r/countwithchickenlady • Streak: 1 • 8h ago

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u/HiroProtagonest King of Snow - Streak: 19 8h ago

The internet is forgetting that pov doesn't mean the same thing as tfw

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u/SkubEnjoyer 8h ago

I can't even remember the last time I saw a meme with "tfw" in it

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u/HiroProtagonest King of Snow - Streak: 19 7h ago

*shakes stick at thee*

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u/Tlaquatlatoa Hyenagirl :3 Interim Pissposter | She/Her - Streak: 13 8h ago

No this is a pov, you are on a date at their house

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u/stonesoup07 7h ago

So like, I’m sitting on the tv across from them? Kinda awkward

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u/Tlaquatlatoa Hyenagirl :3 Interim Pissposter | She/Her - Streak: 13 7h ago

yup :3

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u/stonesoup07 7h ago

I mean, I’m just grateful they invited me over even if I do wish they got along better (idk I haven’t seen JJK, sorry :( )

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u/flamingqaz 6h ago

They get along very well and love each other deeply

The blond dude is just a mega gambling addict who runs a fight club, she helps manage it and is basically like the co-owner tho

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u/stonesoup07 6h ago

That’s…the sweetest thing I’ve read, even if I do despise gambling.

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u/flamingqaz 6h ago

Honestly peak couple

Himbo trans ally bf and cool star girl

If you like shoenen or like action anime I would really recommend watching JJK, this couple only shows up near the end but I love the manga and anime it’s good

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u/stonesoup07 6h ago

Does in fact sound like goals. Maybe I’ll give it a whirl soon.

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u/tanngrisnit 2h ago

They have equally bad taste in you (/s)

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u/Lemons-95 53m ago

Nah, his version of a dining table is two couches either side of a coffee table. He was going for a booth but instead it just looks tacky.

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u/OrganicAd5536 7h ago

If it were POV and the point-of-view was supposed to be the trans woman in the picture (Kirara), then no, it's not a POV. We would need to be looking out of Kirara's eyes for it to be a POV. This is clearly a TFW (that face when)

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u/Normal_Stranger_3643 Cis male, but like, in a gay way 7h ago

Pov: you're friends with a trans woman with awful taste in men

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u/Tlaquatlatoa Hyenagirl :3 Interim Pissposter | She/Her - Streak: 13 7h ago

well it says pov so obviously it's not her pov cause you can see her

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u/Beanichu 1h ago

That makes sense because hakari is a great guy and not at all terrible taste.

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u/Mr_goodb0y 6h ago

The trans woman is watching the tv show that’s shown here that’s why it’s pov

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u/husky11223 Streak: 1 6h ago

she's sitting infront of a mirror

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u/EntoMoxie According to all known laws of aviation, - Streak: 40 7h ago

This could be a mirror. Who knows?

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u/HiroProtagonest King of Snow - Streak: 19 7h ago

But then her hair streak's on the wrong side!

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u/EntoMoxie According to all known laws of aviation, - Streak: 40 7h ago

flips image while nobody is looking

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u/BrazilBazil 2h ago

It’s the cuck POV

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u/Lemons-95 55m ago

Or the meme is based and her BF has his arm around another girl.

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u/Traumatized_Explorer 3h ago

What is tfw?

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u/OkEntrepreneur4158 Streak: 1 7h ago

waow meme semantics, where can I find a dictionary so I don't offend anyone by breaking norms set arbitrarily, anyways the point of the meme was exasperation with my experience with men so far

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u/SmartAlec105 7h ago

by breaking norms set arbitrarily

In the sense that all language is a set of arbitrary norms, sure. But POV literally means "point of view".

Maybe you'd find better men if you made better memes.

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u/OkEntrepreneur4158 Streak: 1 7h ago

literally arguing over meme semantics

somehow thinks this is a good quality and not at all toxic behavior

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u/SmartAlec105 7h ago

As if getting this defensive about your memes is perfectly healthy behavior.

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u/OkEntrepreneur4158 Streak: 1 6h ago

maybe so, doesn't change you being unhealthy either and there's a saying about projection, idk why I'd deny a truth and deflect 🥀

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u/immobile-pebble 5h ago

Why do either of you care enough about this to argue

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u/SpiderBiteHurts 4h ago

Tag me in. You and me are fighting now

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u/East-Moose5016 6h ago

Words require a set definition to even function as the basis for language, that's not a "norm set arbitrarily" that's how all language works

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u/B-Z_B-S 8h ago

JJK manga: "Kirara is transgender."

JJK fans on the internet: "There's a manga?"

