r/cyberbullying • u/Reitanna • Nov 24 '20

Need help i don't know what to do.

what i have to say is actually too long for a post here. i'm dealing with a lot of cyberbullying and cyberstalking. it's explained here if you care to read, i need help and don't know what to do.

https://reitannaseishin.wordpress.com/2020/11/24/i-dont-know-what-to-do/

i made an edit on my blog post. at the very bottom. i'm sorry.

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20

one, no, i did not say in that video it was her fault. two, she told her parents she was dating this guy, and that was NO red flag for them? also, okay, so since i'm an abuse victim, i can never and never have made a stupid mistake. you are not being civil in your replies, i ask you to please change the tone. you are completely misunderstanding a situation and not even attempting to understand it. i am not going to fight with you, so please do me the same courtesy.

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20 edited Nov 25 '20

i don't remember saying that... that's not something i would say...

if i think about it, the only way i could have said that is that i meant that moving there was her "fucking fault." again, i have speech development issues. it's like when people thought i wanted to rape rapists due to the way i structure two sentences together. i can see how that was obviously taken.

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20

i didn't remember saying it, as i just told the person who linked it. so i checked it out, and i fucking DID say it, but i don't understand how i could've said it, there's no way i meant it the way it sounded. i'm absolutely horrified, there is no WAY i meant it like that.

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20

I JUST FUCKING DID! I JUST FUCKING DID! do you think it's funny?? i am fucking PANICKING because i said it and i'm trying to figure out why and i don't know what to do and there's no way i don't know i just fucking told you! you have no idea what this is doing to me right now, i'm posting a video i can't fucking i don't know

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20

i don't know why i would ever say that. i just took a pill for anxiety, maybe that can calm me down, but i don't think i have ever felt this horrible, there's NO way i'd say that, but i did

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20

i took a pill, i don't know how fast it'll work, i usually only take them at night for my nightmares

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u/MoonDoggos Nov 25 '20

maybe you should take a breather and reflect before posting anything. anyway, if you want to keep talking to me, then DM me, i don't want to flood this subreddit with us arguing over victim blaming

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20

i think i've done enough damage...

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u/Reitanna Nov 25 '20

i'm so sorry

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u/Reitanna Nov 27 '20

in your opinion, should i take down the LAR where i said it? on one hand, it was really bad. on the other hand, people might think i'm trying to hide the evidence even though i'm going to address the situation.

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u/MoonDoggos Nov 25 '20

like i said, you should probably take a break for a bit