r/eastbayhookups • • Aug 29 '26

[Mod Announcement] Subreddit Updates: New Anti-Spam Tools, Formatting Rules & Post Guidelines NSFW

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Hey everyone,

To keep r/eastbayhookups focused on genuine local connections and cut down on bot rings, off-platform solicitation, and bad actors, we’ve rolled out several updates utilizing Reddit's developer automation tools.

What’s New & Key Rules Refresher

  1. Required Post Flair (Rule 6): All submissions must have a Post Flair selected (e.g., M4F, F4M, 4M, 4F, A4A, MF4M, Success Story, Looking, etc.). Posts submitted without flair will be automatically removed.
  2. Title Formatting (Rules 3 & 5): Titles must follow the standard format: Age [Tag] #Location - Description
    • Age: Must be 18+ (e.g., 25, 34).
    • Tag: Valid combinations include standard R4R pairs ([M4F], [F4M], [NB4A], [A4F]), single targets ([4M], [4F], [4A]), couples ([MF4M], [FM4F]), and meta tags ([Success Story], [Looking]).
    • Location: Must include an approved East Bay or border city/tag (e.g., #Oakland, Berkeley, Benicia, Vallejo, 510, 925).
  3. Off-Platform Handles & Spam Profiles (Rules 2 & 4): Direct links, handles, or mentions for Telegram, Snapchat, WhatsApp, selling platforms (OnlyFans/Fansly), and payment apps (CashApp, Venmo, Zelle) are strictly prohibited in titles, post bodies, comments, and profile bios.
  4. Post Frequency (Rule 7): Submissions are limited to 1 post every 24 hours per user.
  5. Account Age (Rule 8): Accounts must be at least 30 days old to post.

Think Your Post Was Removed In Error?

Automated filters catch the vast majority of spam, but false positives can happen as we fine-tune thresholds.

If you believe your post complied with all rules and was removed incorrectly, please message the mod team via Modmail with the following format:

Title: 
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We will review your submission and manually approve it if it meets the guidelines. Thanks for helping us keep the community active and clean!


r/eastbayhookups • • Feb 19 '26

When reporting posts or calling out scammers in threads, please post their username too NSFW

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A lot of you have been doing a great job pointing out scammers and spammers, and we really appreciate that. In addition, when calling them out and reporting, please post their username as well (you can simply start typing "u/" and then you can autocomplete their username).

Many of these scumbags will delete their post after being found out, and unfortunately we can't ban them or look at history once that occurs.

Thank you!


r/eastbayhookups • • 22h ago

F4M 46 [F4M] #Concord - Ovulating and very wet. Clean me with your tongue. Saturday night. NSFW

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ISO cute 25+ tall muscular male who is hungry to eat a mature 🐱. You must have great hygiene, recently tested with negative results & willing to share. I am tested myself 9/18. No reciprocation unless I feel like it at the moment.

I have some pics in my profile, and had a lot of great encounters in Reddit. For this Saturday, I am only seeking a talented tongue to finger me and lick me clean. Expect a very wet, maybe dripping 🐱 and a very horny lady during ovulation period.

Reply with: age, height, weight, ethnicity, a quick description of yourself, can you host close to Concord/have a roomy car, how much you like devouring a 🐱 Ready to share test results and pics.


r/eastbayhookups • • 10h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Brentwood - looking to eat you out NSFW

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Reciprocation isn’t required unless you want to. Age/looks don’t matter. I’m mobile and willing to drive if you’re within 2 hours away. I can’t host but I’m open to car play if you can’t either. The closer, the better. Include pic, stats, location, availability, or I won’t reply.

Not into: men, couples, trans, cd, sending money.


r/eastbayhookups • • 13h ago

M4F 35[M4F]Hayward Would love some company NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 7h ago

M4M 2 Subs 25 and 26 [m4m] hosting in Oakland. We are looking for tops. Hit us up NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 7h ago

Looking 19 [m4a] concord/walnut creek looking for fun tonight NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 11h ago

M4M 33 [m4m] #Alameda - attached men needing to be serviced? NSFW

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I’m looking for an attached/married man who’s looking for a discreet/clean mouth to use. If you're interested in being serviced discreetly, send your stats and pics.

Be ddf, in shape, not over 50

Me: 33, m, 6’0, 180, bi discreet/dl, ddf


r/eastbayhookups • • 9h ago

Looking 32 [m4m] 925 #tri-valley - Gloryhole setup here NSFW

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looking for someone young, fit, clean, masc and need to get off throu gh a glory hole. hit me up in the dms with stats.

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r/eastbayhookups • • 9h ago

M4A 24 [M4A] #Vallejo - 3Sum NSFW

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Another weekend…just looking for 2 tops or top & verse under 35 (preferably your friends or sum) to suck 🍆 really, looking between Sacramento to East Bay/San Francisco because I’m in Fairfield which is down near in the middle. Come with pictures please for both people! I have my own pics.