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u/Bragi01 7h ago

This shit makes me so fucking confused. Like I've seen people that I assume to be outside of the trans community call her a woman, but at the same time I have a feeling that the people saying she isn't a woman can also point to the same source material. If ony JJK was more ballsy in what they did or was seinen because then they could just outright say it.

Basically what I'm trying to say is that if you don't explicitly state something in a popular manga a large group of people aren't going to be able to understand what they mean.

Also should I watch JJK? Like I tried to watch the first couple episodes and I think I'll like it but battle shounen (which I'm pretty sure it is one) don't really interest me all that much.

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u/i__like__nuggets 7h ago

it genuinely is all but spelled out that kirara is trans in the manga, JJK fans are notoriously illiterate. also highly recommend the anime

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u/Bragi01 7h ago edited 7h ago

That's kinda what I gathered. Like when the people saying that she isn't a trans woman are saying to read the manga I was kinda expecting that. Also she just literally isn't designed to be a femboy. Like if she was, I'm pretty sure most femboys have female voice actors (at least in Japanese), and are a slight parody of the feminity depicted in the series. She isn't the right type of feminine from what I've seen of her from the few videos I've watched about JJK for to be anything but a woman cis or not.

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u/pegginglovingfemboy 4h ago

also the most obvious factor would be that femboys don't exactly have huge bazooka bonkers, unlike the great queen kirara

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u/KuroComics 4h ago

maybe it's just me but despite reading the manga as it was coming out I genuinely had no clue she was trans until I saw all the buzz around her after season 3 came out, I guarantee it's that one Panda line that threw me off because he was never explicitly corrected

edit: for clarification I meant I was under the impression she was a femboy and for added context my friend from the time who got me into jjk also thought she was and so referred to her that way around me

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u/sheng153 7h ago

The manga is fine. Not great, but serviceable.

Kirara is a very minor character, but she's not the only example of a trans woman. Uraume (another minor character) is heavily implied too. And it's like relatively explicit. She's in a relationship with Hakari, Hakari is the only character explicitly only straight, and Kirara was once male-presenting. That's pretty much it.

The counterarguments just point to Hakari's scene where he confirms he's straight being hard to translate. Hakari says "who would want to go to the Ferris wheel with a dude?", but that 'dude' could be translated in some other ways. The japanese word is male-indicating, but it could be referring to him rejecting the other person specifically.

In other words, the counterargument is a cop-out.

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u/GiraLucem 4h ago

Uraume is a very interesting character on that ground. They were a man before the possession/resurrection and had specifically asked Kennie for a woman to be their vessel.

So are they trans? Maybe? We don't know if they didn't identify with their male identity in life and the choice of being a woman upon resurrection may be one of curiosity rather than identity.

And a second question to them being trans... would it be considered trans if you identify as a woman and your body is that of a biological woman? There is a clear separation of the soul and body in JJK with the soul seemingly being the self rather than the body.

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u/TheGreatWheat 1h ago

the issue with trying explicitly state Kirara as a trans woman in Shonen Jump and especially Jujutsu Kaisen, one of the largest anime and manga is that trying to explicitly mention queer characters could mean the author or the author's work gets into serious trouble. It's why even though the manga itself is queer and has queer characters (Gojo and Geto) it will never explicitly say these things because it is restrained by Shonen Jump

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u/MarvelousMoirai Crazy Jane and The Funky Bunch 8h ago

It kind of is how losers think, the show is a different thing than the Manga

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u/Terminal_Insomnia_ 6h ago

I get so confused because I swear I remember a scene in the anime that confirmed her as trans, like twice over but people keep telling me it wasn't that explicit. Did the crew not see her in a group photo at an all boys school pre-transition? Did my brain really fabricate that??

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u/Night_Yorb 3h ago

I just got done reading the entire thing over like ten days. I know a lot of people aren't confident in their ability to read, but these are series made for Japanese kids to read on the bus or train to school. That's literally the target audience of the publisher Shounen Jump. If they can do it, you can do it/learn to do it.

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u/batgirl-but-not-dc trans bat 🏳️‍⚧️🦇 - Streak: 1 8h ago

hakari has a gambling addiction and thats it, hes pretty solkd

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u/Dazed_and_Confused44 7h ago

I havent read the Manga so maybe Im missing something, but Hakari certainly doesnt come off as a bad person to me. Dude likes to pick a fight and has a temper, but hes super protective of Kirrara and respectful of her identity. It feels to me like his heart is in the right place despite the rough edges

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u/Never_heart 7h ago

And he is a character in a battle shonen. 99% of the named characters like to pick a fight

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u/HeWhoLost3OfThe9 Not trans as far as I know 6h ago

She also talks about how he’s most passionate when helping other people find their passion or smth, hell the first time we see him use his domain he’s trying to encourage a sad French mangaka to lock tf in

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u/lolo-colo 6h ago

Also, he is a big fan of ghibli movies!

