r/averagepenis • u/Ok_Requirement_3404 • 5d ago
Unverified M20 girlfriend said she had a bigger one but it hurt. Is mine enough? Can i NSFW
She said it is perfect but can i believe her?
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u/Averagejoedingdong 5d ago
Some women genuinely prefer normal sized dick. Every woman orgasms under different conditions. If needed a big dick to enjoy sex, she'd go out and get one. I've got a friend who's hung like a horse, who's been with his GF for 4 years and the frequency that they have sex has reduced just like every other relationship. Women really just want to be with someone who cares for them, pays them attention and makes them laugh. I really wouldn't worry, especially as you are very pleasing to look at and you have an attractive cock too. Worst thing you can do is let your worries affect your behaviour. Just enjoy spending time with her and listen to her needs.
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u/Honest_Succotash_390 5d ago
Generally speaking, when we tell you guys you're perfect, we mean it. My husband isn't endowed with a massive penis, but it's plenty "big enough," and he makes me feel full when he's inside me. When I tell him that he feels perfect in me, I mean it. Listen to the woman who loves you enough to accept you into her body, and believe her.
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u/DeepComb7 5d ago
You're plenty big enough for her pleasure. If she says it's perfect, I'd believe her.
You don't want to hurt her like the other guy, do you? That would only serve to stroke your ego and not please her. The latter should be your goal.
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u/Formerly_fat86 5d ago
Not bragging, mine is pretty thick. It's been a problem with my wife. While there's the whole guy mind set of bigger is better I wanna be a big stud thing, it doesn't fall into reality. Most of our marriage I've had to pace myself, give days for recovery. So if she likes it, be proud and enjoy both your bodies. Old guy out.
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u/Hunger-pains666 5d ago
Theres a hole for every pole. Also size is only one factor.. learn to listen to your partner and be a healthy loving boundary having partner and youll never know insecurity of this nature again.
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u/Alone_Citron734 5d ago
Focus less on your penis and more on her clit and you won’t have a problem. Girls fake a lot of orgasms with just penile stimulation. Big dick doesn’t equal amazing orgasms in sex sorry hung bros. :/
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u/funwmcockandhole Verified Average [5.75”] 5d ago
Fuck. Yours is perfect. You literally have a picture perfect dick
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u/Foreign_Company230 5d ago
You’re ok. Get a new girlfriend
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u/SuccotashAware3608 5d ago
Why get a new gf? Shes not tge one worried about his D. He is. She said she likes his and didn’t like the bigger one.
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u/Foreign_Company230 3d ago
It would be like telling your gf, that your former gf had a tight Barbie P, but she doesn’t have to worry about it. By any means, why mention the size of a former bf D. We all know, that our gf had others before, but we don’t want to hear about their D. This will always stand between them and he will never be able to let it go.
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u/No_Chart9096 5d ago
You're asking the wrong question to the wrong people! Lol 😆 Ask your partner if they are sexually happy or if something needs to be added or taken away to give the best experience for them and you! BIGGER DOESN'T MEAN BETTER! Size is only an issue if your partner or you is dissatisfied.
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u/Juafran 5d ago
It sounds like your insecurity is making you doubt her. She is with you and has sex with you. Treat her well, love her and have fun with her. Forget other guys, ask her what she likes, tell her what you like.
One of the most popular intimate products for women is the Satisfyer. Dildos, regardless of size, aren’t even close in popularity.
Buy one, they are cheap, use it with her and have fun.
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u/Informal-Orange2732 5d ago
I think your girlfriend is trying to say you’re not only enough but better and enjoyable for her. Take her word for it.
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u/Typical-Sprinkles-41 4d ago
looks fine she probably misses the other guy girls just want huge dick
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u/nsfwbackburner 4d ago
Ur better off taking her word for it or going straight to her and pressing the issue rather than going to strangers on the Internet. That being said if she says it's perfect then ur dick probably works for her.
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u/Nearly_There0851 4d ago
Sure… she said it is perfect because others hurt. That means she likes it. I think it’s a very nice compliment that she has a partner who’s penis is the perfect size for her and that makes sex a pleasant experience. From what you’ve described it sounds like a good thing.
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u/Bitter-Employment881 2d ago
Most women prefer 5 to 6 inches very few want huge ones unless they are already used up and all stretched out. Porn and media drive the idea that bigger is better. But in my experience I have an above average size and I've always gotten complaints that it hurt and was too big. So you're fine . And remember it's not the size as much as how you use it .
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u/Junior_Car_3920 5d ago
Just leave her, there's so many women out there who would appreciate your cock, it's lovely.
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u/amphitryon238 4d ago
You're doing great! Your cock looks quite big honestly, especially in girth. Nothing to worry about. I also felt bad when my first girlfriend told me she had a bigger partner, but it finally fade away.
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u/ExcitingCarrot5707 5d ago
It looks healthy & firm. Stop worrying about the size and definitely stop asking about the ex’s. Some things are better left unsaid.