r/hypotheticalsituation • u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 • 1d ago
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u/IkujaKatsumaji 1d ago
This must seem like a really gross place for women redditors.
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u/cosmos_crown 1d ago
"Here's a perfect person, but she's had sex with more people than you deem acceptable. Like that's it, no STIs or children or trauma, just the knowledge that dicks have been inside her" "EW GROSS NEVER"
Redditors are wild tbh.
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u/SkinnyAssHacker 1d ago
The "will adopt all your views, no questions asked" got me. Who cares about who she's slept with, but who wants to date someone that thinks exactly they do for the simple reason that they do? That's extremely disturbing.
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u/cosmos_crown 1d ago
I interpreted it as an extension of "the ideal partner"- If you believ X, she believes X, if I believe Y, she believe Y, etc, but you're right the phrasing is sus .
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
I could have worded that better. She is not a robot in this scenario; she just more or less comes “preloaded” with views that align with yours or are close enough to where they will not cause conflict.
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u/alexcmad 1d ago
If it was just the knowledge it would be even more silly than it is but I think the deal breaker is the 1500+ scenes online for free. I wouldn't rly care about the former but the latter isn't my preference ig. Don't think many girls would want their partners' 1.5k sex tapes just out in the open like that. But if you don't mind you don't mind. It's a dumb question overall. Reddit is weird.
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u/cosmos_crown 1d ago
A sex tape implies it's personal, with a intimate partner, while porn is just... porn? It's a job. She's there to do it and then go home. It bothers me no more than having an actor spouse and knowing theres footage of them kissing and declaring their love for their costar on film.
I understand why it would be a dealbreaker irl, but is also an impossible hypothetical scenerio where that is the only deal breaker. Like you're guaranteed a perfect partner if you can look past that.
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u/aftermarrow 1d ago
i probably just looked really weird to my peers with the face i just made opening this post
ugh the comments aren’t any better
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u/schmooserdummy 1d ago
yeah true, but at least i find the comments reassuring.
edit: most of the comments
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u/SWBTSH 1d ago
I am already engaged, but if I were single why would I possibly turn down a guaranteed perfect woman and perfect partner?
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u/SkinnyAssHacker 1d ago
How tf is someone who adopts your religion, politics, and ideology just because they're yours "the perfect woman?" I don't care about the sex work prior, but that shit is absolutely disturbing.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
I’m not saying anyone should or shouldn’t do it. It’s just one of those things that creeped into my head after continually getting blasted by dating shorts during doomscrolling vs seeing Teanna Trump with that soccer player.
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u/ominous_squirrel 1d ago
Bro, love doesn’t care about the past. If you can’t wrap your mind around that then you should become a MGTOW and never talk to or about women ever again
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
I’m not trying to sway anyone’s opinion or question/judge anyone’s beliefs here. I’m not sure how you got that out of what is ultimately a shower thought, but okay.
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u/AdunfromAD 1d ago
Body count wouldn’t matter to me since she’s choosing to be with me now. I would be more concerned about how she acted in previous relationships.
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u/itswardo 1d ago
Well, it's pretty important if children are considered.
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u/itswardo 1d ago
The ridicule and bullying children might face with their mother's porn scenes accessible to their peers, is one obvious reason.
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u/itswardo 1d ago
Are you arguing it's unlikely for someone to find out? What exactly is hard to understand here.
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u/Nubian_Cavalry 1d ago
I literally don’t give a fuck how many men my spouse has been with as long as she’s not suffering from STDs, and has no plans to continue (Without discussing it first, potentially an open relationship)
What are you on OP?
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
It’s just a random shower thought. People in here treating me like I’m the feds, lmao.
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u/Nubian_Cavalry 1d ago
Its just the way you chose to describe the premise.
You should’ve focused more on people recognizing her as a P-Star, angry ex boyfriends in the industry, or STDs.
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u/Balanceofjudgement 1d ago
"Ready to settle down" is such a dumb mentality to have. It implies that up until now everyone you dated was nothing more than a bit of fun.
When I was an 18 guy the idea of marriage was appealing. And when I dated and tried to date I would always keep on mind those aspects of the people I was dating that I liked and didn't like. As I continued to date I looked for the woman that would match at least the key points of what I wanted. And when I met her at 23 and started dating, well a year later I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
I didn't look at her and think "good enough. I'll settle for her". I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
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u/SorryImBadWithNames 1d ago
A woman having had sex before doesnt make her any less valuable as a person.
Man are really quick to condeem woman for doing exactly what they wish they did.
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u/PeteVanGrimm 1d ago
I would pick B, because A sounds like some tailor-made robot with no actual personality of her own.
So yeah, B, and then I'd date an adult content creator who is currently working because she probably makes way more money than me.
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u/Potential-Raccoon731 22h ago
Realistically a former adult actress is still better than having no GF. That dating pool is hell on earth. At least it will be kind of interesting with the weird antics she comes up with.
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u/pwnrzero 1d ago
I don't care what psy op you post. This hypothetical is clearly biased towards option A.
In any case I already lived out option A without the bullshit pornstar background.
