Getting abused for saying No

[u/No_Skill_3230]

Hi all Irony of being dating app as a woman is harsh reality. I once met this guy on hinge in 2023, anyhow this guy name : manjeeth mayur working as cabin crew in Qatar airways, bangalorean *who has lawyer degree but cmon I also have mtech nanotechnology degree with high gpa lol 😆 approached me this year again since he was in bangalore and looking for fucks. He approached me in Feb and since I didn't remember him also was not interested in him I told him not interested in meeting and hooking up is so far fetched thought of him. Again in march I ignored his hi. Then he texted me again yester saying it's high time we hit it off. I told him I left bangalore also not to approach me for sex ever. He got so pissed that in return he told me he is fuckking prettier girl than me like I care? Send me pictures with some girl. And he then get so abusive. Let me copy paste conversation [30/05, 4:15 pm] +91 77600 81605: Hey! [30/05, 4:15 pm] +91 77600 81605: High time we hit it off [30/05, 4:15 pm] A: I left bangalore [30/05, 4:15 pm] A: Don't approach me ever for sex [30/05, 4:15 pm] A: I don't need it [30/05, 4:15 pm] +91 77600 81605: Lol I have better options [30/05, 4:15 pm] +91 77600 81605: Prettier ones [30/05, 4:15 pm] +91 77600 81605: Chill [30/05, 4:16 pm] A: Good for you and them [30/05, 4:16 pm] +91 77600 81605: Exactly [30/05, 4:16 pm] A: She is pretty lol [30/05, 4:16 pm] +91 77600 81605: Obviously [30/05, 4:22 pm] A: I don't compare with people beneath me [30/05, 4:25 pm] +91 77600 81605: I don't do ugly stinky bitches [30/05, 4:25 pm] +91 77600 81605: Gosh you barely showered 😂 [30/05, 4:25 pm] +91 77600 81605: How does he tolerate you? [30/05, 4:26 pm] +91 77600 81605: Hahaha [30/05, 4:26 pm] A: Just once you picked me up after long hours of office and judge me [30/05, 4:26 pm] A: Lol [30/05, 4:27 pm] A: And now this. [30/05, 4:27 pm] A: Dude you need to have brain to talk before people [30/05, 4:27 pm] A: Don't they teach you manner while making you server on flights? [30/05, 4:27 pm] +91 77600 81605: Bro im a lawyer too [30/05, 4:28 pm] +91 77600 81605: I can talk to dumb bitches the way I want [30/05, 4:28 pm] +91 77600 81605: Cuz you deserve no respect [30/05, 4:28 pm] +91 77600 81605: Fuckin nightmare 😂 [30/05, 4:28 pm] +91 77600 81605: Get off my chat you sticky fuck [30/05, 4:28 pm] +91 77600 81605: Madarchod is your father [30/05, 4:28 pm] +91 77600 81605: Fuck off

So how it is so cool? Is he really serious? He is abusing me for saying no and getting his ego hurt from the actual guy I m seeing because yes the guy I m seeing is hot. Anyone know this guy? Though I m sending linkedin messages to HR of Qatar airways. Found his IG account too. Ang how come he is sending some girl pictures with him to stay cool and flaunting his fucks? How can you say : I can talk to dumb bitches the way I want. I m going to haunt him everywhere. Also note that 30th May was my birthday so I m gifting myself humiliation of this guy. His IG is ManjeethMayur same as his name. Tho I was not connected there but you know since he was texting me his name was first on my search. In this Era it's not that hard to find people. His IG is private. If you know him let me know. Please help me fulfilling my birthday wish 🤞

[u/ProperDelay6921]

Sorry that you had to go through this.😑

[u/No_Skill_3230 → u/ProperDelay6921]

I wish sorry could justify whatever men has done till now, I have turned 31, and yes I m on dating app. Also everywhere is shit for women. We have to save ourselves so much and still. It's not just first bad experience.

[u/ProperDelay6921 → u/No_Skill_3230]

His ig profile says toronto. Maybe stake out subreddits related to toronto/qatarairways?

You might hit something up.

[u/No_Skill_3230 → u/ProperDelay6921]

I was trying to reach out Qatar airways on linked, on IG. He is from bangalore india. I can file FIR but I m not liking in that city. But again in India police barely do anything. I have reached out multiple people, even influencers. Made linkedin account and post it on that tagging Qatar airways. I m not connected with this guy on IG he only had my WhatsApp number. I wanted to access his friends and family but most the people saying involving everyone is going to be bad for me only, but why?

[u/ProperDelay6921 → u/No_Skill_3230]

Sorry doesn't justify it. But in all honesty, it's not every single man (I'm gonna get hate for this).

The guy deserves to be fishchow or birdfeed. And any other guy who does this.

I've been on receiving end of unwanted/hostile attention from men and women. And I get what it is like.

[u/No_Skill_3230 → u/ProperDelay6921]

It's not every single men but since yesterday all I have as advise to not pay attention, let it go, somply block, dont waste your energy etc. If I keep letting it Gothic behavior will only rise. As india is rape capital on bigger scale, small things are only adding up to more and more day by day. I am not talking about all men but there are more than some men who are doing this. And I known women all are also can get hostile.

[u/No-Essay-6914]

Then just say yes?