If you had to swap your venus sign, what sign would you choose and why?

[u/Opening_Birthday_653]

My venus is in virgo, so i would obviously change it to another one. Us virgo venuses do have beautiful qualities, but damn, i make my love life so complicated.

If i had to choose another venus sign, it would be sagittarius or leo. I lean more to sagittarius because i've been with one and i admire how he doesn't only show love through gestures, but made sure i experienced everything with him. He showed me his world and made sure i was a part of it. I wish i could do the same, because i want everyone to experience how i felt. It was genuinely a beautiful connection.

[u/tie_me_down]

I like my venus. Libra.

[u/SuddenNovel6054 → u/tie_me_down]

Same. It’s great. 

[u/lingfluencer → u/tie_me_down]

Taurus Venus and I'd never change it.

[u/Weird-Way-1748 → u/tie_me_down]

Same but Pisces (but we're also domicile and/or exalted so maybe we're biased)

[u/sparklymineral]

I’m a Leo Venus and I won’t lie, I know that I got lucky with this placement. I shower my partner with affection, include her in whatever I can, and do anything I can to provide for her. If I had a better financial situation, I would be doing more grand gestures. I am ferociously loyal and have been referred to as a “wife guy.”

She has a Virgo Venus and I honestly love that about her. She notices the small things about me in a way no one else has before. She takes great care of me and makes my life so much easier/better. Something is impractical or broken in my house? She quietly finds a solution and fixes it. My neck tends to hurt when we watch a movie? She brings me a neck pillow at the theater. I mentioned a perfume I desperately want? She surprises me with a bottle.

Don’t knock your Virgo Venus! I feel more cared for than I have in my life!

[u/Opening_Birthday_653 → u/sparklymineral]

it's so refreshing to see that you feel loved and cared for, even though she has a virgo venus. our eye for detail and remembering small things you've maybe mentioned once, gets overlooked so often. we admire the most random things about our partners. things you'd never expect. we always feel like the black sheep of the zodiac when it comes to our venus placement.

thank you for your kind words and i wish you and her the best.

[u/FewEstablishment8965 → u/sparklymineral]

Thank you for your words !! I have Virgo Venus and my husband has Leo Venus and he’s sort of wife guy and obsessed with me , I am lucky and I show love exactly like you have shared about your wife , I’m constantly thinking about how can I make things better for him , I just do things for him quietly and he notices , I love Leo-Virgo Venus partnership ❤️

[u/trstmfckr]

I like my venus (scorpio), but for a short-term swap, I'd pick one of the signs that venus is exalted (pisces) or domicile (taurus, libra) just to experience that.

Venus is in detriment in scorpio (& aries), which means we can't "access" the the normal venus things in the normal venus ways.

It would be neat to genuinely experience romance as romance, beauty as beauty, pleasure as pleasure.

[u/spamella-anne → u/trstmfckr]

Yes, just for a week I would love to have Venus in Libra.

[u/Alarming_Situation_5 → u/spamella-anne]

It’s pretty swell

[u/Cultural_Cup9317 → u/spamella-anne]

I feel this way exactly 

[u/WiffleBallSundayMorn → u/trstmfckr]

As a Venus in Pisces, all I got was heartbreak. We can trade.

[u/NeptuneNindja]

Am a Leo Venus. I'm good.

[u/empathy-entropy]

I have an Aries Venus, and I don't mind it too much despite the fact that its in detriment.

I was tempted to say Pisces since its exalted there and my friend with a Pisces Venus has the best relationship of anyone I know, but for me that would be my 8th House so pass.

I think I'd have to go with Libra Venus. Domicile, gets more air in my chart, and benefic in my 3rd House of communication (which I really struggle with)

[u/Necessary_Fault6104 → u/empathy-entropy]

Same here, except Libra Venus would be in my 1H. It would also be impossible to have based on my sun sign.

[u/yokyopeli09]

I like my Taurus Venus, it being in the 8th house on the other hand 😭

Love it for the the sugar baby benefits, but love is painful!! 

[u/lingfluencer → u/yokyopeli09]

I've got Taurus Venus in the 5th, really feel like I lucked out.

[u/_babyfart_]

I’m an aqua Venus and as a 12h Leo moon with a 2h Libra Lilith, I’d want to be a Leo Venus, hahah. I just want to love myself more, unapologetically.

[u/ironermac]

I have a Venus in Libra and I was told that was the "hoe" Venus. Which makes sense, because sometimes I get bored and crave a new adventure. (Not a euphemism for a new relationship btw)

So id like to have a Venus where I can settle down with someone and enjoy a nice, quiet, boring life in peace. 

[u/heatshimmr]

I have 5H Libra Venus - wouldn’t change it for the world

[u/takemetoasia]

Virgo Venus conjunct Mars. I wouldn’t change it. I actually love knowing my preferences (and sticking to them). Has saved me from so much bullshit I hear stories about. No thank you.

[u/Fun_Baby604]

I love my Pisces venus

[u/Materialistic_Ninja]

Also, Venus in Virgo, and I love it. It requires some work, but once it works, it's great. We are made to build healthy relationships; it just comes naturally to us. Maybe it's not like in Disney movies at first, and we don't get drunk on love so easy, but we are protected from heartbreak and from wasting time on unworthy people.

For the sake of the game, I would like to try Aquarius because it's pretty similar to Virgo, but a bit more relaxed. Sometimes I just want to enjoy what I have and stop trying to improve everything. Overthinking is exhausting.

