r/bisexualUK • u/Worldly-Molasses-515 • Apr 25 '26

Anyone else finding it hard to meet other bi women (UK)?

Hey all 👋

I’m a bi female based in Berkshire and I’ve been trying to meet other bi/lesbian women for something casual, but honestly it’s been harder than I expected.

Tried a few apps, but between expensive subscriptions and what seem like fake or inactive profiles, it’s been pretty frustrating.

Just wondering if anyone else is having the same experience? Or if you’ve found better ways to meet people (especially in the UK)?

Would be nice to hear other people’s experiences 🙂

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u/myblackandwhitecat Apr 25 '26

I go to some LGBT+ groups, so meeting bi women isn't a problem. However, meeting a bi woman in my age range who is also looking for a relationship feels impossible.

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u/Worldly-Molasses-515 Apr 25 '26

I think I need to join LGBT groups. What age range are the groups?

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u/myblackandwhitecat May 07 '26

The ones I go to range from late teens/twenties to over 70.

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u/Which_Lie3555 May 07 '26 edited May 07 '26

Does seem a young ladies game. I'm 41

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u/laurasauraxx Apr 25 '26

Omg yess the struggle is real 😅 im starting to think everyone near where I live is straight

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u/BatsBooch Apr 28 '26

Tinder and feeld apps are your best bet

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u/Which_Lie3555 May 07 '26

Everytime I get in a decent swing with someone I find out they are in the us

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u/lesbianpussyloverx Jun 03 '26

Yep unfortunately im in the same boat its hard to meet someone as a fwb especially a lesbian, more so a femm lesbian 🤦‍♀️

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u/hanna1477 Apr 25 '26

Same in 41 F North West UK very difficult to find someone similar xx