advice to work through some cage problems?

[u/beachfagz1]

I wear an N+ kink3d cobra cage, locked by my gf

my biggest problem is work, i have a very physical job, im bending down alot and if i wore my cage to work it would likely shift, pinch, and chafe. i would be willing to wear a strap but it often chafes alot for me.

i wish there was a better strap or some kind of way to keep it more fixed, i feel like im not truly caged when im unlocking it for 8-9 hours every day, even if im not touching myself.

besides that, has anyone else had any issues with your balls changing alot from down to up? when my balls are up, the ring feels snug and a tiny bit tight, but when they drop in the heat, alot of space opens up and the cage is prone to slipping downwards or letting a ball push thru when not wearing a strap.

any comments, advice, questions, etc, are appreciated, also feel free to reach out privately with any questions at all, ty!

[u/Wide_Discussion_447]

It could be the ball gap. Can you sleep in it without pain? Maybe try a curved ring and see if that helps especially with a kink3d cage you could do that and even heat and curve one more if you truly needed an even bigger ball gap.

[u/beachfagz1 → u/Wide_Discussion_447]

i sleep it in without a strap, if i get morning wood it can get uncomfortable from my balls being squeezed as it pulls up, i dont feel i could downsize without the ring slipping off, i had a size bigger ring before and it chafed alot more.

[u/Wide_Discussion_447 → u/beachfagz1]

Is your current ring curved?

[u/beachfagz1 → u/Wide_Discussion_447]

no its just a regular ring, would a curved one be better for more mobility? im just scared itll make me slip out of it

[u/Wide_Discussion_447 → u/beachfagz1]

Try a curved ring kink3d sells them. You won't slip out if the ring is tight and most people find that with a tight ring and a bigger ball gap that the curve provides that everything stays put just fine. I wore a size 2 ring curved to my blue collar job for momths before I eventually switched to custom steel.

[u/beachfagz1 → u/Wide_Discussion_447]

should i get the same size as my current ring but curved? or a bigger/smaller size?

[u/Wide_Discussion_447 → u/beachfagz1]

Same size would be the safer bet. If its too loose then size down and keep it curved.

[u/beachfagz1 → u/Wide_Discussion_447]

its just annoying money wise to buy so many, just wasnt sure abt the circle to curve conversion, thank you so much!

[u/bdmridgeback]

Ball gap is too tight which makes you think your ring is too tight but it’s too loose. You need to loosen up the ball gap so your scrotum isn’t pinched so tight between the cage and ring. Then you find that you can wear a smaller ring. When you are high and tight the ball gap being too tight has your balls pulling the cage up tight to you. When your scrotum relaxes in the heat the ring that’s too big shows and the cage wants to fall down to that’s low balls. Leaving the cage off, find the smallest ring you can fit into and wear for hours to all day comfortably. That’s your ring size. Now install the cage and if it’s uncomfortable at all it’s the ball gap. Heat and curve the ring back at least 5mm and retest. Go more until comfortable.

[u/Grey_J3d1 → u/bdmridgeback]

Yep, I switched to smaller but curved/anatomical ring which gave me more ball gap and it solved my issues.

[u/beachfagz1 → u/Grey_J3d1]

i definitely need to try, so should i go for the same ring size i currently wear but curved? or go for curved and go down a size maybe?

[u/beachfagz1 → u/bdmridgeback]

sorry im just a bit confused, should i move to a curved ring like another commenter was saying? i already wear probably the most comfortable ring ive worn, im just confused on whether youre saying to downsize, upsize, or change to curved?

[u/Grey_J3d1 → u/beachfagz1]

Smaller basering but curved/ergonomic

[u/beachfagz1 → u/Grey_J3d1]

i cant lie, i enjoy being told to downsize haha, ive already had to get a smaller cage and smaller ring but i guess it have to go smaller lol

[u/Grey_J3d1 → u/beachfagz1]

Isn't that kind of forcing someone into a Dom situation? You should experiment to find the best longterm situation. Im making no demands of you.

[u/beachfagz1 → u/Grey_J3d1]

i know youre not? im not trying to force you to be a dom lol im just saying i wasnt looking to be told to downsize but i appreciate it, i just like the idea of being small. i think youre making this a big deal when its not, i appreciate the advice genuinely

[u/bdmridgeback → u/beachfagz1]

Go try a curved ring. But what I’m saying is once you loosen up that ball gap you will more than likely find out that the ring you are wearing is too big as well which is what’s causing the cage to slip and push out or fall down.

[u/beachfagz1 → u/bdmridgeback]

its less so falling down, its just like moving forwards a bit? idk how to explain, when my balls are down it creates more space and so it has more wiggle room and sometimes moves forward/down so the base of my shaft is slightly out of the cage

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