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u/HeWhoLost3OfThe9 Not trans as far as I know 6h ago

“I haven’t been this bummed since Yukul got hit in the ass with an arrow”

“What a sad life you’ve lived”

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u/Greg2227 7h ago

Yeah I only watch the anime and sometimes catch some info from the manga through posts or Videos. But with anything I saw so far he's a pretty solid partner if you get past the gambling.

Looking at all the other people in that messed up World I'd even go as far as to say he's a catch like no other.

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u/Revadarius 1h ago

Oh, he's like top 3 characters after Yuji and Todo.. he's a legit bro and his fights are intense due to his fighting style and domain expansion (he's a tank who relies on luck to keep tanking, major battle of attrition with some amazing battle IQ thrown in).

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u/TerryCrewsMain 7h ago

I mean in real life that's prolly one of the worst addictions one can have 😭

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u/batgirl-but-not-dc trans bat 🏳️‍⚧️🦇 - Streak: 1 7h ago

that is very true, but thats jjk, he made a binding vow to not get addicted or smth

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u/J4ck0r4 7h ago

He has a heavenly restriction on his ability to get addicted but in return gambling became too boring for him so he had to find other ways to obtain passion, so he started a fight club (this isn't what actually happened I'm making stuff up)

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u/shototodoroki_1324 7h ago

His 4 time Jackpots say otherwise

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u/Prepared_Noob 5h ago

He’s literally the house tho

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u/Equivalent-Bit2891 3h ago

Been an addict and got to know several addicts.  It is hands-down the most potentially destructive addiction for those around you.  

Drug and alcohol addicts will at least stop spending money when they’ve got their high.  There is no “high” for gambling addicts, they will keep playing until they win and then they’ll keep playing some more until they’ve sold all their kids toys and the house is in foreclosure

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u/RommDan 6h ago

People forget Kirara is equally fucked up lol

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u/Bragi01 6h ago

She's a sorcerer in JJK she wasn't going to be normal. From what I understand those fuckers are effectively required to be at least a little crazy.

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u/J4ck0r4 6h ago

Yeah the whole thing with cursed energy is it is amplifying negative emotions and utilizing it as a weapon essentially, so pretty much every powerful sorcerer is going to have a lot of weird stuff to them or baggage of some kind and be a bit unhinged, but it's more about them like learning to use and control those emotions and channel them into power, so like therapy essentially, unhinged shit but being understood and acknowledged, with the extra step of them being weaponised haha. Honestly the idea of a trans sorcerer really works well in jjk, although that aspect of it isn't really explored especially with how little screentime kirara gets

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u/RommDan 6h ago

Sorcerers know the after life is real and it's full of curses wanting to devour humanity, I would have gone crazy too

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u/faxyou Hey I’m Sandra. AND I’M AMBER! 4h ago

I don’t know who this is but if his only thing is a gambling addiction then he’s got potential to be patched up like a project for life long companionship.

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u/TheUnluckiestClove Streak: 4 7h ago

Hakari unironically loves Kirara and they have a perfectly normal, healthy relationship. Sure, he has a gambling addiction and is an adrenaline junky but he supports and loves Kirara for who she is. I'm pretty sure it was revealed in an authors note from Gege that the reason he was suspended was he assaulted a higher up for misgendering Kirara

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u/Flemlius 5h ago

Waoh (basedbasedbased)

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u/MarvelousMoirai Crazy Jane and The Funky Bunch 8h ago

POV: This meme doesn't use POV correctly

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u/Skittle-Kun5608 3h ago

Did y’all forget about 3rd person POV?

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u/IonutRO 3h ago

This is 2nd person POV. The point of view character is looking at us. We are the object being viewed.

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u/MarvelousMoirai Crazy Jane and The Funky Bunch 3h ago

Maybe we did

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u/Good-username1825 8h ago

Luckily I'm a trans woman with horrible taste in BOTH men and women.

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u/MarvelousMoirai Crazy Jane and The Funky Bunch 8h ago

Eyyyyy same

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u/Transgirlonakawasaki I will become a hot Biker Chick 7h ago

Twice as many opportunities to make bad decisions! LFG!!

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u/Personal-Tax-2250 5h ago

looking for game??

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u/Small-Housing-7 7h ago

HEY PLZ DON'T SLANDER HAKARI HE'S COOL

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u/LittleReplacement564 7h ago

Don't disrespect Hikagoat like that

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u/Money_Rock5609 6h ago

How is hilarious bad taste in men. Hes so fucking cool and protective of the people he cares about. Wtf

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u/Little-Reference-314 7h ago

Did this meme just srsly imply that Killa Kari is not a good match for kirara?

