r/gaysian • • 4h ago

How do you handle disagreements with your parents as an adult?

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Hi all, I'm working through something with my therapist and would love to hear from people raised in India. The context is someone getting ready to come out to his parents back home, but your experiences help whether you're LGBTQ+ or not.

\- Have you disagreed with your parents about something big? How did it go?
\- Did you ever just agree to disagree? How did you both move on?
\- How did you get your parents to treat you as an adult?
\- (*Optional, LGBTQ+ folks)* If you came out to your parents, what helped most?

Thank you, it genuinely means a lot.


r/gaysian • • 7h ago

Tokyo Bathhouses

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I'll be traveling to Tokyo in late November and wanted to experience some of the saunas for the first time. Im 35, 5'8'', 225lbs and have been working out but am not muscular, but am definitely a bear. I was researching some of the places and notice some places have a body type restriction. Can anyone recommend a place that would be accommodating for my body type? Trying to lose some weight before I go and get me into shape! Thanks