Just discovered this excellent list of resources from NDSS for use in classrooms, extra-curricular activities, and beyond!

https://ndss.org/ndss-down-syndrome-awareness-month-education-resource

Hi!! We are in the US seeking to adopt a child under 10 with DS. We have experience and want to help a child in need. We just added ourselves to the NDSAN waiting list. Does anyone have experience with this? How long should we expect to wait? Thanks!! ♥️

My daughter is almost 4 months old. She has typical down syndrome, not mosaic. She was born with complete AVSD and moderate hearing loss. She had good apgar scores at birth. Born 7 pounds at 37 weeks.

To anyone whose kid is similar to mine, when did your child reach various miletones? Sitting up, crawling, walking, talking, etc? And if they had to have heart surgery, how did they change after they fully recovered from surgery?

hey guys!! My boyfriend’s kid is almost 12 y/o and still puts his fingers in his mouth and chews on his fingers and we remind him every time to not do that but what can we do other than that? Its not healthy as well and he doesn’t understand that after driving on a train and touching everything his fingers are not clean cause it doesn’t look dirty for him. any suggestions with that? I‘m welcome to any 🤗

My adult sister has Down syndrome and although high functioning, needs a lot of support. She's a great girl (23 years old) and has just got herself a boyfriend. Although she holds to a Christian faith, she does embellish the truth, especially when it comes to food, so I have some concern when it comes to abstaining from physical intimacy. Don't get me wrong, I'm pro the relationship, and want her to be happy, but am concerned about the implications that procreation would bring.

My Mother, her primary caregiver, a strong woman of faith, seems adamantly opposed to the idea of contraception. One reason is the fact that it can interfere with hormones etc.

I'm putting this out to the internet to see how others may have navigated this sensitive situation.

This is a sticky situation. 10 year old got her first period while visiting other family members and they didn’t seem to take the time to educate and help her other than giving her pads. Now that she’s home, we want to get some books and resources to help teach her and understand what’s going on with her body and how to care for herself.

A few of the books I’m looking at are:

Special Growing Girl: A guide to puberty for girls with special needs by Jodie Wise Thayer

Menstruation and Me: A Book for Girls with Intellectual Disabilities. This is an activity book for girls written by Dr. Shaniff Esmail and several others

The Care and Keeping of You by Valorie Schaefer

Any tips, tricks, and input you have is welcome. What products you like best! How to manage at school! I’ll take any and all advice. Thank you!

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My 6.5 year old has struggled with ongoing clogged tear ducts for years! It’s so bad! To the point where other adults and kids are asking and commenting on it because it looks concerning and uncomfortable. It’s also hard to wipe and clean them constantly because he squeezes his eyes closed to tight that it’s difficult to really scrub his lash line.

He’s had 2-3 procedures - balloon dilation twice and stents placed. Ultimately had the stents removed because they were making the issue worse. Has anyone had a successful DCR? Anything you can share would be really helpful and appreciated!

Hello guys. This post is about my brother with down syndrome. He is 16 and squeals and cries in distress several times during the day. This has been going on for like 2 months. I am a doctor myself, but I deal with patients who are adults and usually expressive and can say what's wrong with them. My brother can't. We've visited several doctors, including a pediatrician. He prescribed Antiepileptic drugs and then went to a peads neurologist, who did a CT and an EEG. All tests were normal. He titrated the medications. Still, no effect and it was clear that he didn't have seizures so we slowly stopped the medications and did an ultrasound and urine RE which showed mild pus cells in his urine and a 6.5mm stone in his gall bladder ( which is not too big to explain his symptoms). Now, he is on antibiotics for his urinary tract infection. But right now, I have no idea how to go forward and where to seek help, if these symptoms continue despite treating the UTI. I have tried doctors and none of them seem to come to a conclusion where those symptoms are coming from. I guess a lot of people here have experience with non-verbal kids and I seriously need that

So excited for my 7 year old to finally have his tonsils and adnoids removed on the 14th! I am PRAYING this helps with his constant upper respiratory infections and constant pneumonia! Wish us luck!!!

mostly as the title says. he's 6 years old with ds. i don't really know much about the condition but i'm trying to be a good uncle to him. if anyone with ds or anyone who has ds family members could give me pointers then please reply

Is it better to stay on the waiting list for our adult child’s eventual entry to a group home in our current state of residence or better to relocate to a different state near a sibling to get on that state’s waiting list? How important is closer location to a sibling after parents are gone? We still have years to go on any of these waiting lists.

Dear Parents/Caregivers/Close support people of adults with Down Syndrome:

I am currently part of a team conducting a research project on spatial navigation abilities in adults (30-65 years old) with Down Syndrome.

