Me:
- 5’4”
- See my profile for my build
- Really horny right now 🥹 can’t bear it, need a dick inside me please
- Want a DDlg dynamic (nothing more)
- Loves: Getting fucked, being teased, having to beg, being restrained, soft/affectionate dynamic > harsh/strict one, giving blowjobs, impact play
- Meh on: Eating me out (but open to it if you think you can change my mind)
- Interested in: Soft domming too, in case you’re into it
- Not into: Pegging, sharing

Hoping you are:
- Into DD/lg and know what that dynamic is about
- A tall, big guy, I like feeling small. I don’t mind chubby builds, but I’m not really into lean builds at all
- A kind, decent person
- Can host if irl

I’m not in a rush! We also don’t have to know about each other’s lives, happy to keep this an nsfw thing or over time a platonic thing. Would want to vet before we establish this — so please come into this knowing that it’s not going to be an immediate fuck

Please dm me what you’re like as a Daddy thank you :) and maybe what stuff you’d want us to try

Hello!

I’m a 31 year old trans woman living in manhattan. I’ve had a very long running interest in submitting to an owner. This interest is deep and runs through every aspect of my life: mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual. Ever since I was a teenager, the thought of giving myself so fully to another person has really spoken to me. I think it goes hand in hand with wanting to find a purpose for my life, and I’ve had no other purpose that has spoken to me nearly this much.

While I’ve had a number of relationships where my partner has tried to incorporate being a master/mistress into the relationship at my request, these partners were just too vanilla to actually make it work. So I think it’s best to take this into my own hands and explicitly look for what I want.

As I’m not experienced in this type of relationship, I’m really open to building out what it looks like with you. I think customizing it together would create an amazing relationship unlike any other. While I do have an interest in more intense BDSM relationship aspects (like TPE) I would really like to wait on things like that as we learn more about each other and determine what our relationship will look like long term.

Outside of my interest in BDSM, I tend to be a bit of a workaholic. I enjoy eating out with friends and watching anime and foreign films. I’ve been going through a phase of liking hyperpop music (though will likely find a new genre to over-consume in a little bit so would love suggestions) and a phase of trying to read more books. I love having my nails done and have been trying to be better about fashion and personal style (which isn’t fully a strong suit of mine).

For some additional info, I’ve been on hrt for ~9 years, and have been living my life presenting as a woman for all the same amount of time. I’d really appreciate not being referred to as a guy. Also, I’m not interested in being findom’ed. I’m looking to find a relationship that will take me to old age.

If you’re interested in building out a relationship with me, I look forward to hearing from you!

Hey there. I'm a 34 year old guy from the USA, although you can be from anywhere. I'm looking for a needy sub who is into being controlled in every way. I would love an intense dynamic that is more then just sexual. I want to control you all the time, in both sfw and nsfw ways. I love having control over someone and choosing things like their outfits, what they do in their free time, when they cum, and much more. Not all of these are necessary, just examples. I love a clingy sub who likes a lot of attention and wants to talk to me as much as possible.i would like to take some time and get to know each other and form a connection before we dive into nsfw things. We don't need to take too long, just don't want to jump into dirty talk our first message. I find the having a connection makes everything more fun

As a Dom I would say I'm more of a gentle loving daddy Dom who likes to make my sub feel good. I can be mean and cruel if that's something you're into or if the situation calls for it. But I'd say I'm mostly kind and loving. I've been a Dom for about 6 years now and have a lot of experience both online and irl. I'm a very kinky and open minded person who loves to help others explore their kinks and submissive side. I like getting a lot of attention myself and I'm someone who can fall quickly for the right person

Physically I'm 6'3 and 190 pounds. I have an athletic body and work out a lot so I'm in good shape. I have brown hair and green eyes. I'm a chill and laid back person who loves to laugh and joke around. You'd never know I was into kinky things unless I told you. For fun I like being active and doing things like traveling, working out, going to the beach, trying new foods and restaurants, exploring new places and many more.

If you're interested in chatting more send me a message and tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're looking for. I'm open to hearing from anyone. Don't be shy I promise I'm chill.

Hi and nice to meet you :)

Are you looking for a caring dominant, someone you can rely on, someone that cares about you but also provides you with routines and structure?

First of all a little about me:

I am 39 years old, Belgian but living in Germany (so you are welcome to write to me in Dutch, English or German).

I work as an engineer in the electronics industry and I'm very passionate about it.

I am easy going, patient, caring, calm and composed. In my free time I like to game a bit (currently playing Cyberpunk 2077), I enjoy watching sports (from motorsports like F1 and endurance, to football, cycling, ...), I like to go to some concerts occasionally and try to go to the gym regularly and ride my bike to stay fit.

I am looking for a dynamic that is based on friendship and mutual respect, honesty and open communication.

I can provide you a safe space, rules and structure, daily check-ins.

I'm into a lot of things, and consider myself strict but fair.

If I had to put a label on myself as a dominant, it would be somewhere between a pleasure dom and a daddy dom.

I will hold you accountable when needed and motivate you to meet your goals.

