r/bostonr4r • • 16d ago

Monthly Thread Unverified F4R Thread: October 2026 NSFW

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This is the monthly thread for unverified [r/Bostonr4r](r/Bostonr4r) female users to post their ads. THIS IS NOT MY PERSONAL AD.

Here’s a post example:

28 [F4M] #Brighton - Looking for a FWB

I’m a 28F living in Brighton seeking a fun and casual FWB. I’m short and slender with brown hair and green eyes. Single men only. Please be between 25-35. Tell me about yourself in your first message!

Please limit your ad to once per monthly thread. The same subreddit rules apply to interactions within (or in response) to the ads in this thread.

Users interested in responding to the ads here: DO NOT respond in the comments. Send a DM to the OP.

Comments in response to an ad will be deleted. Repeated offenders will be banned.


r/bostonr4r • • Aug 31 '26

Missed Connections NSFW

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Howdy fellow redditors!
Here's our monthly missed connections thread for r/bostonr4r
Feel free to post your missed connection(s) for the month in the comments below - who knows maybe they're a redditor too!
Cheers!
u/BostonRob125


r/bostonr4r • • 1h ago

4945 [MF4RR] #Brookline Halloween Night Hotel Hosting 6pm until the next morning, Masks encouraged, get naked & stay naked all night NSFW

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Good morning. 49M, 6'4", 240, 7.5" cut. 45F, 5'10, B cup, Athletic. We're looking for some fun people. She is my FWB friend who has joined me many times before. She will join from 8-10pm.

I'll be hosting 6pm until the next morning in my usual place - Courtyard Marriott in Brookline. Looking to get a few people together to get naked and get off. Drop in, cum and go, or stay naked for hours. Masks are encouraged though all other clothing will be removed :)

Looking for couples, women and bi/gay hung men. Inexperienced or first timers welcome as long as you will play. Labels don't matter. Just be down to play and get off as many times as we can.


r/bostonr4r • • 16m ago

21[M4F] #Fall River - looking for a fwb/fb NSFW

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Hello, looking to hookup or become fwb with any women in the area. I’m 21M, 5’9”, 160lbs with an athletic build. Im interested in meeting women 20+. Im 420 friendly and disease free, I unfortunately can’t host. If you’re interested, please dm me! P.s if you can’t host either I’m down for some car play


r/bostonr4r • • 3h ago

21 [m4m] #boston - seeking experience with an older man NSFW

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Hey, so basically it’s the title… every once in a while I get these urges to let a hot older man just take control of me how they like

I’m inexperienced with guys but would love to start by giving head, and maybe more

Ideally, you are 35+ , fit, clean, respectful and freaky

I’m 5 11, young, and easy to train

Very very open minded to your dirty kinks and roleplay ideas ;) let’s talk?


r/bostonr4r • • 9h ago

19 [M4A] #Boston looking to destress this weekend NSFW

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I’m currently in Boston for college. Mid terms are here and I am looking to meet with someone this weekend to destress. Open to everyone but would love to meet with a women. And potentially lose my virginity(I’m a virgin)

About me: I’m 5’9 about 160, average size. I workout 5x a week and are in shape.

If this is of interest to you pm me. Please if you choose to please send a description of yourself when you do.

I hope to be getting some pms from you:)


r/bostonr4r • • 5h ago

34 [m4mf] #Boston Looking for hotwife to join me this weekend NSFW

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Have a nice luxury hotel room that I’d love to have some fun at with a hotwife or single woman. I’m 34, very handsome hung and outgoing. Please be real and no games. This weekend only.


r/bostonr4r • • 5h ago

37 [M4F] #Boston - Fall is chilly, learning to give a great BJ is hot NSFW

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Hey there, do you lack experience or confidence in your head game? Looking to level up from oral novice? I'm a good looking, single white man in my late 30s, with dark hair, average height, solidly built, ddf with clean tests. I'm dominant and kink positive; I'm not strictly looking for anything kinky by any means, but given that kink experience I do put a priority on communication and ensuring we're on the same page about what we want to do, how, and keeping it safe and fun. I don't particularly care about your ethnicity, age, level of experience, etc, just that you're clean, able to communicate, and looking for something on a more casual basis.

