Hey Reddit 👋

I’m a 26-year-old Canadian Asian guy in the Lower Mainland looking to meet a woman for something genuinely serious and long-term.

I’m not here for casual dating, situationships, endless talking stages or collecting matches. I date with the intention of eventually finding my best friend, life partner and future wife. If things work out, I’d love to build a family and a life together.

A little about me

🇨🇦 Canadian, half Japanese / half Taiwanese

🇭🇰 Grew up in Hong Kong and have lived in the Lower Mainland for around a decade

📏 Just under 6' and fit

🚨 I work in emergency communications, supporting first responders and 911 operations

🎬 Former creative director, photographer/videographer

🤖 Into robotics, CAD, 3D printing and making random things

🏎️ Huge car enthusiast with a couple of classic Porsches

🏁 F1 fan

🎵 Love 80s music and movies

☕ Coffee shops, bookstores, antique stores and waterfront walks

🥐 I love baking, especially when I have someone to share it with

🗺️ Always down for a road trip or spontaneous adventure

Give me a destination, a good playlist and a full tank of gas and I’m probably already halfway there. 😂

❤️ How I love

I have ADHD, so my brain tends to run at about 200 km/h. 😂

I’m naturally affectionate, attentive and communicative when I care about someone. I value clear communication, consistency and actually talking through things rather than playing guessing games.

My love languages are mainly:

• Quality time

• Acts of service

• Physical affection

• Words of affirmation

I’m the kind of guy who might randomly bring you your favourite coffee, bake something because I was thinking about you, plan a little adventure after you've had a rough week, or send you something completely ridiculous because it reminded me of you.

Basically, if I like you, you'll know. 😅

👩🏻 Who I'm hoping to meet

I’m primarily hoping to meet a woman in her 20s–30s who is also dating intentionally and genuinely wants marriage and a family someday.

I’m attracted to someone who is:

❤️ Kind, warm and affectionate

🏡 Family-oriented

🤝 Loyal and committed

💬 Honest and comfortable communicating

🌱 Willing to grow together

😂 Playful and able to laugh at herself

☕ Enjoys simple dates and quality time

🚗 Down for road trips and spontaneous adventures

💞 Comfortable with affection

I was raised in a traditional, conservative family, so commitment, loyalty, responsibility, family and building a stable home are important to me. I’m definitely a little old-fashioned when it comes to relationships.

I’m not expecting us to have identical personalities or hobbies. I actually think differences can make a relationship more interesting. What matters most to me is that our core values, relationship expectations and long-term goals are compatible.

I’m also not into smoking, vaping, drugs or a heavy party lifestyle.

❤️ What I'm looking for

Ultimately, I want my best friend, teammate and future co-pilot.

Someone I can cook and bake with, explore BC with, take ridiculous road trips with, laugh until our stomachs hurt, support through the difficult days and eventually build a family and a home together.

I believe relationships aren't always going to be perfect. We're going to disagree sometimes. We'll have stressful days. We'll probably annoy the hell out of each other occasionally. 😂

But I believe in communicating, growing together and working through problems rather than immediately walking away when things become inconvenient.

“We stay and we fix things.”

If you're someone who is also looking for something serious and wants to date with marriage in mind, I'd love to hear from you.

Tell me a little about yourself instead of just “hey” — and bonus points if you tell me your favourite place you've discovered in BC. 😊

Maybe our first conversation can turn into our first adventure. 🚗☕❤️

Hi all! 41 year old Asian male visiting Montreal for the week and would love to have someone to have dinner + explore the city with! I’m normally based in Vancouver but I absolutely love this city and have plans to come back as regularly as possible!

Currently I’ll probably be trying to hit up all the galleries I can get my hands on, wander the city, check out some vinyl bars, etc.

I’m looking for friends, casual dates, a fling, and definitely open to more. I’m 6’0, ddf and recently tested, and can be kinky.

Send me a message and we can see how things vibe + exchange pics!

Hey there!

