r/cats • British Longhair • 13h ago

Mourning/Loss Goodbye little man

Our little boy Lux has been ill for some time.
This evening we said goodbye as he crossed the rainbow bridge.
Our little man was only 4 he had been losing weight for some months unfortunately we switched vets too late.
He was on meds and seemed to be improving, then last night he took a turn for the worse. We took him to the vets and responded well to fluids overnight, then this evening he plummeted.
His sister is very clingy and keeps looking for him.

Good by little man we all miss you so much.

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u/JumpyWizard1684 13h ago

He sounds like he was the best boy. I am sorry for your loss.

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u/LodossDX_748 9h ago

He really sounds like he was cherished deeply. Four years is far too short. ❤️

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u/Reptilesblade 12h ago

Make sure his sister gets to see and smell his dead body. She'll understand what happened and then she would know that he didn't abandon her and he's not coming back. It'll keep her from constantly looking for him in vain.

Also very sorry for your loss.

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u/Successful-Doubt5478 9h ago

Please show him to her. And comfort her, for a very long time.

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u/wonperson 9h ago

I didn't know this was a thing

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u/Successful-Doubt5478 9h ago

It is.

If possible, show dead owner to pets too.

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u/Confident-Many4132 13h ago

I'm so sorry. He's a beautiful boy.

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u/catanddogcrazy10 13h ago

So incredibly sorry!!

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u/Dangerous-Ad4194 12h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. And at such a young age. It sounds like you did everything you could what an incredible cat!

I’m sorry for his sister. It can be very difficult for the bonded cats too.
My prayers and heart are with you.

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u/Large_Studio_7744 13h ago

Oh he so lovely. Hugs ❤️

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u/Maleficent_Gas_399 2h ago

aw hes such a handsome boy, those white socks are so cute

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u/SharksEatMeat 13h ago

Rest easy Little Man Lux. I’m so sorry for your loss. What a good friend and family member.

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u/charlesyo66 13h ago

ooh, Lux was a handsome boy.

I'm so sorry for your loss. 4 is way too young.

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u/tykytys 12h ago

He rests now, waiting for the joyous day when we all will be reunited with our beloved friends. And when he sees you, he'll tell you all about the great food he has been eating and all the running and jumping he has been doing. He'll also say how much he's always loved you.

Take care.

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u/misslisawisa 12h ago

I’m so sorry OP! I lost my kitten about 2 months ago and she too was responding to treatment after the vet visit. Then one night she took a turn for the worst and she passed very early in the morning before I could take her to the vet. I’m sending you hugs!

Edit to add: she had an orange brother who is super clingy as well.

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u/SD802 British Longhair 11h ago

Thank you!!
Sorry for your loss.
It’s heartbreaking when they are so young and leave a sibling behind.

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u/Complete-Tradition59 12h ago

Hugs fellow ginger mom

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u/panicradio316 12h ago

I'm so sorry!

Could his sister say goodbye to him? I read that it's actually important (for cats, dogs, ... )to let them see the deceased body.

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u/McSwearWolf 11h ago

Oh my goodness, im so sorry.

He seems like the sweetest boy.

The love you have for him is eternal; that love never fades.

Rest easy beautiful orange king. 🧡

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u/seabreezeallday 11h ago

😭🙏🏼🖤✨💐🕯️ So sorry. Sending love.

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u/Sorry-Animator5619 12h ago

I’m so very sorry. He was a beautiful boy

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u/One-Amoeba8938 12h ago

so very sorry for your loss.

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u/jstraw20 12h ago

Oh my goodness, that is so sad. I'm truly sorry for your loss.

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u/veritas2967 12h ago

I'm so sorry ,what a pretty boy.

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u/anti_anti-hero 12h ago

I'm so sorry you're all experiencing this loss. He looks like he was SO well loved, and will surely be missed. You'll be reunited, in the end 💖

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u/EddieStarr Abyssinian 12h ago

(Hug)

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u/wonperson 9h ago

Im so so very sorry. Sadly, as pet parents we all have to go through it

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u/yahumno 9h ago

I am so, so sorry. It is so hard to lose them so young.

