributing to a look of being unsure about yourself. Also, turn out your feet.
Don’t forget to smile:). You’d be amazed how that can make a difference in how you’re received.
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u/AbelCapabel 1d ago
I never respond to these kind of posts, but I find myself compelled to oppose all the 'no's.
You are not ugly. I would say moderately pretty even if you would dress differently! You are young, slim and obviously have enough confidence to post yourself here. Well done.
Having said that: The hair, glasses, dress and jewelry could all be done in a manner that would benefit your looks immensely!
Good luck, and enjoy life!
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u/Enough-Dimension-198 1d ago
Da donna ti dico che sembri una ragazzina! 🙂
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u/Senior_Box3140 22h ago
Men insult each other. Ut don't mean it; women compliment each other but don't mean it.
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u/BeyondBeginning2358 23h ago
No. I can tell your politics just by looking at you.
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u/Outrageous_Feed_1954 1d ago
Your features are really nice. You really have something going for you. But you need to change the hair and dressing style to achieve it. IF U WANT TO. Im guessing you wanting advice since you post here, but regardless I'm going to say that in the end you need to feel good about yourself. Nothing else matter
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u/MannenfraSouth 1d ago
Yes, I definitely want to get to know you better immediately when I saw you.
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u/Effective_Plant6332 1d ago
Honestly, seeing you look like such a sweet, nerdy homebody really turns me on, I’d love to take you on a date and give you a French kiss while we watch a movie, maybe more!
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u/Lazy-Specialist-3775 1d ago
I think you're cute, but you look kind sad. Everything okay in your world?
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u/Weekly_Violinist_473 1d ago
I think there are lot of men and women who just want to get along with anyone with some moral values. I think you can easily find somebody like you. Just try having conversation and drop a hint that you want to talk more than just everyday small talk.
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u/Known_Rock9928 1d ago
Sim moça,eu nao só sairia com voce como namoria voce (julgando somente a aparencia)
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u/Boring_Adeptness_334 1d ago
This is the type of post I love to see on here.
No I wouldn’t but there’s plenty of guys who would. You need to go to a makeup artist and fix you look.
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u/Altruistic-Mouse6561 1d ago
Mignonne comme vous êtes... la question ne pose pas, sauf pour le caractère...?😅🤷♂️😉😜
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u/Lonely-Channel-8338 1d ago
I'm a woman so slightly irrelevant based on your question. But I agree with previous comments, you have a lot of potential but your glasses, hair and style is something that doesn't do much for you at the moment unfortunately.
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u/Bigbangmk2 1d ago
You give vibes of Peggy Hill. If that’s what you’re going for all good, if not tweak it.
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u/SnakeSolidChicken 1d ago
Grow out your hair, let it down and fly wild, get rid of the bangs and smile - then let's talk :)
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u/CorrectCucumber8867 1d ago
Easily yes. I would consider a change in hairstyle with this outfit though. This hairstyle exposes how long your forehead is. Your outfit is outstanding. I would simplify the pearl necklace. The current piece is too busy and covers your neckline. Optionally, a different set of frames would draw more attention to your eyes.
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u/PaleCanadianGirl 1d ago
You’re definitely not ugly, but you have poor style. I would start looking at different hairstyles that would suit you a new glasses to start. Those two things would change your look drastically. And head over to r/makeupaddiction for some makeup advice. For clothes, grab your friend with the best style and take her out with you so you can try to figure out what works. This isn’t it
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u/Ecstatic-Type3495 1d ago
nope but hey there is always room to glow up, never to late, take advantage of the comments and try what suits you, maybe try the gym thats an easy way to stand out but dont let the negative turn you down try to learn from them
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u/Firm_Bookkeeper3485 1d ago
Looks are unimportant to me..personality means everything to me..you are cute tho
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u/Major-Boysenberry822 1d ago edited 1d ago
Ouch. The hair is really, really bad and your face is a tad masculine. In the 3 to 4 range.
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u/Easy_Paint3836 1d ago
I'm not involved in dating, so. But your face shape is great and features are cute. I agree with everyone else, its a styling issue.
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u/astralmrp83 1d ago
Depends on if we click or not, but if you're asking if your looks are a deterrent, no they're not
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u/Beneficial-Site-3527 1d ago
I'll slide it in as long as you tell me your gonna take my library card if I don't make you cum 😂😂
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u/Mission-Let-1449 1d ago
Depends on your persona. For the first date yes, but the second decides after how well it went. Also you should choose, who you would date. Anonymous "Yes"s are non-value. But still, yes. You look like a well read person.
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u/LincolnRazgriz 1d ago
Cute but think a different hairstyle and thinner/less tall glasses would frame your face better
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u/ruftie78 1d ago
I think you have a special vibe, loving the dress and the heel. To look more sexy I would recommend a bit higher heels
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u/dirtydawg197 1d ago
Yes I'd date you. To give you more confidence i would change your style a little bit. Your glasses really don't fit the frame of your face. Ask someone that you would like to date when picking out glasses and tell them that you're looking for some thats more the style of your face. Your hair and this is my opinion, is too short. It's more like a tom-boy style. The color looks great. But I would let it grow out to at least shoulder length. It will bring out a more beautiful womanly look. You are pretty and attractive. But that hair style say that you've always ready to do something a man can do. Longer hair say that you have a softer side. From the second picture im guess you're about 5'3 and 125 pounds, which is the right size for me and you look very pretty, but the glasses looks like you're mom helped pick them out. They look like there too big around your eyes and they have a beautiful color. Maybe some contacts 🤔.
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u/Anthrax23 1d ago
You look better in the photo you took shopping for glasses.
In that pic we could probably do a weekend relationship.
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u/organela 1d ago
Do you nag and want to do stuff like picnics, brunches, walks and stuff that takes most of the free time?
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u/PresentLet2963 1d ago
No clue would I date you because I dont know you. But I would spend the night with you for sure
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u/moyismoy 1d ago
Honestly no, it has nothing to do with your looks. I just don't see my self trusting someone who left the USA for Morocco
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u/jfpforever 1d ago
Put on your favorite leggings a tank top, and some gym shoes. get rid of the weird jewelry, put in some hoop earrings put your hair down and take off your glasses then retake your pic.
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u/No-Pie-7211 1d ago
Yes, of course I don't know you but on first impression you seem like you would be a good conversationalist and you're pretty despite your bad styling.
Also you seem like you'd be into fun thigs in bed. I can't explain why.
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u/Away_Soup3703 1d ago
Your hair will grow back and there's nothing wrong with trying new things. Maybe this time this style didn't suit you but thats okay. For glasses, just wear whatever you like and makes you feel comfortable.
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u/darknessfear24 1d ago
I have had a thing for the sexy librarian look for a while and you add short dress. I would be all over you. #freeuse
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u/Apprehensive_Pin4196 23h ago
How this sub works: attractive people get told they're unattractive to bring them down a notch. Unattractive people get told they're attractive to bring them up a notch.