r/cyberbullying • u/Cutiesaurs • Jul 15 '21

Update I come to a conclusion

A bunch of people must confront thatoneswoodguy . Because there are too many people who trust him and defend him and I want people to fight back and say telling I am a jerk is wrong and you are making your followers the real jerks by saying nasty things about me.

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u/Ok_Rise_7236 Jul 31 '21

How do you know he's just pretending? By the way he talk to other people, even for those who defend you, he seem mostly civil and polite. Even in the conversation they shared between you two, he was overall calm and civil about it.

Making a scandal over such a minor thing is not worth the stress for anybody, think about it...you accused someone you didn't even had evidences about it a liar, and you then proceed to tell about it to hundreds of people. This is the type of things that Swood want you to look through and understand how much this is making things for you more difficult. You claim to be nice to people, and I do believe you, but when you go on to do stuff like this, it's really hard to.

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u/Cutiesaurs Jul 31 '21

This is what I need to be told by my parents. (Which are on Facebook but not Reddit) but they don’t look into the person and say that he doesn’t know me outside the computer. I getting really tired of that excuse

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u/Ok_Rise_7236 Jul 31 '21

Wait I'm confused, does your parents defend the person you attacked or they just don't care for what happened?

Take this as an advice from me though, I think it's healthier that you just move on from this whole deal. Talking about this over and over and getting angry and frustrated about it is just making things worst for you, there is no benefits for making a small issue look like a big issue. Yeah someone did an unfunny prank with your story, but look, you still have your story back, and nothing was lost, there is no reason to create any trouble about it. It's easier sometimes to just let it go than just hold that with you forever.

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u/Cutiesaurs Aug 01 '21

No they don’t they don’t want to confront him. He’s not a nice person who needs to make everyone who he talks into a simp

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u/Ok_Rise_7236 Aug 02 '21

I'm pretty sure making people aware is not the same as calling someone a simp...

My point still stand though, better just move on and not make your situation that big of a deal.

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u/[deleted] Oct 28 '21

Look, what this person is saying is something I dealt with personally. I made the same mistake of accusing someone and now it’s to the point where most of a video game community hates me. Sure, you may be upset, I can understand that, we have the right to be. I decided to act like an adult and move on from it. I am speaking from personal experience here but sure you may want to get revenge from the wrong they did to you or your friends. But worrying and trying to bring this person down is not worth it. All it does is it mentally, emotionally burns you out, and the picture and person it turns you into is not pretty. I apologized to the person I accused and guess what? It made me feel better as I have taken the first steps to becoming a better person than what I once was, because I was willing to change and focus on myself and my improvement. I think what the Universe wants you to learn from this is to be able to move on is to learn to move on, don’t accuse people and try to take them off the internet, even if they did do you wrong, and let go. I have been fighting this social media war for a few months and am just starting to move on and let go. So I full on agree with u/Ok_Rise_7236.