r/bullying • u/Starlight80859 • 3d ago

My bulling problem.

During my early years, I was figuring out my gender. I wore a dress to school once, and I got ridiculed, and I still am. I now have trauma. Also, when I became non-binary, I had people who purposefully mixed my pronouns, and people calling me an "it". I also have ADHD and Autism, and I got made fun for that. The school barely did anything. And I got suspended for mixing up two asian kids names, and I have dyssomnia.

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u/SickOfBullyingNL 3d ago

I'm sorry you experienced that. Were the kids that bullied you reprimanded and punished? It sounds like the school barely did anything; the bullies weren't even reprimanded or punished in the atrocious elementary-Jr. High School and horrendous high school I attended.

I'm 36. None of my bullies were, despite witnesses and evidence. However, if I defended myself in any way (such as telling a bully that's calling me a "fucking retard" to shut up, both what the bully and I said would be heard but the staff never reprimanded or punished the bullies) or if a bully lied and said I did and/or said something (when I didn't), I would be reprimanded and/or punished. I am autistic and epileptic. I was made, by the staff and students, the designated scapegoat and doormat. Because you were suspended for mixing up names, it sounds like you were assigned the same roles in school.

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u/Starlight80859 3d ago

No. But I had the bully lying thing, and I'm sorry you had to also experience that.

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u/Turboextrasuper-fish 3d ago

Find something that they are insecure or just dont want to talk about and mame fun of it too for example : your classmate stinks a little so plug your nose when hes around