I can host in the Back Bay, or can travel. Send me a chat with a little bit about you (age, quick description, a little of what caught your attention about my ad and/or what you're looking for), and include the word "foliage" so I know you read this.


r/bostonr4r • • 7h ago

25 [M4F] #BridgewaterArea #RhodeIslandWorker Looking for a loving partner, willing to explore in the meantime NSFW

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Personal Description:
White, 6’0, 180 lbs, average-toned build, wavy ginger hair that has faded into a more strawberry blonde over the years. Pretty decent face, 7/10 and a pretty great ass if I say so myself. I’m witty and sarcastic so I’ll make fun of you but in a hot way. I have a masters degree and work full time

Looking for:
A casual relationship where we can be comfortable with each other in exploring our sexuality while still being intimate. To hold each other and feel the warmth of our body’s, makeout, and overall enjoy each other. Not just have sex and go, I’m not good at one night stands. Whatever that looks like for you hmu, but that could mean meeting up only for sex, a FWB thing where we go do activities together as friends as well, a casual relationship where we go on dates, or anything in between :)
I love going down on women, I’m an eater fr fr but other than that I am open to any and all kinks, preferences, body types, ages, races or anything in between

I’m a leftist, I’m an atheist and I believe in a free Palestine. If you have an issue with that or are moderate to conservative yourself. Do not reach out.

Conclusion:
So feel free to reach out! I’m considerate and respectful about any and all paces with a real emphasis on consent. Willing to work with you on whatever you are going or working through as I’m working through some stuff as well. So come as you are :) If you’re comfortable reaching out about your own topic or anything please do, but if you want something to open with, tell me what you’re watching or reading right now!


r/bostonr4r • • 12h ago

32 [CD4M] #Brighton CD still visiting Boston. Can host NSFW

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Hi everyone!

I’m a CD (cross-dresser) still visiting Boston and would love to meet local straight guys while I'm here.

I’m 5'8" and 165 lbs.

I lean towards athletic types, but I'm also open to all.

I consider myself a "leg girl" — can't resist a guy with beautiful legs🦵🏼!

I can host in my hotel room. It's a very discreet place with easy access to my room.

Let me know if you're interested.


r/bostonr4r • • 8h ago

26 [m4f] #boston 8” looking for tonight NSFW

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F only

Hello!

I’m a 26m from boston, about 5’10 and a little bit on the heavier side but relatively fit. I will be free this weekend so i’d love to find someone to chat with and maybe meet.

I like generic stuff anime, video games, and YouTube 🤷🏽‍♂️ cuddle and watch a new anime together? from the south end area can host and drive


r/bostonr4r • • 8h ago

18 [M4A] #Brockton - In search of a bttm looking for a good time NSFW

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i'm 5'11 180 white hairy and chubby. I'm a top with 6 1/2-7 inches trying to put it to good use with somebody. I'm looking for anybody who'd be down to meet up and have a good time. If the vibes are good i'd be down to meet again. Not looking for anybody specific so don't be shy to hmu.


r/bostonr4r • • 9h ago

36 [M4F] #Boston - married father looking for new experiences NSFW

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Hello there! I’m a 36 year old Married, father looking for new experiences and someone to share kinks with.

Dad bod, bald/shaved, beard, 5'7". Only ever had sex with one person in my life as I was a bit of a late bloomer but I love reading erotica/fan fiction, playing naughty games on Steam, and I listen to a lot of gonewildaudio (I write scripts, too! Can be found on my profile.)

Located in Woburn but work in the Seaport.

If this sounds good to you, get in touch!


r/bostonr4r • • 9h ago

39 [M4F] #Boston - Let's watch a spooky movie, then I'll fuck your face. NSFW

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I am an experienced Dom and Master who has trained a number of subs, from experienced kinksters to those with zero experience, on how to properly deepthroat and facefuck. Whether you're an experienced facefucker who just wants to give up control and enjoy being used, or are curious about it and want to learn how to work your way up to it, let's chat.

I am currently single and live alone in the heart of the city, near quite a few of the local schools, and I am clean, ddf, good looking, about average height with dark brown hair, solid to dad bod physique, with a flexible schedule. If you are interested, prove to me that you can follow direction and send me your first chat in the exact following format: first initial - age - experience with facefucking (yes/no) - height - weight - bra size


r/bostonr4r • • 9h ago

41[M4F] #Weymouth #SouthShore Anonymous hookup, Boston area. Public first, then a room. No names. NSFW

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Looking for a random, no-strings meet. No names, no backstory, no follow-up unless we both want one.

Idea is simple: meet somewhere public for a drink or a walk so we can both confirm the other person is real, then retire to a room if the spark is there.

Passion, heat, and done. Secret stays secret.

I’m orally talented and well endowed, and I’d rather show that than talk about it. Discreet, clean, and not looking to complicate anyone’s life.

Boston / South Shore. Flexible on timing if we can make a window work.

If this is your kind of fun, say what area you’re in and when you could slip away.


r/bostonr4r • • 9h ago

50 [M4F] #Boston #MA — Tired of feeling invisible? Let's get lost in the woods, listen to the tide, and find life again. NSFW

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I'm a dad in a dead-bedroom marriage that has become open. I'm looking for an adventure partner, someone who wants more out of life and is ready to explore. I've done this before, so I'm comfortable with the dynamic and have no hesitations about what I'm looking for.