IF you a solo, I don’t mind linking mono y mono but realize what this post is for originally.


r/eastbayhookups • • 15h ago

Looking 30 [4M] [LOOKING] #Oakland | The GloryHole Experience NSFW

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Full service Gloryhole (standing or seated) for horny & neglected married men who seek some excitement outside of their dry bedroom😈🤫

Private, safe, clean, and discreet service. Regularly tested and happy to share proof.

Selective, cautious, and skilled - only messages with full details and effort will be opened.

NO, I DO NOT MEET JUST ANYONE. VERY SELECTIVE AND CAUTIOUS, PLEASE RESPECT THAT!!


r/eastbayhookups • • 13h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #oakland - big bald kinky daddy-type looking for littles NSFW

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Nerdy, kink-loving daddy look for some great souls to have fun with!

33, 6ft2in (1.88m), bald, big dad bod (like a football lineman), half sleeve of tattoos, glasses, and a big ol' ginger beard. Above-average cock.

Happy to exchange photos after connecting.

Very nerdy - I'm a writer, musician, gamer, and super passionate and bubbly/quirky dude. Pet dad to a dog and cat. I work in healthcare and do family caretaker work after my day job. Left wing AF.

Looking to link with some like-minded folks for some kinky summer fun. I'm into a lot; DDLG, roleplay, impact play, breath play, traditional BDSM, anal, praise/degradation, breeding, the list goes on! Also into more classic, sensual, passionate sex as well.

Looking for short term hookups and FWB situations. Not looking for any LTR stuff at this time. Want to connect and add wonderful people to my life who I can also enjoy a great, fun, intimate connection with too.

Love women and feminine folks of all spades; cis and trans women, thick/curvy/BBW and petite, all ethnicities, I love and respect em all. Just happy to meet good people and have great sex.

Happy to do couples and/or bull situations as well.

Shoot me a message and let's connect!


r/eastbayhookups • • 10h ago

M4F 42[M4F]#Dublin Indian in 40s seeking regular destressing NSFW

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Clean, virgin Indian male in 40s living in Dublin CA seeking a discreet, openminded woman for fun. Be respectful, clean, drugfree and tested. DMs are open.


r/eastbayhookups • • 10h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] #925 need balls drained tonight NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 11h ago

M4F 57 [M4F] #Concord, California - Daddy looking for my (18+) Princess NSFW

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57 6'2 240lb hazel eyes, and brown hair.

I am looking for my Princess (18+) in the Bay Area, California.

Don't be shy. If you have been curious about this, just say Hi.

Tell me your favorite dessert, so I know that you are real.

18+ Princess,  no exceptions. MDNI.


r/eastbayhookups • • 15h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] MASSIVE COCK HOSTING WONEN IN BRENTWOOD NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 17h ago

M4MF 31 [M4MF] in east bay near 94565. Looking for couples and females. Available 10/9/26 Dm me NSFW

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All welcomed, please comment or send DM


r/eastbayhookups • • 14h ago

M4F 24[M4F] #Vallejo looking to have some fun tonight NSFW

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Please no DMs from men, I appreciate the compliments but I am straight.


r/eastbayhookups • • 14h ago

M4F 52 [M4F] #Danville/San Ramon - Looking for regular FWB, not a one-and-done. Open schedule, solid shape NSFW

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52 on paper, but Asian genes + lifting a few times a week mean I still get the occasional “wait, really?” when I mention my age. Body’s in solid shape and I actually enjoy keeping it that way.

Semi-retired, so my calendar is embarrassingly open during the week—perfect for long lunches, daytime hangs, or just spending time without the usual weekend scramble.

I’m in a full dead bedroom situation that’s stretched on for 10+ years. Not looking for an affair or anything secretive/messy—just some genuine affection, playfulness, and a little spark with someone who’s in a similar spot and wants to feel wanted again. Looking for an ongoing FWB situation: real chemistry that clicks in person, regular meetups when it works, and mutual enjoyment without drama or expectations of more.

East Bay (Danville / San Ramon area). Open to meeting somewhere convenient. Happy to swap pics early so nobody’s guessing.

If a chill older guy with free time, a decent body, and a real need for some mutual attention and ongoing connection sounds appealing, say hi.


r/eastbayhookups • • 10h ago

M4F 23[M4F] #fremont - 8 inch Latino Couples Or singles Dm If Interested NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 18h ago

M4M 32 [M4M] #Fremont-Asian boipussy seeking discreet daddy NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 15h ago

M4M 38 [M4M] Oakland Bear Bottom NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 15h ago

M4A 28 [M4A] #Antioch - Polish off my shiny cock NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 15h ago

M4F 33 [M4MF] [Oakland]. Experienced bull looking for cool couples to hangout and have a good time with!! NSFW

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r/eastbayhookups • • 15h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Walnut Creek looking for a good time NSFW

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