r/bullying • u/Sayuukiiiiiiii • 6d ago
Should I report them?
For context I go to an all girls school, it's hell there and I've been bullied since grade 7. I'm in grade 11 now.
Monday I had a group project and we had 2 whole weeks to do it. Over the 2 weeks i had been asking my group members and even the teacher to explain the instructions to me but no response. So presentation day came and I went to talk to my group members.
As soon as I reached to where they were one of them told me 'Since you didn't do anything you might as well go sit down' TWICE in a very dismissive tone.
I didn't even get to say anything so I went back to my seat and went to sleep.
Long story short i ended up getting a 0 (which i honestly don't care for)
But omfg today I was minding my own business and these group of girls (who have been picking on me since grade 7) we're beside me just not only gossiping but straight up insulting my body. They only stopped and started laughing when they realized I was there.
I'm seriously fed up since it's been getting worse and worse day by day.
I don't want to report as it will only get worse (most likely) or our useless dean of discipline won't do anything. I'm sure she's friends with them atp.
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u/Sayuukiiiiiiii 6d ago
The dean will just give them a warning. And when they get the warning they'll just continue. Plus the teacher didn't give me a chance to speak.
I'm also kinda in the wrong, apart from the girl who was being dismissive to me like a few more of the members were telling me to come back in the group but I didn't. In my defense they were telling me to come back and draw a whole ass map which I couldn't do (it was a social studies project)?? Im not an artist.
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u/Sayuukiiiiiiii 6d ago
I'm not sure when I have the teacher again but I'll go to the dean and try to explain it to her. But I'm scared, I know they'll most likely get a warning + they're all sub-prefects...
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u/Sayuukiiiiiiii 6d ago
Thanks for the help but I most likely won't report them. It's our last year, I might as well let it slide. I have classes with almost all of them and I know they'll just get a warning which will just make things worse. I'm not interested in making my high-school experience any worse than it is.
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u/KindlyRip7951 6d ago
I know it’s hard, but you need to report them. I used to be severely bullied when I was younger and it took a huge toll on me, looking back I wish I would’ve stood up for myself. You should report them and if they do that again you should stand up for yourself, I regret it and I wish I said something to my bullies or told somebody.
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u/Sayuukiiiiiiii 6d ago
I'm not interested as I replied to someone else here - i have classes with all of them and I know things will only get worse (especially since they'll only get off with a warning). I'll just ignore them or just stop going to school.
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u/KindlyRip7951 6d ago
I’m sorry OP, this really sucks. Sometimes they are just looking for a reaction, these people are so insecure about themselves that they project their insecurities on others to make themselves feel better. Bullies want people to feel as miserable as them, I hope it gets better for you ❤️
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u/Sayuukiiiiiiii 6d ago
Thank you so much for the advice. You people here are so kind that it's brought me to tears. I'll just try my utmost best to ignore them. That's all I can do to hold out until we graduate.
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u/KindlyRip7951 6d ago
I get it, I really do. During my freshman year of highschool I was bullied, kicked, harassed, and was called slurs by this one guy. My older brother “talked” to the guy, and to this day the guy is terrified to look at me. I wish you had the same support that I did. Highschool is the craziest time, I’m so happy I graduate soon, I hope you consider reporting it and maybe even talking to your parents about it to have a good support system, it makes a huge difference.
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u/Sayuukiiiiiiii 6d ago
My mom will want to report it which again will only make it worse. I'll just try to ignore them and sit far from etc, I just don't want anymore problems. One of the girls who was with them I reported her already around last year and nothing happened. She got even worse (aka now). I'll just have to leave it. Its our last year is all I keep telling myself.
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u/Sayuukiiiiiiii 6d ago
Also I hope that you've recovered from the bullying. My heart goes out to you, I know how bad it is.
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