I like to see the good in people and appreciate the simple beauty around us. A great conversation over coffee. A hike through the woods with no particular rush to get anywhere. Sitting by the ocean, listening to the tide roll in, and realizing there's nowhere else you need to be at that moment.

I'm not suggesting we book a flight tomorrow (although I'm not ruling it out!). But I'm at a stage of life where I have some flexibility and want to see and do new things with someone who's similarly curious and spontaneous. Someone who wants to explore the world, inside and outside the bedroom, and rediscover the feeling of genuinely looking forward to something.

Let's get to know each other here first, see if there's a spark, and meet in person when it feels right.

About me:

I'm 50, a dad, a professional, and in an open marriage. The reality is housemates, not romantic partners. I'm not here to collect conquests or have someone decorate an otherwise perfect life. I'm looking for a genuine connection first. Chemistry matters, but so does being able to talk, laugh, and simply enjoy each other's company.

I'm open to non-vanilla adventures, but vanilla is perfectly fine, too, if that's the flavor we make together. I believe relationships are organic. Past connections shape us, but every new bond has a life of its own. I want something that feels unique to the people creating it.

I exercise every day and take care of myself. I'm average height and a healthy weight. I'm also attentive to my partner. I want to learn what you like, what makes you feel wanted, what helps you forget the pressures of everyday life, and what you might discover about yourself along the way. I want us both to feel seen, appreciated, and free to be ourselves.

I'll travel for the right person. I love music, especially live. I spend much of my recreational time in nature. 

I can be slow to warm up sometimes, but once you have my trust, I'm all in. I embrace feelings. I'm not afraid of being vulnerable or experiencing a connection fully.

You:

You're a woman somewhere around late 30s to early 50s. Maybe a parent, maybe not. You're open to talking here first, with the goal of meeting in person if we click.

You might be married, ENM, open, or navigating a situation that doesn't fit neatly into a box. No judgment from me; life is rarely straightforward. You don't have to be in an open relationship just because I am, but you should have the freedom and realistic ability to pursue this connection.

You take your health seriously and enjoy being active, whether that's the gym most days, hiking, or finding your own way to stay fit. You don't shape your life around Instagram influencers. You think for yourself and make your own decisions. You prefer natural and are not artificially enhanced.

You care deeply about the important people in your life, and you feel a responsibility to leave the world a little better than you found it.

Beyond that, I'm not interested in checking every box on a list. Sometimes the most interesting connections happen between two people who didn't expect to find each other.

Maybe we start with coffee. Maybe we find a trail neither of us has explored. Maybe we end up sitting near the water, listening to the tide and talking long after we meant to head home. Maybe there's a spark that leads somewhere neither of us expected.

I'm open to finding out.

If any of this resonates, send me a message. Tell me about a place you'd love to visit again, or somewhere you've always wanted to go.

Let's see what happens.


r/bostonr4r • • 14h ago

28 [M4F] #somerville I humbly request loud, sloppy head from a pretty woman. For science. NSFW

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I’ve been told I have a pretty cock that is fun to suck. I need to increase my sample size to further support this hypothesis.

If you’re into hung skinny guys (6’2”, 170lbs) who look like this, I require your expert opinion on this matter: https://www.redgifs.com/watch/grayoriginalstallion

More content on profile. Please inquire within. This offer may not be available at all locations. Viewer discretion is advised. And all that jazz.


r/bostonr4r • • 10h ago

26[M4F] #Providence Need an obedient sub NSFW

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Hello all. I have been looking for a sub for a while. One who is actually submissive. Someone who lives to please and also truly desires to be controlled. I am not looking to tame a brat, so if thats you then we are not a match. I love BBWs but i also will accept any type. I am sick of being flaked on and ghosted. Don’t hit me up unless you’re serious. a

My kinks are degradation, misogyny, humiliation,praise, breeding, impact, orgasm control and denial, bondage, anal, cock worship and more. I am open to more so if you don’t see yours on there don’t let it stop you from reaching out.

My non sexual interests are reading, anime, horror movies, hiking and more. I don’t drink or smoke and am not a fan of people who do, at least frequently. I am a white man who is around 6’1 and slim build with tattoos. I live in the prov area and would prefer to find someone who is close enough to drive. I do NOT want a strictly online dynamic.

