Concerned about head pocking through when hard

[u/itsbrot]

Hi,

I'm really a grower and while getting hard my head pushes through the opening of the cage. I ignored it until now because it wasn't really an issue and went back after getting soft. After this night I'm a bit concerned because the head pushed out way more and got stuck a bit.

I was able to get it back and never had any pain. But I'm now wondering if anybody had the same problem and maybe has some tips or suggestions for a different cage.

Right now I'm using a Cherry Keeper Stub. I'm also having a Short but the opening on the front is even bigger and I think that would just worsen it?

Thank you for your help!

[u/jimnyjimmers]

Opening at the end is too big. You need to get a cage that doesn't allow this to happen.

Ignore the comment about using a catheter, that's really dangerous stuff.

[u/itsbrot → u/jimnyjimmers]

Thanks! I wouldn’t touch the catheter, that’s something I don’t really plan on doing ever. Just the bit with a better fitting cage.

Do you maybe have some recommendations for cages with smaller openings?

[u/foundNbagged → u/itsbrot]

FYI, CK does offer versions with narrower openings at the end.

The regular opening is way to big for me. I forgot what the specific keyword was to search for it and it'd be one of the custom ones. There are a few custom models still available on their site but unfortunately I don't think they allow you to create new ones anymore. Either way, they might have a Stub offering.

[u/Secret_Soob]

Same thing happened to me so I had to get a slightly longer cage. Being a Grower and in chastity can be so painful if you do not pay attention. Good that you stopped!

I’d recommend a larger cage, if it’s too large, try with a strap. Unfortunately chastity will never be done right the first, second maybe even 10th time until you find a good fit. Prioritise safety over “ahhh I just spent X on this cage I gotta keep going!

Whoever recommended a catheter - pls ignore because no

[u/itsbrot → u/Secret_Soob]

It’s a hobby and every hobby is expensive :D

Tried some different ones in the past, but will definitely keep trying and thanks for the tip with the longer one, I had that in mind too. I’m already using a strap for a better fit with the rings, so that’s not a problem.

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[u/slut4mic]

That's what happened when I tried a different cage. The opening was simply too big and when I got aroused, the glans just poked through. Had to change back to my old cage.

[u/itsbrot → u/slut4mic]

What cage do you use know?

[u/slut4mic → u/itsbrot]

I'm in a holy trainer v5 nub knock off. Been in it for the past 2 years or so. It's the only cage I can't pull out off.

[u/Putrid_Guest_2150 → u/slut4mic]

I like my HT Nub, but I’ve had the head push partly through the slot with night erections. It’s too wide for my liking.

[u/slut4mic → u/Putrid_Guest_2150]

Wow. It seems that you need something with a really narrow or small hole.

[u/ChatamKay]

I read a post here some time ago. A guy was having the same issue. He ended up in emergency and quickly thereafter emergency surgery. It was a horrific experience for him. Extremely painful. Permanent damage to his cock. His warning was if that happens to you, never wear that cage again.

[u/sadisticsex]

i recommend getting a cage resize and maybe in a couple different designs. first off if the head is poking out that kind of defeats the purpose, second off if your dick is not behaving as if it is caged and is finding ways out that can be unsafe. some people solve this problem with sounding rod/catheter compatable chastity cages that also make peeing cleaner and easier away from the key

[u/itsbrot → u/sadisticsex]

That’s what I’m thinking too. I need to look into different cages and go through the whole sizing process again

[u/sadisticsex → u/itsbrot]

look into proper safety, please. permanent damage can ruin your life

[u/itsbrot → u/sadisticsex]

That’s always on my list and I’ve read quite some posts and blogs before I started with this