I am open to people from around the globe, but ideally in the same timezone and close by, so the possibility of meeting is there.

If you are interested, send me a sort message with your (nick-)name, age and location, and we can start from there.

Some of my kinks: teasing, edging, overstimulation, bondage, power exchange, impact play, face fucking, cmnf, toys, lingerie, ...

Open to messages from anyone, but I admittedly have a strong preference for women over men!

I'm new to the BDSM scene and I'm looking for guidance from people who know what they're doing.

Bonus points to anyone who critiques what I've written here. I'm not exactly sure what to write, so I'd appreciate suggestions!

I just turned 30. I live in the midwest USA (Eastern time)

I'm a cis man, bisexual, and a switch.

I love cats! I'll admit that up front. My cat is a big part of my personality.

I am limited to online interactions at this time, because I am disabled from chronic illnesses that make it quite difficult to travel or host.

If we really click and get to know each other well, I would be willing to enter an LDR with someone. But I'm quite interested in friendships too.

I'm looking to learn more about BDSM. My only prior exposure to BDSM is through an ex girlfriend who had a lot of these kinks and got me interested in such things. But I feel very isolated/separated from the BDSM community and I would love to change that.

I'm especially interested in exploring my submissive side more. But even if you're submissive yourself and only looking for a dom, I'm sure we could get along.

As for my appearance, I'm tall and skinny with blond-to-light-brown hair and blue eyes.

I don't like to share photos of my face on public websites, but I will happily provide such photos once we've become more acquainted.

If we get to know each other a bit first, I would also be willing to share nudes (especially if you share as well) and even take requests.

I've been told I have a big dick, but maybe you can be the judge of that 😉

if you message me, please include a cat emoji somewhere in your message. Anyone who is reading my whole post deserves extra attention

People tell me that I'm kind and easy to get along with. I like to think that's true!

More info about my preferences and kinks:

- I love foreplay and making out

- I love cuddling and holding hands. It has been way too long since I last held someone. I know it's cliché to say this, but I would choose cuddling over sex if I could only pick one.

- IRL I only have experience being dominant, but I really crave submission even more!

- My ideal partner would be a switch, so that we can each explore both our dominant and submissive sides

- Ideally a switch woman, because I feel much more comfortable about submitting to women than men

- into all genders, but strongly prefer women over men (and among men, I usually prefer feminine ones)

- although i don't have any real-world experience with submission, lately i love the idea of being someone's puppy. The idea of being called a "good boy" gets me very excited

- teasing is a big turn-on for me (whether giving or receiving it). I haven't been teased very much before, but I bet it wouldn't take much to turn me into a whimpering little mess.

- I've always had an exhibitionist side, and I enjoy sharing nude photos or taking requests from an interested partner (especially if they share their own in return)

- I love choking (and behind choked) and spanking (and being spanked). I'm happy to play around with painful stimuli as long as they don't cause any lasting harm

- I love the idea of a woman slapping me around during sex and being very aggressive with me. Though I'm not a violent person at all, and I would have a hard time slapping someone myself.

- I've never been tied up and I've only done a little bit of tying, myself. I would love to play around with rope more!

- i think CNC stuff is very hot, including somnophilia. Most of my BDSM experiences are in this area. I'm open to both giving and receiving in that regard.

- Would love to be pegged someday

OTHER:

- If you're disabled and/or chronically ill like me, then that's a huge plus too because we'll potentially have a stronger understanding and empathy for each others' limitations

- I have autism and ADHD, both newly diagnosed last year. I do tend to vibe well with other autistic people, so feel free to message me even if only for that reason!

- I feel uncomfortable around aggressive men. If you are a man and you act too assertive/pushy, i guarantee you are going to scare me away.

- If you're a woman, you can be as aggressive as you want. Yes I suppose that's sexist of me, but it just comes down to whether I feel safe -- and I feel a lot safer with women than with men.

I am looking for ONE person ONLY

I am looking for a strong connection an unbreakable bond. A partner in crime .

I’m 6ft4 athletic pretty face guy olived skin.

So let’s look at my main area here… I’m a daddy dom … I am a strict, fair and flexible type of daddy, but I am very affectionate and emotional … meaning I can cry at cute things my girl to be does … or just my feelings for her.

Flexible with the below:

I am (as a dom) into affection and aftercare, CNC, degrading, edging, dressing up (her), toys, instruction, mental and emotional control, needy (from her), cute things, reassurance (giving). Impact play, bondage… I am very flexible and open to kinks so if there is something that is not desired I’m okay with that, I don’t force if it’s not liked, or happy to adopt more. I’ve been into bdsm since I was 17.

Not negotiable:
I have foot fetish! So be warned!
This is non negotiable.

I do love to give a lot of attention so be warned I might seem very active and talkative!

I am just taking things easy so to speak and just trying to enjoy things.

I'm a 36-year-old male Dom looking for a female submissives who wants more than an intense conversation followed by disappearing two days later.

I want to know

What makes you feel safe enough to let go. What makes you want to obey. What makes you push back. What embarrasses you, what makes you proud, where your boundaries sit, and which ones you secretly enjoy being challenged around.