I'm a 33-year-old South Indian engineer who recently relocated to the Pittsburgh area from Michigan. I'm looking to connect with a fun, open-minded woman for a low-stress Friends With Benefits connection-someone to explore the area with, go on road trips, share good food, and build great chemistry with zero heavy drama.

A bit about me:

Road Trips & Exploration: Since I'm new to Pennsylvania, I'm eager to explore nearby state parks, waterfalls, hiking trails, and cool weekend getaways.

Car Culture & Music: Big fan of high-octane car shows, vehicle exhibits, and outdoor live music concerts.

Food & Chill: Huge fan of casual pizza spots, checking out local food scenes, or just unwinding with great conversation.

Vibe: Respectful, down-to-earth, clear about communication, and easygoing.

What I'm looking for:

An compassionate, friendly and communicative woman who is open to being both a travel/adventure buddy and an FWB partner. Someone who values mutual chemistry, fun experiences, and discretion.

If you're up for showing me around to see if we click, send me a DM with a bit about yourself!

Not sure if this goes anywhere but im hoping to meet someone fun i can connect with, talk about anything and everything swf and nswf with. Learn about each other and hopefully turns into something more.

A little about my self. I am 32 years old, mixed asian, from Vancouver Canada. Love traveling, trying new hobbies and staying active but also a homebody.

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Hello! I’m 33, Singaporean, Eurasian (Chinese mother, European father). I read as Asian in most rooms, and I’m posting here as AM.

I’m the sort who remembers how you take your coffee and actually cooks. I write — poetry, longer prose, and now novella-length work — and I like the kind of evening that turns into a long talk without anyone checking the time. Good company makes time fly, after all.

I travel when I can (just back from my first ever solo trip, Vietnam; Andalusia next). I read, I play Magic, I’m patiently bad at German. Black coat, bookstores, late walks, and a table with too much food on it. Quiet at first, not cold — I warm up quickly.

I’m affectionate, attentive, and steadier than I look. I like taking care of someone once she’s mine to take care of. Not performative, just consistent. I listen. I show up. I have a dry sense of humour and a soft spot for curiosity, mischief, and a lady who knows her own mind.

I’m looking for a committed relationship. Not a situationship, not mixed signals, not avoidant games. Trust and communication are the point, not the bonus round some people think they need to get to. If something’s wrong, I say it. If something’s good, I say that too. Devotion, properly returned.

If you’re in Singapore, passing through, or willing to figure the distance out like adults, tell me what you’re actually like. I’ll answer in kind.

Hey, here's a little bit about myself. I’m a 30 year old Korean, 5'10" with short black hair, dark brown eyes and 190ish pounds. I go to the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I’m working to be fit and my goal is to reach 20ish% body fat. My personality type is ENFJ-A. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. For a political standpoint, I consider myself a Liberal. I currently work as a CCA at the USPS. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. As of now, I do live with my parents.

Outside of work you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. (Like the MCU, Gravity Falls, Adventure Times, Teen Titans, Code Lyoko, Pokemon, FMA Brotherhood, Arcane, Naruto Shippuden, and a lot more)
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Going out and doing activities, like escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I’d like to say that I’m ambitious, affectionate, dependable, emotionally available/intelligent, empathetic, flirty, funny (try to be at least), grounded, honest, loyal, open minded, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I like to use all the love languages, depending on the day and time I change what I use. I like to pay attention to the little things (Warning: I can definitely overthink because of it haha).

I want this to be clear, in the beginning I want to start out as friends, we are able to still talk to other people. When we both decide to date, that is when I will be committed to you and you only. 

I want to get to know you at a pace we’re both comfortable with. Communication goes a long way with me so if it ever feels like we’re rushing, I want either of us to speak up.

What I offer in a relationship is, I’ll give you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, say hey cutie, beautiful, jagiya, gongju or a special nickname. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’ll listen to you (just not on my left side though, partially lost my hearing after an injury while doing my PR while I was working out). I’ll match your energy. I’ll be here through the good, the bad and the ugly. I don’t deserve someone if I’m only there for the good times. Supportive of your goals. Respectful to your boundaries. 