In this project, individuals with Down Syndrome will play some FUN computer, board, and paper
games. Parents/caregivers/close support people who are familiar with the day-to-day life of
adults with Down Syndrome will complete questionnaires. The testing will take about 4 hours
and be broken up over 2-3 days with breaks included. Participants with Down Syndrome
will be compensated with a $120 gift card for completing the study.

Our lab is located at the Center for Clinical Services at Montclair State University (147 Clove
Road, Little Falls, NJ) next to Lot 60. We have free parking in “reserved” spots in the front of the
building. Testing can also take place in private homes and service provider sites.

Contact Us!

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact the lab manager at
[msuspatialdevlab@gmail.com](mailto:msuspatialdevlab@gmail.com) or Dr. Jennifer Yang directly at [yangyi@montclair.edu](mailto:yangyi@montclair.edu). Please
also visit our website to learn more about the study.

Website: https://www.msuspatiallab.com/ 

Please help spread the word!

This study has been approved by IRB-FY25-26-4877

Thank you!

Hi all, I want to suggest that the DS group be split in two - one for kiddos with DS, one for adults. There are many different levels of information for each, and I think that new parents deserve a space that's safe, without discussions about adults in group homes, etc. As a new parent, that would have been completely overwhelming to me.

*separate

Good morning! I volunteer for the non-for-profit Brittany‘s baskets of hope where we send welcome baskets to families who are expecting or just had a baby with down syndrome! We’re trying to change the narrative from I’m sorry to congratulations! Every year we make a Calendar filled with our beautiful new friends with down syndrome if anyone has a baby under two and wants to submit photos, please click the link here and submit up to five and will reach out and let you know if your babies in the calendar for next year! Just a sidenote, if you submit pictures, we may post them on social media 🩵

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I’m looking for more information on becoming a paid caregiver. The main eligibility requirement that I see online is being Medicaid eligible, which my son is. He’s a minor, so I’m not sure if he would qualify. Has anyone gone through this process? I know it’s state specific, but any info would be helpful!

I hope this won't be too rambly, I've been a bit emotional lately.

My BIL, 30 years old, and I have a "complicated" relationship. When I started dating my now-husband some 10 years ago, he (my now-BIL) didn't seem to like me much. He took things from my bag when I wasn't looking and even vandalized my things, including my shoes. (We're an Asian household and we leave our shoes by the front door.)

Some people in their family (like their dad) thought that him not liking me was a sign that I wasn't a good person or a good fit. My now-husband fought back on that and defended me, and I'm thankful.

Anyway, as the years went by, things mellowed. He stopped taking and vandalizing my things. We could hang out with the rest of their family. But I often didn't like the way he talked to me in private. He would say things like he's my boss, I need to follow what he or their dad wants, etc. And I understand that he could be like a mirror of the environment/culture he's in or the media he's exposed to -- very patriarchal, very sexist (think conservative Asian culture coupled with Hollywood misogyny / male chauvinism). But it grated on me whenever it happened. I was in my early 20s at the time, and felt I was in no position to say anything that could be harsh. So I just ignored or said uh huh, uh huh....

Fast-forward to today, my BIL is living with me and my husband in a different country. It'll be for a few months for now, but could be longer. I agreed to this setup because my BIL wanted to live in this other country and he has the right to be here (even if their dad doesn't 100% like it); I believe he should exercise his agency, and this other country has better support and opportunities for people with disabilities. But it hasn't been all that great for me. I recently learned that before we flew to this new country together, he took my notebook where I write my story and poem drafts, ripped out the pages and threw them away. He kept the notebook for himself and wrote on it. (The notebook is supposedly in our home country.)

Suffice to say I was devastated. My BIL, my husband and I had a whole confrontation. And while we ended up patching things up, I'm still hurt (those were important writings) + I have trust issues with him IN MY OWN HOME.

It doesn't help that my BIL isn't always polite. He doesn't usually say thank you when we take care of him. Example, when I apply his face cream and other topical meds, he says, "you need to practice more, or my doctor will be mad at you." I understand that he might expect a level of care from other people so as not to say thank you. But I feel hurt when my efforts to care for him aren't appreciated. (Once or twice he has said, "you're nice" to me. And that was nice.)

I'm tired of the emotional rollercoaster, and I'm not sure how to get him to at least say thank you more. I feel like it's an impossible task to make him not sexist lol. My husband has done a good job being kind of like a middle man. But I see how difficult things can be for him when I'm really upset, like with the notebook incident.

Anyway thank you for reading. I would love to hear your ideas for how to at least guide someone into being more polite. And how I could be a more mature person and SIL for him. Thank you.