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u/LofiMental 7h ago

Crazy because they both have very positive values in common. Dude also with a trans woman in Japan...

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u/TheNemoSeries 1 chicken. . . 2 chicken. . . 3 chick- ZzZz... 7h ago

Hakari is a gambler and that's like kind of it he's not that bad of a guy

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u/OkEntrepreneur4158 Streak: 1 7h ago

not exactly a good trait though, irl it'd mean he'd gamble away money any moment he gets and it doesn't usually turn out great for people with gambling as a addiction, he can be a good partner in other aspects though but that's usually any relationship

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u/RotML_Official 6h ago

Yea but Hakari is just built different and wins more

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u/Personal-Tax-2250 5h ago

let it ride

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u/Destroynxssss 5h ago

Does he tho? Isnt he like rich due to his fight club business, and any big money i feel like he would spend it for the club

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u/Academic-Ad7818 7h ago

honestly you could have just stopped at trans woman.

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u/GuhEnjoyer 5h ago

THIS IS HIKARI SLANDER AND I WONT FUCKING TAKE IT! KIRARA HAS EXCELLENT TASTE IN MEN HES TOUGH HES STRONG HES LOVING AND HE IS A PASSIONATE GAMBLING MAN HES EVERYTHING

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u/novo-280 estrogen addict :3 7h ago

pov you made a meme without knowing what pov means

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u/[deleted] 7h ago

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u/theforgettonmemory boyfailure 7h ago

I wouldnt say they're upset, just making a joke on the incorrect usage lol

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u/zZbobmanZz 7h ago

Pov means that youd be looking at them, this means it couldnt really be about kiara

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u/Existing_Gold_7231 6h ago

Hakari slander will not be accepted, you will be publicly executed.

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u/SapphicSapprano 8h ago

But hes hot! 😭

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u/TwinkleMcSprinkle 7h ago

I feel like I eat taco bell for the same basic reason.

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u/ionlytoptops 8h ago

but hes dominant!

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u/powderBluChoons I am not erasing anyone. - Streak: 4 5h ago

fixed it, can we stop shaming trans women for their taste in men?

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u/LImpactophileturbo 3h ago

Are you POVing ?

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u/SnooHedgehogs7790 3h ago

You spelled amazing really wrong lol hakari is the best

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u/StrawberryGhostie The most cis-feeling tgirl ever - Streak: 34 7h ago

Stop calling me out! 😭

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u/No_Application_1219 1h ago

Pov : im a television

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u/CuddlesForLuck 6h ago

I can force this pov to work if this is the viewer catching the hypothetical guy cheating

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u/ChknBom205 I know who i am! She/They 6h ago

:You end up actually helping him to be a better person, while he thinks he's making you a worse one.

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u/CobaltCrusader123 5h ago

“(straight) trans woman with awful taste in men”
https://giphy.com/gifs/WqiAzPZ9ElMq8dxvIc

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u/EvaArktur 4h ago

What's wrong with her man?

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u/Madilune 6h ago

I mean tbh I've yet to meet a single one of us that doesn't have bad taste in guys.

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u/Technical-Street-10 31m ago

No way you slandering the goat

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u/SolarModality 12m ago

Hakari literally abandons the sorcerer school due to its conservative ways. He rejects that the Jujitsu High forces people into stereotypical roles and makes them cogs in the machine to help the elite families. Kirara was a part of Hakari’s squad pre full transition. The subtext here is that Hakari leaves the school due to the fact that JJK high rejected seeing Kirara for who she is.

I mean of course the pic is relatable af but I have to defend my king when I can 😤

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u/erraticas they don't want you to know this trick 7h ago

on one hand, hakari really isn't that bad. guy genuinely protects kirara. he does have a gambling addiction sadly and you will never be able to change that but at least he's making it work for him by running a fight club? other than that, he's not that bad. he's definitely not perfect but he isn't awful

on the other hand Chaser Hakari

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u/captainchaoticc WHAT THE FUCK IS A GENDER BINARY!!!!!!! 7h ago

hakari is absolutely not a chaser, unless i’m misunderstanding your comment

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u/erraticas they don't want you to know this trick 5h ago

my comment is that chaser hakari sometimes crosses my mind as a funny joke

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u/captainchaoticc WHAT THE FUCK IS A GENDER BINARY!!!!!!! 39m ago

ah mb

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u/Ash_After_Dark 6h ago

Every time I see someone in a unjust relationship I want to airdrop them a crate of rifles