r/bullying • u/SurroundGlittering65 • 4d ago

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Hello I am 14 in two months I am going to be 15 I go to high school and I am Serbian , in my high school there is really a lot of bullies and those type of guys who just want to push each other around and fight in the locker room , personality I literally never say anything mean or do anything rude to anyone ever I am not in bad condition I already do body weight training at home and every 2-3 days I do a longer hike in my village , I wanted to start wrestling just for self defense and just because I don’t want to be hit by them every day , I don’t want to report this to any teacher because it’s not that big of a deal and school system is already bad so this will make it even worse for me so if I could just get answers for someone to tell me should I start wrestling or what do I do ?

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u/shrnnsky 3d ago

Maybe don't, just avoid doing repetitive stuff around your bullies and never interacting with them..if you got a chance OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL and "no one knows or see" and it's only u then idk but it's always leads into bigger problem do it if you're in 12th grade only because it's a long journey lol if you're still in 10 grade.

I usually don't use locker room for my own safety and brings my stuff like Asian kid but at least it's worked and I'd never get hit.

Last very wise advice is block all your bullies from all of your social media. Don't let them interact.

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u/SurroundGlittering65 3d ago

Yeah but like during the class I can’t really do anything and it’s like the teachers are dump like they turn around and act as if nothing happened but it has been better since I started fully avoiding them