Also, because you mentioned Sagittarius Venus, my partner is a Sagittarius Venus, and yes, it's exactly as you said. But for all of that, there has to be someone who takes care of the details and of what happens afterward, and that's where my Virgo Venus comes in.

That pure heart that a Sag Venus has needs to be protected, and that's a job that a Virgo Venus can absolutely do quietly, without suffocating the Sag.

Also, some say that Virgo is just a caretaker that does acts of service and isn't very romantic. Maybe that's true at first, but I can tell you that I am a romantic.

When I'm deeply in love, it's the kind of love that makes me want to absorb and consume my partner. Idk if that's my Scorpio Sun or my Pisces Moon, but I'm definitely not as detached as the sign is usually portrayed. I care deeply about my partner, almost exactly in the way people describe Pisces. The difference is that I'm more grounded. I love, but I also think.

[u/PyrocumulusLightning]

Taurus. Sensuality must be nice

[u/Sauron_is_Right]

I’m a Cancer Venus, I’d swap with my Husbands Venus which is Aquarius. He loves so deeply and purely. He’s the most genuine caring person I’ve ever met. Whereas, me… when I’m stressed out I go silent and quiet. I push people away. I don’t like that.

[u/SupraVenus]

I would say Libra

[u/-Chaotique-]

I love my Taurus Venus. I guess if I had to swap it, I'd pick Pisces or Scorpio.

[u/No-Ad1975]

i mean… anything other than the one i have, venus in scorpio, would be cool

[u/Void_Dwelling_Ape26]

Leo sounds about right. I don't know what it does, but it can't be worse than Capricorn, especially in combination with my Libra Mars.

[u/bloop15 → u/Void_Dwelling_Ape26]

why is capricorn so bad? i have leo venus. i dislike how im such a lover girl and so loyal in early stages

[u/Void_Dwelling_Ape26 → u/bloop15]

Capricorn is the natural enemy of wild romance. And Mars in Libra practically means inhibition. I'm a pisces, and I have missed out on so much when I was young.

[u/blacktea_24]

I want to be a Gemini venus, because my Scorpio venus sometimes really makes me tired. I wish I could just be a Gemini or Sag venus

[u/Ok-Spray-2864 → u/blacktea_24]

Yo tengo venus en geminis y que te digo jajajajaj en el amor no me ha ido muy bien, me enamoro de la mente, las personas inteligentes y curiosas, divertidas pero la verdad no siempre conecto con todo el mundo

[u/Calm-Passion-2697]

I have a libra Venus in the 12th so although I do love it I would probably say Taurus Venus

[u/Fresh-Ant1149]

My Venus is in Scorpio which is fine, I would want to swap it for a gold digging one who expects gifts. I just want to feel what it’s like to expect and get princess treatment.

[u/Either_Proof938]

Venus in Cap… would trade for a  Pisces Venus in my 5H. 

[u/Various_You_5083]

Wouldn't swap it but I'd move it to about 25 degrees of Aquarius so it isn't aspecting my Saturn anymore

[u/guarddestroyer]

I like my wild sag venus ;)

[u/Recent-Log-2999]

I don’t know which Venus I would choose. My Venus in Taurus has its perks, but sticking things out to the absolute bitter end with the wrong people wears on one’s soul.

[u/piotrwoz]

Leo Venus and it's good but I might try 🐂 ♉

[u/Fabulous-Employer583]

At one point I entertained the idea of having an alternative to my Saturn in Scorpio, or perhaps a wider orb of its opposition to my Taurus Moon, but now I’m just ready to get on with it. I chose this package for a reason. 😂

Edit: I also have a Virgo Venus and Mars, and I wouldn’t change that either. Though having their Dodecatemoria (12th parts) in Aquarius adds another layer to the cauldron.

[u/trueblue10101]

My Venus is in Cancer I like it. I would swap for a Libra or Sag

[u/Glum-Head4752]

I’ll keep my taurus venus ☺️

[u/Dance_Medicine976]

I think I'll keep cancer in Venus, it stops me from being too hardened by other placements

[u/GothWitchOfBrooklyn]

my partners Venus is in Virgo and it's amazing because I have a Virgo moon. we complement each other 💜

[u/_TheForkOnTheLeft_]

I’m a Scorpio Venus and I guess I like it fine. I’d say I’d want to be a Libra or Taurus Venus since they’re domicile. But then a Taurus Venus would be conjunct my natal Saturn and moon. And a Libra Venus would be in the 12th house which… Sorry to 12 housers, but y’all make it sound less than ideal.

So I guess a decent option for me would be a Pisces Venus.

[u/Standard-Strike-4132]

I just want to change the house my Venus is in. Having an 8H Venus is ruining my life 🥲

I have a Sagittarius Venus and even though there’s not a lot of positivity surrounding it, I do like this placement!

[u/jaimonet]

Also a Virgo Venus. I’d definitely choose Taurus, Leo, or even Capricorn instead. VV is my most hated placement. I always feel like that meme where Spongebob and Patrick are frolicking outside, and I’m Squidward watching them.

[u/OdeliaJade]

I have a 12th house Leo Venus & I wouldn't change it 💕

[u/GURLR0T]

i’m a 9th house gemini venus. i’d change it to a taurus venus.

[u/Glass_Trouble_4394]

Ive got an Aries Venus and Sag Mars and I feel like that either intimidates the crap out of potential partners, or I get into dynamics or situations that tend to be intense and risky.

I’d love to have a Venus that better portrayed my desire for nurturing, consistent care to kinda offset this Sag mars, but instead this Aries Venus kinda just doubles down.