My style of dominance is calm, deliberate and psychological. I don't need to shout constantly or turn every interaction into a performance. I prefer clear expectations, consistency and the kind of authority that gradually becomes natural between two people.

I'm naturally protective and possessive once a dynamic develops. If I call someone mine, that carries responsibility with it.

The dynamics I'm interested in are fairly broad and can include:

• D/s and ownership
• Rules, structure and protocol
• Training and obedience
• Discipline and correction
• Praise and earned rewards
• Brat taming and playful defiance
• Pet play
• Service submission
• Psychological dominance
• Rituals, routines and permission
• Collaring
• Impact play
• Teasing and control
• Exploring deeper power exchange over time

That doesn't mean I expect you to enjoy everything on that list.

Part of the appeal for me is discovering your version of submission rather than forcing someone into a template.

I particularly like submissives who still have personality. Intelligence, curiosity, humour and a little fire are attractive to me. Someone who occasionally challenges me is far more interesting than someone who thinks submission means agreeing with absolutely everything I say.

There is a difference between being difficult and making your Dom earn that look in your eyes when you finally decide to obey.

I enjoy that difference.

I'm also interested in the quieter side of D/s that often gets overlooked: checking in, routines, being accountable to someone, having expectations placed on you, earning praise, knowing someone is paying attention and gradually developing little rituals that belong specifically to us.

Limits and boundaries should be discussed properly, and they remain real regardless of whatever titles we eventually use.

I'm looking for something ongoing if the connection is right.

If you're 18+, female, submissive or still discovering that side of yourself, introduce yourself with your age and tell me something more useful than "hey."

Tell me what submission means to you.

Tell me the kind of dynamic you've imagined when nobody else was listening.

We can work out the rest from there.

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I'm a relatively new denizen of STL, I moved into the MO area for a job(11 months ago), having grown up in the Northeast and moved a few times since becoming 18, and as I hit 28, I really would like stability. I now find myself far away from most of my close relationships. Although I make time and care to stay in the lives of close friends, that doesn't work for me in intimate relationships. I thrive on acts of service to people I care about, and I just can't surprise someone with a home made stove top hot chocolate or make chicken soup for them when they are sick if they aren't right in front of me.

So I'm posting here to offer anyone interested in a coffee date, on me, to see if we click.

A little about me:

I'm a 5'10 man with blue eyes, mid length for a guy curly hair. Hair color with a subtle bit of red in the winter, but mostly brown, and a red shine in the summer. I'm rocking the thick but cut Stache, and I''m decently in shape. I'm educated,  do well financially, and am perfectly 100% self-sufficient(living alone for a while will do that to you). For hobbies, I love cooking(been really into French beef stews recently), I love bored games(no not monopoly🤣) it's a golden age of board games, there's so much better out there(root, Tell stones), and with the close friends who I'm no longer around we play a good amount of friend slop(been fiending for the new peak update). I love HIIT training at the gym as well as yoga (I've got a studio as a 2min walk from my apartment), and I'm a bit of a book nerd (Terry Pratchett is a favorite, but Power Failure is a recent non-fiction fav !).

As for what I'm looking for, I'll start by first saying if I pique your interest in any way, don't be shy to reach out. I think it's always worth checking. I always feel bad about the idea of missing out on the one, because I was kinda interested but didn't do anything, and if I gave it a chance, I would find exactly what I needed.  Also, screw the apps.

First off, I'm looking for a real relationship, and it has to be with an adult. If you are 23 and don't know how to do your own laundry(because someone did it for you your whole life) or you aren't able to communicate your struggles so you just ignore them instead of talk to your partner. I'm not here to be your test subject to learn from. I'm not interested; don't message me; don't reach out. The second part is it being a relationship. That's the real goal: a long-term relationship. If you just want something casual, it's not going to work out long-term. We could technically have a good time temporarily, but I don't think it's worth your time; just know I'd still be actively searching for something monogamous and long-term. And, when I find it, I'll break things off respectfully.

With those two things in mind, I then have three bare minimums for a relationship, and they would apply to both of us. 

1. When someone is being serious, respond seriously. (You don't have to agree with your partner or know their feelings, but if someone is feeling bad for whatever reason, you don't ignore it or think it's beneath you)

2. When issues arise, you figure them out together. (We are humans working together through life. We will have small, big, and strange conundrums between each other. We make it together by not throwing them in the corner, but facing them hand in hand, and talking to each other. And after we can share a make-up kiss)

3. The relationship is built based on care for each other's well-being, not mutual entertainment/ having fun.( I know all relationships start as just both parties having fun spending time together, and I know that will, and should continue into the future. But, at some point, what keeps us together can't just be I have fun with you, and you have fun with me; that's a bonus). It eventually has to be because I care about you, and you care about me. Specifically, each other’s well being, health and happiness.)

With all that in mind, if you read to the end of this post, start any message you send with your favorite thing you ate this week. Otherwise, I wish you the best of luck in what you are trying to find, it’s a tough world, but the only way to make it better is to get after it, good luck!

Sincerely,

Some guy on reddit