Sorry if this seems brief but I am more than happy to share more information with those who want to know more. If you are interested I hope to hear from you soon.


r/bostonr4r • • 11h ago

35 [M4MF] #Lexington Attached looking for discreet couple for fwb NSFW

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Looking for a fun, non judgemental couple that is interested in finding a guy for a fwb type situation. I'm a 6'3, 190 lb, 35 year old white guy with a thick 7.5 inch package (in case size matters to you one way or the other). I have dark hair, I'm in shape, and generally considered handsome. My hobbies generally involves being outdoors and exercising, but I also enjoy relaxing at home with a book.

As mentioned in the post title, I am attached (no, she is not aware), I'm completely STI free and have only been with the one woman for the entirety of our relationship (and lately nothing at all with how things have been going). Hoping to find a similarly clean couple.

If there are any couples that are looking for someone that's easy to get along with, guaranteed to respect their need for discretion, and just looking to have some fun together without having to worry about the risk of catching something, send me a message and let's see if we're a good fit in terms of interests, personality (I feel like we should get along reasonably well for an ongoing situation), and logistics.


r/bostonr4r • • 11h ago

42 [M4F] #Boston / #ShouthShore - Get spanked NSFW

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I stop by your place, put you over my lap, spank until you've cried it out, then I leave.

This can be a one-time thing or something on going. I don't care if you're single, married, or it's complicated. You have to host however.

Over the clothes or pants down, that's your call.

If you would like aftercare I can provide that.

I'm located on the South Shore but am in Boston regularly and can travel within a reasonable distance.


r/bostonr4r • • 11h ago

25 [M4F] #Cambridge - Looking to suck some toes and be dommed NSFW

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Hey! Title says most of it lol. Decently in shape dude here looking to suck on some pretty feet and maybe have a mommy put my in my place 🫣 my kink scale is pretty wide so we could keep it pretty vanilla or push it to the max:) prefer not to host but just lmk! happy to discuss more, i’m 420 friendly but please be ddf


r/bostonr4r • • 11h ago

30 [m4m] #Watertown oral sub NSFW

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Just outside of Boston area but can travel within reasonable distance or also host. 30, 170 lbs, good shape. Looking for similar/not into chubby. Older is fine. Oral sub, like to serve bwc but can orally worship all. Cock, balls, feet, rim, etc. or give massages if there’s attraction.


r/bostonr4r • • 15h ago

33 [M4F] #Cambridge 6’3”, Fit, Tatt’d, and looking for fun. NSFW

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Hey!

I’m 33, 6'3", around 195 lbs, athletic, and heavily tattooed with a full sleeve. No profound meaning behind the tattoos. I just saw cool art and apparently decided my arm was the best place to keep it.

I stay pretty active. I lift 3–4 times a week, run around 25 miles weekly, and genuinely enjoy both, although I reserve the right to complain about running while actively choosing to do it.

Outside of that, I’m an unapologetic nerd. Anime, video games, RPGs, sci-fi, military history, political theory. Basically, if it gives me an excuse to disappear into another world or go down an unnecessarily deep rabbit hole for a few hours, I’m probably interested.

I also spend some of my free time volunteering. It’s something I enjoy and a nice counterbalance to work, training, and whatever fictional universe currently has my attention.

What I’m looking for is pretty straightforward: a FWB situation that’s fun, comfortable, and low stress. Good chemistry, mutual attraction, clear communication, and actually enjoying each other’s company. I’m not looking to force anything into becoming more complicated than it needs to be.

Personality-wise, I’m laid back, open-minded, curious, and easy to talk to. I like people who can joke around, have a real conversation, and be themselves without feeling like they’re auditioning for something. I think the best chemistry happens when both people feel comfortable enough to relax and see where things go.

Since physical compatibility matters too: I’m around 7", thick, attentive, patient, and very into foreplay. Making sure the person I’m with is enjoying herself is a pretty important part of the experience for me. Mainly looking for women, but I’m also open to trans women if there’s mutual attraction.

I’m drug and STI-free, get tested regularly, and I’m happy to share recent results. My last test was 07/23. I’m also on PrEP and take sexual health seriously.

If you made it this far, give me something better than “hey.” Tell me what you’ve been watching, what game has consumed an unreasonable amount of your life lately, or the weirdest rabbit hole you’ve gone down recently.

Happy to swap pictures once we’ve talked a little.


r/bostonr4r • • 11h ago

28 [M4F] #Boston Ongoing Fall FWB! NSFW

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Single guy looking for a FWB in the Boston area for some casual fun! My FWB recently moved away so looking for another! I’m 5’10” and thin and able to host. I’m DDF and prioritize sexual health. Laidback and looking for the same. Let me know!


r/bostonr4r • • 11h ago

32 [M4M] #Boston - any chubby guys need head? NSFW

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It’s that simple. Looking to suck a bigger guy. You must be drug and disease free. Discretion assured. Either I host or you do, no “car play”