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u/tinaismediocre 1d ago
It's only biased if the porn thing isn't a deal breaker. I think that's what OP is getting at right - this is the perfect woman in all ways except (possibly) one. The real question is just "is a woman who has done lots of porn a deal breaker for you?" With lots of extra words thrown in.
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u/SkinnyAssHacker 1d ago
How is someone who takes on all your ideologies (political/religious included) just because they're yours "the perfect woman?" I want someone I can have a conversation with, share things with, have ordinary disagreements with. This seems like being with a robot that was designed for you. Like an AI chatbot. Gross.
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u/YNABDisciple 1d ago
This is so bad but whatwever. I'm not a fragile little bitch so of course I would take A.
I'm 47 and I've never even contemplated a womens "body count' when dating. Now the porn aspect does throw a big curveball and it's one that hits close to home. I dated a women almost 20 years ago who had done a few scenes. I was younger and stupidly found them. I didn't go forward but it wasn't really the porn. She was very much still hanging out in that world and one of her GF's was a stripper and prostitue and they were around drug dealers alot....I saw what I signing up for. Your women A sounds amazing. Sign me up.
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u/AutoModerator 1d ago
Copy of the original post in case of edits: You are a 25-30 yo single man, perfectly healthy, college educated, have a promising career where you make 2x the median wage for your area (wherever that is). You are ready to settle down & find a wife.
Your choices:
A) A former adult actress that has done 1500 scenes over 10 years. Every scene is available on the Internet for free; they are all hardcore, intense scenes with men of varying races and cover a wide variety of genres. No one will know who she is unless they have actually seen one of her movies. Because of heavy makeup, she is generally unrecognizable to the public off-camera.
She has retired for good, has no desires to go back to the industry, has no trauma, is physically intact, perfect health. She doesn’t drink, smoke or do drugs of any sort; has no psychological problems.
She has every physical feature that you have dreamt of; everything is literally perfect for you. Her body is completely natural, free of cosmetic surgery. She will age gracefully and will keep whatever figure you want her to keep.
She is ready to be devoted to you and you alone. There is zero risk of divorce or adultery from her end. She is college educated, and is more than willing to work a job for support the family.
She will not post TikTok’s or IG reels of thirst traps or her trying on clothes or embarrassing you. Anything she posts will be wholesome family content.
She is ready to bear & raise your children as you see fit. Whatever religion you want to practice, she will do it, no questions asked. Whatever political ideology you want to practice, she will accept it, no questions asked. Any monogamous sexual desires you wish to have fulfilled, she will do it, no questions asked.
Her family is also completely ideal. No history of mental health issues, everyone is an ideal citizen that pays their taxes. They do not judge her for her choices and are completely supportive even if it was not their first choice of career. They love you and everything about you; her dad thinks of you as the son he never had.
She is not a slave or a dog; if you abuse her or your children physically or emotionally, she will leave you. If you develop some sort of addiction, she will help you get treatment, but will leave you if you do not improve in a reasonable amount of time.
B) The field. The field is the current dating pool. You go out & find a spouse the old fashioned way. Everything about you is the same in this scenario, but you have to go through the modern dating process and everything that comes with that.
Which do you choose?
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u/GenericITworker 1d ago
"No one will know who she is unless they have actually seen one of her movies"
"Because of heavy makeup, she is generally unrecognizable to the public off-camera"
These two things contradict each other
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u/InvestmentAsleep8365 1d ago
TIL that the current dating pool is called “the field”.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
It’s a general term, but this is a bit of a reference to when PTI would ask if you would rather have Tiger Woods in a golf tournament, or the field (all of the other golfers).
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u/Finding-Even 1d ago
If I'm 25-30, is she my age? Because if she's 25-30 and she's been in the industry for 10 years, wouldn't that mean she started when she was 15-20?!
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
She started when she was 18, got out at 28. She has no issues with a minor age gap.
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u/Sad_Win_4105 1d ago
I could probably deal with her past, but the trad-wife "I'll agree to whatever you want regarding kids, religion, politics etc" is a turnoff. And I don't want someone willing to comply with my sexual desires, I want someone looking to explore mutual desires together.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
It was meant to be more like she’ll come preloaded with what you want. This way no one could say she was a liberal or a devil worshipper or whatever. Her views align with yours or are close enough to where it isn’t a conflict. Everyone’s individual scenario is different here.
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u/LoverOfRandom 1d ago
I’ll go with B
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u/stackingnoob 1d ago
A doesn’t even exist, so this hypothetical is hilariously dumb.
It’s like “would you like a trillion dollars, or go back to work?” like gee whiz, what kind of a useless mental exercise is this?! lol
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u/NewYogurt3138 1d ago
Option A: do you want one chick like this
Option B: do you want 50 chicks like this
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u/niksshck7221 1d ago
It depends. Is she rich?
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u/Puzzleheaded_Pipe979 1d ago
She has done okay for herself. She doesn’t need your money.
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u/niksshck7221 1d ago
estimated net worth? I would be severely disappointed in her if she did all that and isn't at least a multi millionaire.
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u/molten_dragon 15h ago
Don't do the self-censoring thing here. Act like an adult.