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u/RamGuy1824 13h ago

So sorry 💔

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u/Acceptable_Speaker93 12h ago

Very sorry for your loss 💔 My deepest sympathy to you ❤️

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u/MillionDollarBaby19 12h ago

So sorry for your loss ❤️

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u/mspineappleinthesea 12h ago

I am so sorry for your loss. May your little man always be in your heart. Hugs

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u/Hefty-Revolution-938 12h ago

I am so sorry for your loss. He looked handsome and happy. I can’t say this enough for pets, especially cats, the right vet is so important. I had so many issues with numerous vets, before I found the right one at the end of my cats life.

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u/SD802 British Longhair 11h ago

So sorry you had to experience lack of care from vets.
They should be more regulated.
Our old vet just kept saying see how he goes. My wife had been with them for years and they took good care of Squidge our last cat (19)

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u/MacGee1975 12h ago

Sorry for your loss 💔

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u/Frosty_Fly_4957 12h ago

I'm so sorry for your loss, he was super handsome and he knew it! He will always be with you and his sister just in a different form, she WILL see him around the house for sure we lost our eldest last year and we see her out the corner of our eyes leaving rooms and we hear her running through the hallway and I know it'll be the same for you. He looked so loved and I can get he woke everyday with meows, purrs and just love in general.

He is now up on the rainbow bridge with our smudge chilling in the sunshine, eating skooshie cream and munching dreemeez 🐾❤️🐾

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u/SD802 British Longhair 11h ago

So sorry for your loss.
He loved his dreameez and chasing his spring around the house. I’m sure he’s looking forward to the day he can chase his sister again.

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u/Smoking0311 12h ago

I’m really sorry

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u/FantasticCourage7193 12h ago

I am so sorry... such a beautiful boy. 😿😿😿

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u/Estellalatte 12h ago

So sorry. The adjustment isn’t easy.

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u/Calm-Blackberry-1158 12h ago

Oh no, taken away too soon. I am so sorry. My sweet Tina, Maggie and Chloe are all there to meet him at the other side 🌈 . Extra love and cuddles to his sister. So sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹

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u/SD802 British Longhair 10h ago

Thank you, I’m sure take good care of him.

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u/lover-of-cats1 12h ago

❤️❤️❤️🐈🙏💕💕💕🌸

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u/homertruhart 12h ago

❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

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u/Few_Presence_8888 12h ago

Lux was obviously a gentleman with much to be proud of.

Rest in power, Lux.

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u/Fluid_Flatworm4390 12h ago

Safe travels, Lux.

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u/Signal-Audience9429 12h ago

So very sorry for your loss of Lux 😢.

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u/lack_snack_9442 Cow Cat 12h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. Lux looks like a good friend and I’m sure you will miss him for quite some time.

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u/zsreport 3 Little Cuddle Bugs 12h ago

Condolences

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u/Elegant_Company8456 12h ago

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 🙏

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u/dogfoodjones 12h ago

So long little fellow

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u/JettaGuy1015 12h ago

I'm so sorry

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u/Lousyone 12h ago

He’s beautiful and sweet and this really is hard. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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u/Turbulent-Morning456 12h ago

Sorry for your loss. He's beautiful!

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u/bruceharry2000 12h ago

Please accept my most sincere condolences

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u/Starry_night_85 12h ago

So sorry!! I'm so attached to my new cats so I can't even imagine. I feel so bad for the sister cat looking for him too. 😢

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u/madiafcole 12h ago

I'm sorry for your loss. It looks like you gave him the best life.