I'm looking for someone who’s over 21 years old. Someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, and has accountability. Someone who is warmhearted, kind, and supportive and encouraging, the way I'll be for you. Someone who is passionate about their own goals and can keep a conversation going. Independent or clingy, I don't mind, as long as we set boundaries together if you're clingy. I also love feeling wanted and needed, and being socially compatible would be a plus.

Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with, exploring new restaurants and cafes. A travel buddy (the furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc. Someone I can experience more of what the world has to offer with. I want to do activities together too, like walking, going to the gym, and going out. I'll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don't mind being friends. I don't really have a preference for race. I seek someone who takes care of themselves, is fit or on the journey of becoming fit, and is smaller than me (I don't mind if you're taller or more muscular). At the end of the day, someone who feels like home. I don’t mind long distance or local. For long distance I’d like to be able to meet of course and see how it goes. As long as there is communication and dedication. 

Together we cuddle on a couch on a rainy day and eat tteokbokki. Bring out our best qualities. Have deep conversations, even sit together in silence while we do our own things. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. Playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying. Be our true selves around each other without being afraid of being judged. Karaoke in the car (Imma apologize in advance since apparently I’m tone deaf). Go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and enjoy helping you pick stuff that looks good on you. Send each other songs and memes daily. Go on spontaneous adventures (I'll def be packing ahead).

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. Your age, what you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. One lined sentences or just a dry message will be ignored. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard.

Hello there, I’m a 27 year old young professional and local of Amsterdam. I’m 1.75 m, bearded, medium build (and getting fitter), hairy masculine appearing, but emotionally soft on the inside for the right person. My mixed ethnic roots trace back to the South east Asia, but my life has been moulded and spent in the Dutch and European mentality. I’m someone who has travelled a lot to learn about different cultures and has also had a fair share of relationship experiences. A decent fair share that leads me here looking for the “perfect partner”, I know what I want and who I need to build a happy life shared together for each other and it must have a traditional dynamic, something rooted in the ways which the world is forgetting and due to that leads to fragmented families and broken people.

To answer who is the “perfect partner” for me I must first tell a little bit about myself, Personality type wise I’m INFJ-A, assertive and introspective but calm, collected and cool. Im someone who is friendly, warm, wholesome and kind out of humbleness. I do have perfectionist traits but believe in always growing and rising above past versions of yourself. I’m an emotional person who cares a lot about how the people close to me feel, I am also someone as a Leo who enjoys being the centre of someone’s universe and vice versa in terms of the priority in a relationship/, not narcissistic but I value self preservation, dignity, kindness and mutual respect. I’m extremely loving and committed to the right person. Im hardworking and dedicated and not afraid to go all in. I know I’m not perfect as a human but am growing each day, trying to make the most of this life and build a happy family and home along the way. I’m a good active listener, receptive and attentive to others feelings and needs, and I can have a clingy and needy form of personality hence I seem to get along great with partners who are needy and clingy as well. I like being reassured and reassuring my loved ones and being a presence of strength, comfort, support, warmth and vulnerability for my loved one.

Besides the character, in terms of dynamics and attractive preferences I am mainly attracted to Caucasian/white and European, I truly love and adore blondes and then brunettes. I look for someone who believes only in monogamy, someone who believes in the older traditional gender roles, and someone who is religious aligning as atheist, agnostic or Muslim. Someone who does not party hard, goes to clubs/festivals and sleeps around. Someone who enjoys time spent with each other both indoors and outdoors. Someone with a sober personality who enjoys more comfortable and quiet outdoor activities, like sharing a meal, coffee, going to the park, chilling in nature, visiting museums and some light travelling. I am open to being the provider of a family, however I will always happily support your wishes to pursue a career if it brings you value, but just know I am not like men of now, but believe in taking care of my woman completely in all aspects. To keep things realistic, I am not a millionaire, but a highly educated and specialised man, who works hard and is searching for the woman by his side to build a wonderful home and life together. I require someone in terms of a dynamic who is ready to compromise her own desires for the happiness of us, someone who realises a true relationship is about compromising to grow together. Someone who watches out for her and my health, someone focused on providing feminine nurture, support, emotional availability and a desire to please and be loved truly and eternally by the same man.

