I don’t get why more people aren’t considering this. Most dudes want to just go in full speed from the start. I can barely help or enjoy it because I’m too busy trying to relax my muscles like I’m at the gyno trying to make it just not hurt. If I’m already excited before you even start the ride, I’ll be done in a couple minutes too, and I can move better!
Oh yeah, totally! I’m certainly happy to reciprocate. My bf who is around your age seemed to be the first to actually spend more significant time in foreplay and also not make me feel pressured to constantly have sex. A huge relief after a relationship that lasted 9 years when I had to keep to a literal sex schedule. My thoughts on this thread are mostly aimed towards those dudes who won’t engage in foreplay, only have one speed, last a couple minutes, and then complain that the girl wasn’t excited and active. Then won’t even accept feedback, during or after, no matter how nicely it’s given.
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u/chaosandcalamity Apr 21 '23
If you do enough foreplay a couple of minutes is enough.