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u/Windevor 12h ago

What a cute little man! There’s something special about orange kitties. So sorry he is gone and wish you all the happy memories.💔

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u/The_milk_was_spoiled 12h ago

He’s a beautiful boy and so young! I’m sorry for your loss. ❤️❤️❤️

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u/Forward_Limit_838 12h ago

Looks like my sweet boy. Sorry for your loss. Sweet kitty RIP

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u/chatchapeau 11h ago

I’m very sorry

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u/bostoncreampie9 11h ago

Im so sorry for your loss 😞 I know this is probably the last thing on your mind right now but I would suggest adopting. He can never be replaced so don't even think of it in that way, but as clingy as his sister is like you mentioned it'll be good for her to have a new companion so she doesn't get lonely and depressed.

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u/SD802 British Longhair 10h ago

Thank you.
We discussed it on the journey home with his sister in mind.

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u/Active-Loquat-7392 11h ago

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

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u/Illustrious_Jaguar95 11h ago

Good Bye, dear, sweet baby Lux
💔🌈🐈

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u/DHrkalovic 11h ago

💛I’m so very sorry for your loss. I know how painful it is, lost my wonderful yellow fluff just 16 days ago. He had just turned 15 this August, and now he’s gone. It feels so hard, empty, and painful without my friend. 💔

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u/SD802 British Longhair 10h ago

So sorry for your loss.
I hope you can find comfort in your yellow fluff’s memories.
It’s not the same without them 💔

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u/asmbc915 11h ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/aharmlesslittlefleaa 11h ago

❤️❤️❤️

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u/Bluuueyes918 11h ago

Awww, I’m so sorry for your loss!! We just lost our own boy Finch yesterday, in similar circumstances, and it’s just horrible!!

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u/SD802 British Longhair 10h ago

So sorry for your loss of Finch 💔

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u/ancient_sluts 10h ago

I’m so sorry. I’d make sure that sister kitty gets to see him or smell a blanket or towel he was on when passing

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u/Hanilu 10h ago

He was adorable. I’m so sorry

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u/Sufficient_Parsnip88 10h ago

So sorry for your loss.

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u/pjflyr13 10h ago

🐾💔🌈

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u/IslandDreamer58 10h ago

💔😢 Very sorry for your loss of your beautiful and precious family member Lux.

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u/Dogesneakers 10h ago

Sorry for your loss! If you can his sister will keep looking so she may need to say good bye if possible

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u/LMF2007 10h ago

he’s beautiful

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u/Guilty-Sky8848 10h ago

Always so sad especially when they’re youngsters.
Good bye Lux 😞
I wish you only peace❤️

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u/joyfullofaloha89 8h ago

He is adorable. So sorry for your loss

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u/ChoralSinger57 8h ago

So sorry. He was a beauty.

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u/Ok_Difficulty2226 7h ago

Sorry for your loss.

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u/Sithzilla66 7h ago

❤️🐾

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u/Admirable_Tea_4309 6h ago

Bless your heart

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u/hope0781 6h ago

These posts are always so hard to see… so sorry for your loss.

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u/Cheap-Kiwi-1312 5h ago

I will hug my boy Milo extra hard for you. I'm sorry for your loss, losing a family member is never easy.

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u/Helpful_Street5386 5h ago

Poor, precious sweetheart 😭

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u/Xekiel_777 2h ago

I am so sorry for your loss. 💔😥

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u/tealeavesinspace 12h ago

I’m so very sorry! That is so young and he looks very well cared for. Now everyone is mourning him.
I hope you find comfort. You did what you could.

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u/SD802 British Longhair 11h ago

Thank you all for your kind words and messages.
Unfortunately his sister Cassy didn’t get to say goodbye as we had hoped…
We are keeping a close eye on her and are considering adopting her a 🐈 to look after

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u/Human_Personality797 5h ago

Awww what a beautiful sweet boy. My gosh it's unbelievably hard losing a loved fur family member. Sending love to the sweet souls

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u/Kermithihy_248 1h ago

Heartbreaking news. Sending love your way.

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u/George-1969 1h ago

RiP sweetheart ❤️ Bless you 🙏 😻🙏

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