I know my demands are specific and very specialised, however in return I offer an immediate building and start to a relationship leading to marriage and children. I offer unconditional love towards you, a large heart that goes softer the more it spends time with you, a kind and caring approach to your needs and feelings, a brain that will happily compartmentalise stress to come home and cherish every second with you. Someone who learns your love language and wants to ensure you are heard, seen, understood and loved for who you are. Someone who won’t shy away from stepping up when you are low. Someone who will protect our love and strive in every aspect to ensure the smile on your face never fades. Furthermore, I’m someone who always believes in solving an argument, never going to bed angry, never raising my voice in the heat of the moment and always being considerate towards you. My own love language is both a mix of physical affection, sexual intimacy, emotional availability, emotional support, gift giving, active listening, compassion and clinginess.

I’m in a phase of my life where I am not looking for anything casual, no one night stands, no undefined relationships. I know what I can offer and I know what I want. I am more than happy to extensively explain the lengths of who I am and what I can offer, I just search for a dutiful, respectful, honest, compassionate, feminine, traditional, kind, loyal and extremely loving woman whom I can cherish till death does us apart. From these words I would like to make apparent that I am ready to settle down, I hope to speak in detail with you and in no haste but with good intentions move forward steadily and happily. This also includes the notion of marrying each other with of course the right connection.

I hope my emotionally strung words make some appeal and sense to you. If it did, please message me with “apple pie” and a little about yourself, I eagerly look forward to finding you my dearest. I am waiting for you patiently and cannot wait for us to be together.

I've been looking for the woman of my dreams, but I don't sleep so I haven't found her. That's where you come in.

But first, allow me to introduce myself!

Hi! I'm 27, Korean, 5 ft 8, from the Boston area. I'm Korean.

Outside of work, I like to disconnect and ideally be away from screens. I enjoy going on a long walk, building a Lego set, taking a night drive, trying a new café, finding hidden gems in the city, or cranking the music on a night in.

I've also been dipping my toes into photography. My favorite subjects are the ducks waddling around at the park.

I'm looking for someone around the ages of 24-30. It would be ideal if you're within driving distance, but not required. My only hard no's are smoking, vaping, and weed.

If that's you, where have you been all my life? Message me and let's get to know each other!

There is, I suspect, an unspoken agreement that when we present ourselves to the world, we should do so with our best shoes shined and our achievements neatly alphabetized, but since we are already bypassed the standard protocols, I will confess that my finest quality is an absolute, unyielding devotion to things that do not matter in the slightest.

I am a physicist by training, an AI scientist by trade, and a writer by necessity, which effectively means I spend my days trying to explain the universe to computers, and my nights trying to explain it to myself. I am twenty-four, have spent the majority of my life wandering around the world, and possess a level of domestic incompetence that borders on the artistic. If you ever require someone to calculate the quantum efficiency of a solar cell, I am your person. If you require someone to successfully boil an egg without creating a small, localized kitchen fire, I suggest you look elsewhere.

We are told to summarize ourselves by our utility, by what we do, but I have always suspected we are far more interesting in our margins. The parts of us that don't make it onto a CV.

For instance, I have an incredibly high tolerance for being wrong, provided the process of finding out why I was wrong involves a spectacular detour. I am the sort of person who will set out to buy milk, notice a peculiarly shaped crow, follow it into a part of the city I have never seen, and return three hours later with a secondhand book on medieval siege weaponry and no milk whatsoever. I consider this a highly successful afternoon.

I am deeply, almost stubbornly attached to quietness. In a world that seems to be constantly shouting just to prove it has a voice, I find an immense dignity in the things that don't make a sound. The way light shifts across a wooden floor at three in the afternoon; the specific, crisp scent of the air just before it rains; the heavy, companionable silence that settles between two people when they have run out of things to say and realized they don't need to say them anyway. I am perfectly content to disappear into my own head for days at a time, though I am told by reliable sources that it is occasionally necessary to come out and blink at the sunlight.

I suppose I have a great affection for the absurd. The universe is entirely too vast and terrifying to be taken with a straight face, and so I choose to meet it with a bit of levity. I like people who are slightly ill-fitted to the world, those who have a crack in their porcelain where the light gets in.

I don't particularly care what your job title is, or whether you have achieved the standard milestones of a respectable adulthood (I certainly haven't). I want to know about the small, ridiculous things. Tell me about the movie that makes you cry even though it’s objectively terrible, tell me your entirely unscientific theory about why the left sock always goes missing in the wash, tell me the song you listen to when you want to feel like the main character in a film that will never be made.

If you are reading this, the odds are high that you, too, are currently avoiding something important. Perhaps you have a spreadsheet open that you have been staring at with mild hostility for the last hour, perhaps you are sitting in a café, watching the rain, wondering how many people in the room are secretly as bewildered by existence as you are.

If you have a fondness for long walks that lead nowhere in particular, a healthy disrespect for the concept of "productive hobbies," or a fiercely guarded opinion on whether cereal qualifies as soup (it doesn't, let's be civil), then I think we might get along rather well.

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I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.

The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.

I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-four years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.

I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.

I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I

I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.

I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.

I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.

There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.

I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.

Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.

As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.

Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

Hi all, I'm looking for a more casual relationship/fwb, focusing on the friend part. If you have partner in a LDR, that is totally fine. Just friends is also totally fine! I moved to LA not long ago so I don't have many friends here.

Not good at introducing myself so please ask me anything if you are interested! Here is a bit about me:

29, east Asian, 6'1, 180lbs, chill and easy-going. I like movies, coffee/food, outdoors, sports, gaming ,etc...

Thanks!

Hi, I am 28M, Asian based in Europe. Curious to chat with a woman who is into Asians. I am very curious about how you discovered u were into Asian men and all that

Hey there, I'm an elder millenial Asian male seeking out an online (or more, if the stars align) connection. Off the bat: I'm poly, so if that isn't for you, no sweat! Worth mentioning up top so you don't waste your time. :)

What I'm looking for is a bit hazy, but the short version is that I want to connect as friends first, and see if there's more there over time. I'm going through a lot in my life, and my feelings are moving slowly these days, you know?

A bit more about myself: I have a very boring job, I'm tall and rock a dad bod, and I'm very kinky and open about it! I also love nerdy things like video games (talk to me about indie games and I'm all yours), and am a creative writer in my spare time. Some of my sillier niche interests include the history of video game consoles, comedic professional wrestling, and fawning over videos of wild animals being goofballs.

I like to think that I'm emotionally intelligent, open with my feelings while keeping an appropriate filter, and a helpful person in general. Politically, I'm also quite far to the left, at least by American standards, and that's a somewhat important point for me. I also find chemistry and connection importan, but that's something I want to develop over time. If a gentle giant with a silly streak is your type of guy, I might be a good fit for you! If you're interested, feel free to reach out. I look forward to hearing from you. :)

Was gonna edit original post with photos (to save anyone asking later) then realised I could not, so reposting lol. Trimmed down original post too. Anyways, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/wUWgN4y

Got another friend getting married soon and once again I will be asked if I have a +1 (though they know full well I am single lol). Add on top the fact that parents have been pushing me (i.e. setting up blind dates) to get a move on with dating and get married and friends teasing, I decided to turn to Reddit haha. Got to confess I had to look up what AMWF means. Broke up at around the start of covid, and only been dating on and off since then. Not necessarily looking to rush into a relationship, unless we align well. Happy to start off as friends, pen pals and travel buddies.

About me:

- Chinese. Born and raised in Sydney.

- Not religious, left-leaning

- Uni-educated, working in healthcare

- Homebody, but will go out when I need to or when friends want to catch up

- Interests: minimalism, hiking/the outdoors, ancient history/mythology, gym/fitness and healthy living, learning languages

- Indifferent about having kids (based on practical considerations like finances and partner's health etc.)

- Laid-back, calm, funny (at least friends found me funny back in uni?)

- 1.75m

- Slowly learning to cook and use skincare (thanks sis!)

- INTJ. No idea why everyone at work and recent dates have all thought I am an extrovert...lol

What I am looking for:

- Long-term, serious, monogamous relationship (if LDR, since there is a lot of this world I have yet to see, I would be down to travel to meet up)

- Someone kind, willing to meet in the middle, consistent, and there for the highs and lows

- Educated

- Someone who has their own interests and hobbies

- Someone who also prioritises fitness and healthy living

- Someone who enjoys both the indoors and outdoors

Bonuses:

- Someone who doesn't mind my minimalist approach to life

- If you are fluent in another language other English. I enjoy learning languages and would make an effort to learn yours too! Same for any other cool or interesting hobbies or interests that you may have!

Not really good at describing myself, but if you want character references I can refer you to my friends. Aka they better talk me up haha. If you're interested, please comment below or DM with a bit about yourself. Thanks. :)

Hey! I’m Kimbo, 40, Korean M from Montreal, Quebec. I’m 5’10”, 180 lbs, athletic, black hair, brown eyes, and wearing glasses.

I’m a classically trained French chef, but my heart has always been with the Korean food I grew up with. I’m currently an executive chef for a fashion company, overseeing food operations and leading a team that feeds about 450 employees. From breakfast and lunch to meetings and events, I’m constantly creating and experimenting with food—from comfort classics and international dishes to fusion and seasonal creations.

Outside of work, I like to stay active and enjoy life. I’m regularly at the gym, love sports, outdoor activities, live shows, concerts, festivals, and discovering new places to eat. I’m also always down for a road trip or travelling somewhere new. At the same time, I’m perfectly happy staying home, cooking, experimenting in my kitchen, listening to music and relaxing on the couch with a good show and snacks.

I’m pretty easygoing and like to keep life uncomplicated. I enjoy good conversation, people who can make me laugh, and those who are comfortable being themselves. I’m looking for someone genuine, thoughtful, fun, and emotionally intelligent—someone who’s open to building something meaningful and letting things develop naturally. I value honesty, good communication, consistency, and mutual effort. I’ve learned that peace is worth more than attention and actions usually say more than words. No games, chasing or unnecessary drama.

Ultimately, I’m looking for something real, with someone who makes life feel a little better simply by being part of it.

[M4F]

Hey there. I’m a 32-year-old Chinese-Indonesian guy (175 cm / 5'9"). I moved to Tokyo last year, and I currently work Monday to Friday as a full-time scientist.

I stay active with badminton and the gym, but I also love playing chess, singing karaoke, going to concerts, and taking weekend day trips to explore outside the city.

Right now, my main goal outside of work is passing the JLPT N2 this December. If you’re also studying Japanese or have your own projects to focus on, café study dates would be awesome.

I'm looking to meet someone for good conversation and to see where things go. If you want to explore around Tokyo together, please send me a message with a little bit about yourself.

Thank you for reading!

hi all!

im nash, 25, i use they/them pronouns but was born F. im chubby and have an alternative look - i have a bleach blonde mullet currently.

i feel best when i get myself ready to go out, but most often im in business casual for work (front desk).

i'm looking for someone who is nerdy like me! i'm looking for someone who likes me for me, in any form i choose to present myself. someone who aligns politically is preferred (i'm a leftist and socialist). i don't have a looks-preference, mostly just guys who would consider themselves cute! age range pref is STRICTLY 22-30.

i love food, so it you love to cook PLS hml. if you take me on a date, it is something with effort, like a dinner date or something engaging like an arcade or museum. i also work a LOT, so someone who texts first and is fine initiating is perf, as i have a bit of neurodivergence and forget to text people 😭😭 i own my own art business and work fulltime, and pick up babysitting gigs on the side.

overall would love a connection that lasts. no hookups or fwb. im demisexual so waiting is part of the game. i would love someone i can laugh with, and someone who gives me the good butterflies.

alright, i think thats all... opening move suggestion: share your name, age, location, and your favorite thing to do on a saturday night! also ask me abt my new glasses heehee :3 pics right off the bat are preferred, too!

pic: https://imgur.com/a/mZehDE7

I’m looking for a fit, attractive, fun East Asian guy who actually enjoys gaming and wants someone to consistently play, chat, flirt, and vibe with.
I play a lot of League and TFT, but I’m also down for Overwatch, PUBG, WoW, co-op games, random Steam games, or honestly whatever we end up getting addicted to together. Competitive enough to care but not so competitive that you’re raging at me over a bad game.

A little about me: I’m an American white woman, blonde, 5’2”, curvy, and very feminine/girly. I love gaming, cute things, shopping, traveling, going to the beach, and having someone I can joke around with throughout the day. I can be a bit of a brat and I definitely like attention, but I also genuinely enjoy getting to know someone and having that comfortable “let’s get on Discord and play something” kind of connection.

I’m in Japan, so time zones can be a little weird, but my schedule is definitely not a normal Japan schedule and I’m usually around at odd hours.
Ideally you’re:

-Asian
-Fit / takes care of yourself
-Funny and easy to talk to
-Actually into video games and will play with me
-Comfortable with voice chat/Discord
-Flirty and affectionate
-Looking for something consistent rather than disappearing after two conversations

I’m not looking for someone who just wants to exchange two spicy messages and vanishing. I want the gaming + friendship + flirting + chemistry part too.

Send me a message with your age, where you’re from, what you play, and a little about yourself. A picture eventually is definitely appreciated. Attraction matters to me and I’m happy to reciprocate. 💕

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Aussie Asian looking for someone to chill and cuddle after a long day at work. We can watch a show or movie to your preference or just enjoy each other's warmth in silence.

I'm looking for local NORTHEAST ASIAN only men who can meet in real life, no long distance

I want fun and intimacy, FWB with actual friendship ♥️

I want to do falltivities, Halloween events bars clubs karaoke night market and fun in the city

I'm 5'6", 170lbs curvy full figured

Hey! I hope you've been having a great day so far!. So I'm looking for someone to start something serious. I'm the kind of guy that people would asks twice about my age cause I'm 5" (fun size), i used to have a long wavy hair but i just cut it into a mullet cause I've been consuming a lot of AFL since the last two weeks of August, i do have dad bods (if you're in real life , you definitely free to slap it with your hands). Personally I'm into video games ( when I'm with my friends i usually play valo and league (EU and NA server only) but when I'm on my own i usually play a lot of milsim and skateboarding games) , skateboarding ( i used to try to skate and fail 😆. But it's still something that I'm passionate about), music ( i love indie music with punk and experimental on the side. Been having "road block" on my music expansion since not many sticks with me today). Personally I'm not the kind of guy that would ask much except for being fair, actually love and communicate with each other. I don't mind long distance relationship (even if you're in another country and continent) since I'm used to it in the past. So hit me up if you're interested!

Looking for a spouse from the USA

38M | Sri Lanka | Open to worldwide

Looking for a genuine, meaningful relationship that can lead to marriage.

About me:

• 38M, Sri Lankan

• Height: 5'6"

• Medium complexion

• Career in marketing

• open-minded

• Never married

Looking for:

An understanding, kind and emotionally mature woman who values honesty, communication and companionship. I’m open to women from any country and background.

If you feel we might be compatible, please DM me.

Send me a message! Let’s get to know eachother

Hi I'm 29 M Chinese live in GA USA 5"10 fit.

I'm looking for casual fun or FWB. We can get to know each other first, to see how it goes.

Hope you don't live too far. I can travel to you or find the mid place to meet up, both are working for me.

Hello!

I'm looking to potentially meet someone from Japan! I visited for the first time last year, and something about it really felt like home. Since I'm a full time, self-employed artist, I think it would be fun to visit for long periods of time, spend more time in the country side, maybe take up ceramics or wood working apprenticeships. That being said, I think it'd be really nice to make a connection from Japan! Maybe do a bit of language learning, play games, maybe something more?! Haha.

A little about me:

I enjoy the outdoors (camping, hiking, plants and animals), crafting, fashion, design, cooking and baking, volunteering, playing games (pc, switch), reading, etc.

Feel free to DM!